The question says it all...I normally don't ask these kinds of questions, but I'm interested to see what guys will say :P
Most Helpful Guy
It is an audible and almost tangible reaction to what is going on. If we hear the girl moaning we know (or at least think) she is enjoying what we are doing, and we feel good knowing that we are pleasuring our partner.9
Most Helpful Girl
It gives the guy the audible message that he must be doing a good job and the girl is enjoying what she is getting from him.1
Would you date someone younger/older/married?
What Guys Said 18
We don't take it for granted she's into it and having a good time, so its nice to get the confirmation. It excites us to know she's excited.
In my case, I generally prefer to be the more dominant/initiating one IN bed. So what do I want from her if I'm 'doing most of the work'? I want her to be demonstrably excited and into it.3
In response to the update:
I do not think so. I am not all that dominant in bed (don't get me wrong when the time is right I can be, it's just not my default setting if you will), but I definitely enjoy knowing that my partner is being pleasured. If there is no indication to me that my partner is enjoying the sex I struggle to enjoy the sex (at those times I typically take over and make sure she orgasms a few times before continue having sex; that almost always helps).4
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thats instant appreciation... and we love it...1
If you moan, that means you're enjoying it, and we're doing a good job. It's a turn on, that's all.0
So we know we're doing something right!
But it's more than that. I don't really know, I can't explain it. It's just one of those things that we really love. It's really sexy.1