What's a subtle, yet sexy way to call a penis?

Question

Ok I am debating between these two words, dick or cock? I am not used to that kind of language, but which one sounds better or less vulgar I guess? Or is there another way to call penis?  Which one is a turn on for guys?

tammymac · Accepted Answer

I think it depends on what you are comfortable with, if you're say something intending it to be sexy, and it just comes out sounding unsure it will have the opposite effect. Some men (like mine) love to have you talk dirty to them (and it becomes an art form) they like it because it's naughty. But if you are looking for an alternative to the c or d words how about as you touch him, just saying something like, I love the feel of you or I love how hard you are. He'll know what you mean. But bottom line is do what you are comfortable with it will sound more natural then something you are forcing yourself to do.

If you are looking for information on how to talk dirty well I'm sure everyone could help you out with that too. Just repost your question with a little different spin.

hunnie-bunches · Accepted Answer

i prefer d*** the word **** reminds me of the cheesy ugly men in porn movies that move all stiff while they're pumping and say oh yea baby take that big cock

Marie099 · Accepted Answer

Sweetie... just ask your man what he likes. All guys are different and have different opinions!

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

The best way to call a penis? On the telephone, of course. (I had to do it.)

Your question is interesting... I think that the preference between those words might actually be regional; it could vary depending on what part of the country or world you're in, sort of like the difference between "soda," "pop," and "coke."

Personally, I don't mind the P-word, but I'm more inclined to like the D-word than the C-word. The C-word sounds like you're trying to prepare a weapon for firing (*ch-chk*).

It seems to me that the average woman really dislikes saying any of those slang words. It's more of a turn-on when a woman is comfortable with what she's saying. If she's the most comfortable with the P-word, then that's the word I'd prefer to hear.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

OK, I have to disagree, with Married-in-PA. I can say some guys like vulgar. Sometimes they like it all the time and other times they prefer it some of the time. So it depends on the guy.

There are guys who don't like vulgar at all.

I myself don't mind if you call my manhood by it's proper name because it seems that's not used as often as the vulgar stuff and seem more "naughty" than using the vulgar stuff. I also use the proper term over the vulgar stuff when talking about a woman.

However, a less vulgar option is "his member."

Married-in-PA · Answer

Janelov, you're missing the point (kinda)... men want the dirty talk, we like it. So, when you're referring to your beau's manhood (in private), always go as vulgar as you can stomach. It will make your man happy. Trust me. We men LOVE dirty talk from our women (at the right moments). Whatever you do, don't call it his penis, or he'll think he's at the doctor.

My wife doesn't like the words c--k or d--k, either by the way, so that's how I know. LOL

a400m-runner · Answer

You could call it the italian name  Pene or the japanese name Poku jin, or Kintama  in the heat of the moment who really cares!! Peace!!

alpinestars-2002795 · Answer

I'd say cock. Personal preference.

hallowman · Answer

a turn on for me is my tool or my member...u could call it shaft even though that's only a part of it

bigbear · Answer

There is something derogatory about the word, cock. Use cock, it's a  total turn on, believe me.. I want to suck your pussy- I want to suck your vagina, which one sounds better?