My boyfriend only lasts 3 seconds in bed?

We're both 20 and have been together for a few months. When we have sex he literally only lasts maybe 2 or 3 seconds. It's not that he's nervous and we talked about it a bit before and I told him not to get upset about it and that it doesn't change how I feel about him. It's not like I'd breakup... Show More

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  • If it isn't a nervousness/stress or confidence thing, which can cause this, he needs to see a doctor. There are treatments for guys who simply can't control their urge to ejaculate, some of which involve decreasing the sensitivity of the penis with special creams.