Is it a turn of if the girl you're with has hemorrhoids?

I know this is super weird but would it be gross or weird if the girl you were having sex with or dating had hemorrhoids? What would you think if you saw them? I am super self conscious about them and I really want to do stuff with guys but I feel it would a huge turn off, especially doggie style or something. What are your opinions?
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Well I don't have a doctor for hemerrhoids, I'm rather young and feel it would be very imbarrasing to have a doctor look at them at my age! Iv been trying a cream, but it was just the generic brand and it hasn't really done anything, is that not strong enough? The hemerrhoids don't hurt me at all or bother me, I just feel they are very ugly, are there any other options?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Im 22 and i have them and there is no way they will dissappear you can take them off with a surgery but thats pretty much it. Any cream will only make them "less red more brown" you can take pills to make your veins stronger or something like that and a stool sofner might help i also took some vitamins... But once they are out they won't go back in
    (I've been told this by 2 doctors and hours of Internet)
    I think my ass looks ugly now, and i think guys care about that kind of stuff but i hope that "the one" or at least the boyfriend who loves me won't think its a big deal. I advice you to stop worrying about it , worrying won't change a thing and seeing a doctor is recommended although they can't dissappear they can get worse (drink a lot of water

  • Get them treated. I just googled them, and if yeah, they're a little offputting.

    • What can I do to treat them?

    • I think there's special creams you can get. Or if they won't go away, you may have to get surgery to remove them

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well I am not sure if they clot or something..to the point where they will not shrink back up..but some stronger cortisone cream will shrink them back into place if they are recent..and you can have them surgically removed..it is the internal ones that cause the bleeding and cannot be surgically removed without difficulties...I do not think that they are attractive but I am not into anal stuff anyway so I would not mind...(:

    • @Update..i have had hemorrhoids removed surgically..is not a big deal if they are external..and I think they are unattractive..my wife has at least one...but I have psoriasis so I have stonger prescription creme..not really supposed to be used in an area like that...but yes stronger cortisone will shrink them if they have not clotted or something...but you will have to have a doctor write you a prescription or remove them...sorry...

  • Just see your Dr. and ask him what the options are to get rid of them.

    Generally not a big deal, but I bet you'd be happier without them!

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  • I'm pretty sure doing anything when you have them is not a good idea, considering you would probably end up in searing pain. And if the guy actually cares, he would agree with me.

  • How did you get hemorrhoids under the age of 18?

    • You can get them from strenuous physical work, it's not all that rare.

    • I had mine at the age of 16.. I think I strained my bowel too hard.. it's painful as hell