Optimal Penis Size - Regarding Physical Pleasure

Since today has been full of penis size questions, and a horde of women giving responses that either completely fail to address the question at hand, or claim that the question is moot, I feel as though I should ask what most guys seem to be asking, again, but in a very explicit sense. I would appreciate if you would read this whole description before clicking the "comment" box. Question: What penis size lends itself to greater physical pleasure during PIV intercourse, without taking technique into consideration? Things to consider: - This does not concern whether or not it "matters" to you. - This does not concern whether or not you would leave a man without the optimal size. - This does not take into consideration how the man feels about you, or what your relationship is like outside of the bedroom. If you really need to, you can answer this question as though you were comparing two identical, ideal, compassionate, skilled, and sweet men whose only difference is the size of their penises. The same question, but I feel it'll pacify those of you who staunchly claim, correctly, that penis size is no more important than other qualities. I did not add a poll because there is too much variation in possible answers to sufficiently give a wide breadth in 5 options, so please either give a small range or an exact measurement as your answer. This doesn't explicitly take girth into consideration, so you can presume, for the sake of the question, that girth has a positive correlation with length. That is, average length => average girth, above average length => above average girth, etc. If you know your preferred girth, then feel free to mention it. If you honestly feel as though penis size makes no difference whatsoever in terms of how much physical pleasure you receive, whether it is a gargantuan member, only above average, average, below average, or a micropenis, then I ask you to refrain from responding to this question.
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Addition: As 'guesstimating' typically isn't very accurate at all (often not even to one significant digit), it might help to have a ruler with you when you answer.
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  • *3 to 4 inches is the average depth length of the vagina canal until the virgin tents stretches or erects up 200% that is 3 of 200%=6 inches 4 of 200%= 8 inches 3.5 of 200%=7 inches (perfect vagina range 7-8inches) The Vagina is Potential space it makes space for a member. *The Posterior Fornix: Female Cul de Sac The Throne of The King is a full deep Vaginal Orgasm Space which is 7-8 inches inside of a tented, stretched, erected vagina. A very soft very smooth "patch" just behind the cervix. The King is Crowned by a Queen there. Women needs a penis of 7-8 inches in length to reach a full deep orgasm to match the full deep orgasm in a women. "Match" meaning equal a womens pleasure giving elements. The G spot (Queens Throne) and clitoris (Queens Tiara) areas have sensation a lot but it is not full orgasm. Deep penetration is Full Deep Orgasm.(Worship of the Heavenly Temple, Glorifying the Holy Spirit)

  • keep in mind that the G spot is roughly two to three inches into a woman and her clit is almost at the surface (jeans must be fun for them)

    if you have fingers, a tongue, and a penis that's 3+ inches...you're just fine. if anything else, sorry bro seriously

    Girth is something girls are talking about as better as well as a curved penis tho

    • I was under that impression about the G-spot as well, but I recently learned that for quite a large portion of women, it's not an explicit factor in pleasure. My girlfriend apparently can't find her g-spot (even with my help), and when she or I do things that are supposed to stimulate it specifically, she claims it feels very uncomfortable. She also doesn't have orgasms through oral, so...I don't know what to tell you, man.

    • For some girls stimulating the G-spot, can make them feel like they need to pee, thus uncomfortable ;) However girls have different preferences. Some enjoy G-spot stimulation others prefer stimulation of the clitoris. But both are relatively close to the surface. And having an orgasm has a lot to do with a girls mind set. She has to be completely relaxed, not thinking about anything else, and just enjoying the sensations rolling over her. A lot of girls can't relax like that during sex until

    • a little later in life. :)

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  • No penis size lends itself to physical pleasure without technique. That's all there really is to it.

    Average size, though, makes it easier to accomodate many positions. Average would be between 5-6.5 inches and not so girthy that it hurts nor so skinny you don't get much friction. You see, the vagina is different shapes depending on position. A guy who is average is big enough to provide pleasure in all positions without pounding her cervix when he goes deep or making her feel like she's being split in half in positions that are a tight squeeze.

    • Regarding your first comment: of course, but this question aims to address only the difference in pleasure that results from variation in size, not variation in technique or skill. While an average size may be able to deliver 'pleasure' in the greatest number of positions, I am asking about optimal pleasure, which is often not the same as just 'satisfactory'.

    • Size doesn't really play a role without technique playing a part, is what I'm saying. Size is irrelevant. Our orgasms are generated by our g-spot (about 2-3 inches in and at the top, of all weird places to be) and our clit (outside of our body). A guy who is smaller and larger than average may have to accomodate his technique, but basically, stimulating these two spots is what provides our sexual pleasure.

