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How do I tell her I have a biting fetish?

My wife and I are newlyweds and we have had our fair share of sexual encounters. However she has mentioned she doesn't feel that I'm enjoying it as much as I used to. This is because I really get turned on by biting, her biting me specifically. I don't mean gently either, I want it to hurt. -How do I tell her this is what I want? -Is that an unusual desire? -Anybody else have any strange fetishes?: use of anon feature is there for a reason ;) -SHOULD I tell her that I want her to bite?
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People have fetishes, but that one is unusual...
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  • If I were in that position I'd say something like, "I know you've noticed I haven't been enjoying sex as much lately. I think since we're married, it's important that we're open and honest about what we want. I've been a bit hesitant to tell you because I don't know how you'll feel about it, but the idea of getting bitten really turns me on. I'm really hoping you will be a little open minded, and consider exploring this with me. It could be really fun!"

    This isn't a strange fetish at all. When it comes to fetishes, chances are if one person likes something, a lot of other people like it to. Ya just don't know because no one ever talks about it because everyone is under the impression that they're the only one.

    I definitely think you should tell her. She has NOTICED you aren't enjoying sex as much. And your married. Marriage is gonna suck if you're not satisfied with your sex life. And since you've made a commitment to each other, you both should be open minded to pleasing each other, and making accommodations. Another suggestion I'd make is, after you've revealed what turns you on, ask her what turns HER on. And if there's anything she'd like to try. That way it takes some of the pressure off you. You can both reveal something to each other and become closer.

    I know it's difficult. Good luck, and please tell us how it goes! :)

    • Oh, and as far as fetishes are concerned, yours isn't that freaky. Do some research into fetishes, people are into some funky stuff that most of us have never even thought of. A biting fetish will seem like nothing in comparison ;P

  • YES YES YES definitely tell her! It's what your into; you have a right to share your sexual desires, and she deserves to know what it is that you feel is lacking in your sex life.

    You can say something along the lines of "I want our sex life to always be great, and I know we need to be open with each other, so I want to tell you what my fetish is."

    Biting isn't unusual. I love to bite. Not as much into being bitten, but if I want to bite there has to be someone wanting to take my bites, right?

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  • Oh my gosh you need to tell her! That's not an odd fetish at all and chances are she loves you..so she wants to make you happy! I mean you got married because you love each other right? ha She's going to want to make you happy, so I bet she'll do it! And the fact that she noticed your not 100% into it she's going to be glad you told her so she can make you 110% into it. Good Luck!

  • Just tell her it would turn you on if she bit you during sex. Ease her into it and let her do what she feels comfortable with. Gradually you can ask her to bite harder if she isn't automatically as rough as you'd like. Tell her what you want and let her draw the line where she needs to. There is no need to even call it a fetish.

  • I say tell her. Just say "I like it when you..." or "It'd be hot if you..."

  • if you are married you should be able to talk about kind of things

  • How do I tell her this is what I want?

    This might just be something you'll have to come right out and say. You could tell her you saw something online about it and see what her reaction is and go from there. But if you really want it, you're gonna have to tell her.

    -Is that an unusual desire?

    I don't think so.

    -Anybody else have any strange fetishes?: use of anon feature is there for a reason ;)

    I actually like biting, scratching, and pulling hair( but me doing him is prefered...I don't really wanna be put through a lot of pain. lol). And I'll try ALMOST anything once. I draw the line at a few things. lol

    -SHOULD I tell her that I want her to bite?

    If that's what you want, then I think you should.

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