How do I deal with a boyfriend who is obsessed with Sex?

[miztheatre]

my boyfriend is 36, and he is obsessed with sex. Not just having sex, but watching TV shows and movies about sex, p*rn, he keeps pictures of naked women as his background and screensaver on his computer, but its not about getting off for him, he just likes it. But don't get me wrong he loves having sex too. Yes, I do trust him. I know he would never cheat on me. But he does want to have a 3-some. Now that's another problem in itself, since yes, I am bi and wouldn't mind, but I'm also very possessive and I don't want to see him having sex with anyone else. (Any advice on how to get over that would be great as well) Now, I know that this fascination with sex is just that, and its not something I should be worried about, but I just feel jealous when its brought up. Like I just noticed that he was watching a sexual movie on netflix (not like p*rn, just one where sex is a theme) and it made me feel bad and kinda hurt. And I don't know why. If yall could give me some advice on how I can stop feeling so bad when it happens that would be great. Or anything else you thing would help, I would really appreciate! Thanks!

[NerdInDenial]

Why do you feel jealous? It could be because you feel that your inadequate because your boyfriend is looking at other women. Your fear of a threesome is that he might like the other girl, and leave you. That's why people are possessive; they fear losing that person. Even though on the outside, you know he won't cheat on you or leave you, but there's still that doubt in your subconscious that says he might. Thus, when you ask him if he's happy, he probably is satisfied with the relationship, you have to say it yourself, out loud, that everything is fine. Sex is quite interesting if you think about it. It makes me people act really crazy sometimes.

[DeepBlue]

I know it may be way off, but I have to ask given the age difference. Do you think it's possible he only see's you as a sexual object? He may also have an issue with sexual addiction. Get him to watch the movie "Shame" from last year, that could help open his eyes to some of his behavior.

[katiesmuff]

With the age difference and all these other things you had better learn to go with the flow or part ways! The guy likes sex which is fine and really you seem to lead that way yourself so guess I don't see where all your jealousy comes from

[larry69]

Time to dump this guy