Why do small boobied girls get offended?

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I asked this question earlier link and there was one answer that caught my attention. I quote:

"In general, most women have smaller breasts. Whilst small breasts can look just as great as big boobies, and most guys don't mind small breasts (whilst some do of course prefer them), a large portion of guys will love some big breasticles. However, the small boobied girls tend to get offended when they hear that."

It is true. I have noticed that small boobied girls get offended when a convo about big boobs come up. It's like they feel really insecure. It's not the same if we're talking about height for example as it doesn't bother girls that much.

Whenever you mention big boobs, a small boobed girl will reply saying "Oh mine are wonderful! guys love them! more than a handful is just a waste"

Why does boobs represent a big issue for girls? Why do they tend to comment bragging about their smaller boobs or try to prove that smaller ones are better?

tohrment · Accepted Answer

See, that's my quote you used so I obviously agree with it, lol. But the thing is that the same is true in reverse. Big boobed girls will of course get offended and defensive when guys/girls say smaller boobs are better.

The truth is that different guys like different things. In general, larger boobs are glorified (when on small frames, usually) but most guys have zero prejudice against small boobs. There is absolutely no point in debating this matter because it's all about preferences, and unless girls are going to go get surgery there is nothing you can do to change what you've got.

I've got big boobs and I can easily admit that I wish my boobs were smaller. That's not to say I think big boobs are gross, or that smaller boobs are better, or anything like that. It's just that for myself, I'd prefer to have a medium-ish sized bust. However, because I'm reluctant to get surgery, I cope with what I've got and do my best to appreciate them. Women tend to want what they don't have, and pick at their body parts. We tend to focus on the negatives rather than look at our bodies and think, "I have a great...", you know?

You asking this question doesn't help, either. People should just learn to love what they've got, and do their best to work on their insecurities (whether it be physically or mentally).

bittersweet17 · Accepted Answer

The people that I know that have a small cup size who aren't happy with what they have will go on about it non stop, whether it be putting themselves down or putting down the people they are jealous of because of what they have... in that case it's a self esteem issue (they want to fit in) probably because you hear most guys go on about how much they love big ones!

Anyway one thing I feel that people never point out is.. hey if you've got A cups you can wear classier clothes, high end fashion people! I duno why so many people over look that haha.. also you can pull off the 'cooler' styles because of the way those pieces are cut!

Blue_eyed_beauty · Accepted Answer

Plenty of girls with big boobs do that too. I have small boobs and I love them, I don't give a f*** what any other guy or girl thinks. My boyfriend loves my boobs, I'm not insecure at all. But I've seen plenty of big breast girls brag about it too, and be offended if a guy says he prefers smaller.

The issue you're talking about isn't a "girls with small boobs" issue, it's just a girl issue. Some girls are insecure, but so what? If bragging about their breast size makes them feel better then fine. It doesn't affect me.

Malcom_Reynolds · Accepted Answer

As stated by someone below, it's similar to the whole penis size insecurity thing. It all comes back to insecurity.

Guys talking about girls boobs and how they prefer them can also suggest objectification of women a little bit. Sorta in a similar way how chubbier girls can get defensive about their weight saying things like "my guy likes my body just the way it is" or "this is the way a woman is supposed to look."

The fact of the matter is that guys have different tastes and what one guy likes, another guy might not. That being said, society through the media suggests that most guys like bigger boobs on thin women. And due to the fact that there's not much that can be done (in a lot of cases) on either, people get defensive about it. There's also just enough people out there that go against the trend or those things don't matter to them, to throw doubt in there.

All this can cause insecurity, society suggests that big boobs are preferable, yet some guys disagree. Women can cling to this as a way of feeling better about their bodies. And when someone contradicts them, it can feel like an attack on them.

This is my theory anyway.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

That's what people do. I have seen big boobed girls say the exact same things. If the guys that answered so far have said they like small boobs, a girl will undoubtedly come on and say "I have big boobs and my boyfriend loves them." I noticed you said "big boobed girls don't feel the need to defend themselves unlike small boobed girls." I think you either haven't been here long enough or you're biased (very probable) on this. The same will happen in a skinny vs thick debate on either side. There are other examples, I'm sure. There are probably a few instances where guys do that.

CatholicVirginia · Answer

I don't get offended, but I am somewhat insecure. I wear padded bras all the time, so the first time I took my clothes off for a guy, I was pretty embarrassed. But it's a fact I've come to live with. So my body isn't completely perfect, what of it? I love it.

I don't really react in any of the ways you've mentioned, but obviously breasts are a big issue for girls because guys like them so much. Everyone wants to have the best commodities, don't they? A girl with big breasts is upset when her ass is small, or her face is ugly. We just all want to be perfect, attractive women. There's nothing abnormal about that.

Cobalt · Answer

They're a big issue because people have the perception that it matters. It doesn't.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

because girls in general are annoying when it comes to boobs, kind of like guys are to penis size questions everyone is sick of it.

Loools · Answer

Hm... my friends have smaller boobs and I don't think I've ever heard them bragging. I suppose it just depends on the girl :)

livi23 · Answer

I have... well is there such a thing as medium boobs? I think they are medium/small. I don't brag about them but I don't complain about them unless one of my shirts doesn't fit right. Some girls are insecure about their boobs because guys say stuff like big boobs are better or small boobs are better and some girls might not have what those guys want. So they feel like they are not enough. Or something. No set of boobs is better than another. :P

Konnour · Answer

Because they are insecure. You answered to your own question.

taster · Answer

Doesn't matter what I think..anything you wish to know can & will be answered here:

1-3-2-4 · Answer

I love small boobs what I hate is when girls with smaller boobs feel the need to get implants and then it really looks nasty and unnatural.

LoveBambi · Answer

Lol I have small boobs and they look great to me. Having wide hips on a small frame helps too I suppose :D

larry69 · Answer

I love smaller boobs myself

RikkiTikkiTavi · Answer

Drunk guys love huge boobs. FACT Sober guys like the whole package. FACT

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