    • Simply out of curiosity: if the two main pleasure zones are very easily accessible by average-sized penises, then why do there seem to be so many women (like the one two posts above) who seem to enjoy a much larger one? I don't see how your hypothesis accounts for preferences such as these. If anything, it seems to contradict your hypothesis, because g-spot stimulation is, from what I infer, more accessible by angled penetration from an average member, not by bilateral, horizontal friction.

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  • size matters every girl has a different preference just like how people are attracted to all different kinds of people like my friend katie she would probably be happy with a guy with a smaller penis cause she's so damn tiny she can barely handle a guy fingering her. And me on the other hand I'm smaller but I prefer just a little above average cause I prefer more of a intense feeling when it comes to sex and bigger does better for me I can't feel anything when a guy has a small penis and I have to fake it.

    • What is just too small for you? Ie When you have to fake it?

    • I'm 4.3 inches long erect so could you feel me

    • What do you @segurans consider "too small" in terms of size?

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  • idk how to ans your ques then, because well base on what I see is that guys with longer penis hv less thickness or grith...anyways I chose 5 inches because d best guy I had was d smallest I had and he was 5 inches.

    • i measured d guy and he is 5 inches and that's d one I prefer over all others, I can't handle the big one. why d downscore? ooh I knew I should hv ignore this question like what most girls would do.

    • I gave you a +1, I don't see why anyone would do otherwise. I appreciate the honesty.

    • alrite then, :)

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  • LOL love the comments on this one. definitely appreciate this. but honestly I don't think size is that big of a deal. I would highly recommend taking care of yourself naturally and loving yourself the way you are. trying man1 man oil for skin hydration below the belt is a great idea. cheers.

  • Hmmm. This is an interesting one. Honestly, penis size isn't that important of a factor. I wouldn't really worry about it. Have you been using a penis health creme? They can take care of a ton of non-std related issues and I recommend it highly.

  • My ex, only person I slept with so far, was 5.1. Never had any complaints ;)

    • Thanks for answering!

    • Why was I thumbed down?I hope it wasn't the question asker, but a random. Since I just answered your questions as well as I could, not having a lot of experience?

    • Ah. Thanks :) Must have posted at the same time.

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  • y'all, dudes need to start working on their genital hygiene. Get yourselves a penis health creme and make sure it's working before you start to become intimate with someone! Good luck.

  • Size does not matter guys. Hygiene, function, technique, mutual attraction, happiness and respect make for solid sexual satisfaction. I would recommend using a penis care product like Man1 Man Oil to ensure you are getting all of the necessary vitamins and amino acids your gentle penis skin deserves.

  • Average... normal... irrelevant. Health, hygiene, mutual respect and attraction are the keys for great sex and a pleasurable experience for both partners. As a man, I know the importance of my penile health so I make sure to use a penis health creme so that I'm damn certain my penis is getting the vitamins and amino acids (even lysine which is antibacterial!) that it deserves. I use Man1 Man Oil and find it online. Good luck y'all.

  • I like my man to be about 7"-8" when he's hard, but not really really thick because I have small hip bones and a high sit bone so there's not a whole lot of room inside me for a really thick guy, it would hurt like hell. I want him to be just thick enough that I can fit my hand around his **** fully when it's hard.

    • Then you should probably move to Sudan…8 in is pretty uncommon in America

  • Girls that say you have a small penis aren't worth your time. Don't worry about your size! Make sure you are clean, you have a great technique and make certain you use protection. I take care of my penis by using a penis health creme... I found it online. We use lotion on the rest of our bodies, why not our penises?

  • its more visual for me. if a guys good, then he can get me off. but the thought of a huge c*** gets me turned on every time, and seeing one is def gonna get me going.

    • Why does it turn you on? Do you like pain?

  • You do realize that women are different sizes too, so the "optimal penis size" will be different for every woman, right? No two vaginas are the same, champ.

    • Of course, but there really isn't a way for the vast majority of us to measure vaginal size/depth. Perhaps the answer to this question will lend itself to speculation on that characteristic.

  • Well man I not sure if this helps. but am average length, with a bove average girth and I drive girls cazy and I don't have to do anything specal to do it.

  • Did you seriously spend all that time addressing your insecurities?

    • I'm hoping that if I can ask the question as explicitly as I can, without having women just say "IT DOESN'T MATTER JUST SHUT UP", we'll see a GAG with far fewer questions like it in the future. Perhaps?

    • Even if your question solved everything ... Search barely works here.

    • Appreciate the effort. The d*** questions will NEVER end though. People like me stumble upon this site and ask whatever comes to mind before looking around to see if it's been asked.

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