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Does your boyfriend jack off in front of you? guys why do you do it?

my boyfriend of 5 years jacks off every morning and night, its pretty gross. I think of masturbating as a private thing. I have told him I think it is nasty that he does it in front of me but he still does it... is my boyfriend the only guy who does this?

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  • sounds pretty passive aggressive to me. Either he gets off on you not liking it or you guys aren't having sex as much as he wants so he's punishing you by doing it in front of you to make his point. either way he sounds like a d***(no pun intended)...just sayin'

What Guys Said 6

  • You two are not going to last.

    • y you say that?

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    • Basically. You may have a 'normal' sex drive, but your drives seem pretty out of whack.

    • This guy is correct.

  • Unless we are having sex or my Girlfriend asked me, I wouldn't do that. I'm kinda private about it like you. I would say its a bit strange, But not totally crazy. I bet there are other guys out there who would be comfortable doing it. Either jump in and help him out, or simply tell him you really don't like him doing it out of the blue and in front of you and hopefully he'll respect that or compromise with you.

    • i have told him I don't like it, he stops for couple days and then goes right back to it

    • Yeah that's a bit odd. I'm not sure what to tell you other than just keep insisting he stop and hopefully he'll eventually realize how badly it irritates you.

  • I only do it when my partner asks me to. Usually if we are away from each other and cybering or she feels like watching, but not having sex.Anyway, I don't think it matters what I or other guys do. Even if your boyfriend was the only guy in the world who does that, there would be nothing wrong with it. The problem is that he is ignoring your request, and that's bad no matter if it's about sex or about anything else.

  • Perhaps he is trying to indicate he is undersexed. Girls are generally prone to passive-aggressive behavior / communication but its not impossible that a guy might try to communicate in a passive-aggressive fashion.Guys have a physiological imperative to Cum. However sex is almost always preferable to masturbation. Could he be (in an overly disgustingly fashion) attempting to communicating that lack of sex is resulting in him having to take matters in hand personally?I do have to say -as a guy- that is really disgusting and I do not understand.

    • we have sex all the time! he would have sex 24/7 if he could. its getting annoying that that is all he wants to do

    • Back in my 20s my girlfriend and I would do it twice a day a good 3-4 times a week and I would take matters in hand at least once a day. A guy with a a high sex drive is not unreasonable. If his sex drive is that high and he is feeling unsatisfied I can't say that he's going to cheat but he will certainly think about sex with other women alot. At least on some level in his head he will have a grass is greener thought process where he thinks that other women might be able to keep up with him sexually.

  • I am a bit curious why if you are present he has to masturbate instead of some kind of interaction with you?Only when part of our playing would I masturbate in front of someone else.

    • we live together

    • I think that is exactly my point! Why are you not giving him a hand with this along with you getting something yourself?

    • he does it EVERYDAY 2 times a day, don't get me wrong I love having sex but after while is gets annoying, I mean we can't even cuddle without him getting hard

  • sorry..but twice a day IS normal...all that needs to be decided is whether you are going to help or where he is going to do it...(:

What Girls Said 8

  • The worlds masturbation champion jacks off like 24/7 even while his girlfriend is there. He'll be jackin' off and she'll be sewing or cooking in the same room. She even times it for him.

  • haha I don't know what to advice you because I like watching my boyfriend when he does it:D why don't you make him blowjob when you see him doing it?

    • he does it EVERYDAY at first it was a turn on but now its getting nasty, I don't see how someone could want to do it 2 times a day everyday

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    • "why don't you make him blowjob when you..." LOL nice engrish! :) but good advice!

    • Her English beats my italian.

  • Jacking off (when your S/O is not joining you) is something that should only be done when he or she is not present.

  • If you have sex regularly, then it's hard to say why he is doing this. Since it bothers you, you should talk to him about it. Don't tell him it is gross or nasty. Instead, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable because you view solo masturbation as a private act. Ask him to respect your feelings and personal boundaries by not doing it in front of you. Either you can leave or he can. If you want to know why he is doing it- and why he hasn't listened to you in the past- you will have to ask him.

  • Well I love to see my guy doing it although he doesn't do it everyday. I think if he would I 'd probably get sick of the same routing. Your guy should do his stuff in the bathroom or something and from time to time let you enjoy the show :P . Tell him to go the bathroom, because the everyday routine is making you uncomfortable.

    • i told him to go to the bathroom and he says he likes to do it laying down and he cnt lay down in the bathroom lol

    • Ok, I was thinking the same thing. I get the laying down thing so why don't you leave the room. I've never been a fan of jerking it in the bathroom either. Privacy can be hard to find when you live together. Seems to me you're making a bigger deal than it needs to be.

  • LOLwhy don't you join him?

  • I think it's sexy AF when a guys does it in front of me so I can't help you

    • :) lol that's cool. I find it awkward but I wish more girls were like this.

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