There is nothing wrong with the way you feel at all. Of COURSE you are horny too; you're human, aren't you? That's completely natural. It's also natural to want to slow things down a bit, despite your desire.
So, set some ground rules. Given that you are somewhere in college-age, I recommend waiting at least 3-6 dates or 2-6 weeks before having sex with him, though if you feel that is too soon, you can adjust as you like. Once you get an idea of when you think you'll be ready (assuming everything else goes well), you can work backwards from there and figure out how far you want to go at each step up to that point.
And tell the guy that you don't rush these things, and you want to work your way up to that. Don't tell him the schedule, but let him know that sex will EVENTUALLY be an option. If you, say, decide that no clothes come off for the first 3 dates, then tell him the rule, but not the time. If he behaves (he'll try to push it a LITTLE), then when you're ready for the next step, tell him the new limit. Once he realizes he's "on the path", he's apt to be patient, unless he's just after sex, in which case he'll bail on you and find an easier girl, which is exactly what you want.
Just remember: it's the guy's role to be aggressive and move things along, and it's the girl's role to put on the brakes and set the pace. If he cares about you, he'll respect you for holding off a bit, even if he's a bit sexually frustrated.0 0 0 0You aren't wrong to at least be concerned; college-age guys are smack dab in the middle of their sexual peak years (16-25 or so), and are also immature and experiencing the most freedom that most will ever have. That's not a great combination for girls looking for love. LOL. But there are good guys out there; you just can't be afraid to filter out the not-so-good ones. Don't get attached too quickly.
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