I don't like it. I'm sure most guys would not appreciate their woman going out to the club, wearing her sluttiest outfit and grinding on guys even if it's for a special occasion so why can't guys understand why we wouldn't be happy with our man going to strip clubs and getting dances from strippers?
Also I have known a couple strippers, and they say that a lot of men try to offer them money for sex. I know for a fact that DANCING isn't the only thing that goes on and many of these guys would like to take it from the strip club to the bedroom, so why do some guys act like women are supposed to accept it? It's not right and if the tables were turned you wouldn't want your woman dancing at a strip club or going to a night club and flirting/grinding with guys would you?
I agree with everything you are saying and have first hand see it happen. However that low life guy is doing the same crap everywhere he goes and will be an unfaithful partner regardless. My question was basically pointed at the average Joe who will attend special fuctions at these joints and behave himself and just enjoy the company and the show.
I think it's so immature to be honest a grown man asking that ? Why get into a relationship when you want to look at other women ? I swear men just love to make girls feel less than what they are. Would you like it if you was getting married in a few days and your girlfriend soon to be wife says just going to a strip club ! No it makes my blood boil if your getting married and you think that's acceptable or a party you are not a good boyfriend in my eyes . I would rather be alone then go out with some boy who thinks that is acceptable ! .
Wow, you are going to be alone a lot. That or your guy is going to lie to you about not liking the "ballet.". I mean that little girl dry humping the stage, that's somebodies daugter up there!
Apparently you have not seen or heard what goes on at these bachlorette parties? Can make men going to a strip club look like going to a candy store!
I'm alone but have a boyfriend ? LOL
I have to agree with you about this. I don't see the big deal about your guy on occasions like you mentioned going to these places. It is rare even that I hear a guy get all that excited about going to them. If it was a case where your guy was going all the time to a strip club then I might have to say there is a definant problem.
Going more than the special occasion, those guys are creepy.
However, it is more of an issue for a girl to go to the club with her girlfriends than for guys to go to strip clubs. You are never going home with a stripper, nothing is going to happen, and lap dancing is the worst of it. Your girl is going to dance, maybe let other guys buy her drinks, etc. Your girlfriend is going to have an opportunity to get attention and laid anytime she goes to the bar, with out looking for it.
If she has girls nights out, it is the only fair trade off.
I used to work in them...I have lost many a dates because of it..women can attend any strip shows they want..lol
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!not wanting your boyfriend looking at naked girls? I've had guys get insanely jealous over my interaction with guys who werent half or completely naked. can't imagine the fit they would have had if those guys stripped naked for me. so yeah I don't think its too much or unfair to not want some girl shaking her goods in your boyfriends face.
Well they don't want their boyfriend to see other naked women. Besides if you ask most guys will say they don't want their sister, girlfriend/wife or someone else they love to work in a strip club, so I find very hypocritical to still go to one
I think it's disrespectful to the relationship. Even if you're single, it's just disrespectful in general. I know strippers choose to do it, but that's no excuse to be disrespectful.
And why boys make so big deal about it? I don't think it's a must that they have to go there . And it's pretty normal that girl may not like her boyfriend going to such places and look at naked girls. Looking at p*rn is something different, because it's looking at the screen only, and in strip clubs it's real thing. I would be rather alone than with boy who goes to strip clubs. Why your girlfriend can't make striptease for you?
If it's so big problem for you that you have to go , then you better be free , without girlfriend - and you can do what you want , doesn't it sounds great?
I can only speak from my own experience. My ex going to the strip club never bothered me but the same ex had a huge problem when a guy got drunk at a party and decided to strip for me and a few of my girlfriends. There was no touching involved or anything. Double standards.
I don't know not really at that age yet but, I found out that my teacher takes her husband to a strip club. I think that you shouldn't be all over woman if you are married to another. I understand you wan to have fun, but I don't know that is the way to. I think that you should wan tot take body shot off a woman when you have one sitting at home, I just seem like a guy would have a problem with doing it so the women won't even have to say anything. For bachelor party's I think that is a thing a lot of men do and even some women do male strippers so I don't see a huge problem with that. But, for your birthday I don't think you should really go. As you get older I think you just look like kinda immature when you go running to a strip club and I think you should get a life.
I wouldn't want to attend a male strip club. As for my boyfriend going to see naked women dance around on poles, I just wouldn't like it. It is disrespectful and would cause a huge fight if he kept asking me if he could go.
Because they suck (strip clubs)
Well look at it this way... Would you be fine if your girl went to a male strip club and got turned on by other naked guys that aren't u?
In my case, yes. I wouldn't object at all if my wife went to a "Chippendale's" or similar club. I'd just hope that she would have a really fun time.
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