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My girlfriend is a lying cheating whore!

sorry about the language first of all, I am pretty mad and have to get it out of me I've been with my girlfriend for about a year and for months, in our relationship we have had fights as a very couple do. Today I have learned that my girlfriend isn't just lying to me she is also a online whore. I found out this by going on her hotmail and looking at her emails. I know this was a bad thing to do but I have my reasons and it has been hard to trust cause of all her bullsh*t lies and I couldn't take it anymore so I had to look to find out. so what I found are conversations that she has had with other guys over the internet, conversations about sex. when I read these conversations I felt so betrayed by the sorry excuse of a bitch of a girlfriend that I used to love. in the conversations she they would take about what they would like and then it would escalate by one of them usually by the guy saying that he would do to her and and she would say " mmm that's hot your making me wet what else would you do to me?" after reading this it broke my f***in heart to know that she actually does this even after I told her not to do this kind of stuff! but it gets worse later on in the conversations she even starts to play along with these f***in douche bags saying stuff like " yes master what else would you make me do" feeding these pervs more and more attention. I feel so betrayed by this bitch that I don't know what to do. I have already sent a long note on Facebook saying it nicely hear that unless she has a f***in miracle of an excuse I am 100% done with her lying cheating ass. what hurts me the most is that I know that she is masturbating to these f***in pervs! I hate this bitch so much but I also love her! I know the recovery process is going to hurt but I honestly don't know what else to do. she broke my hurt and lies to me about it. I hate her mother f***ing **** ass lying cheating guts right now. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a right to be pissed the f*** off. some one please answer if this has happened to you or if you have any advice or if you want to talk I would greatly appreciate it :)
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  • It sounds to me like she's a submissive sexual person, and you're nowhere near as domineering or masterful as she wants in a man.

    I mean, just look at yourself - instead of dumping her straight off, you give her the "you better have a miracle of an excuse, or we're done"

    Really? You couldn't even committ to dumping her, you allowed for the possibility that she'd have a reason?

    I think you're way too soft, way too nice, and way too insecure to keep this sub-girl happy. She wants a Master. Someone who will take charge, boss her around, tell her what to do, and punish her when she's been bad. That's what seems to excite her.

    I doubt you're the sort of guy who can provide her with that excitement.

    Now, if it was me... I'd have said nothing. I'd have printed off the emails and chats. Invited her around to my place. Then taken her upstairs to "show" her something.

    Then I'd throw her on the bed. Tell her she's been a bad girl. Show her the emails and tell her that her master is going to punish her now. And punish her I would.

    I'd show her the time of her god-damned life, is what I'd do.

    *THEN* I'd dump her.

    • hmm you do give me some good ideas there. I might take some of your ideas

    • REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAL SHIT! this guy rite here is my fkn dawg! lol

    • I like the way you think.

  • "I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I have a right to be pissed the f*** off."

    You're not overreacting, and you every right to be pissed the f*ck off.

    I haven't been in your situation, thankfully, but if I ever was, I'd kick her ass to the f*cking curb. It wouldn't even GET to the point that it did with you, first offense would be the last offense, I have zero tolerance for that sort of sh*t.

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  • If you had trust issues in the first place you should have never been with her. I think you have every right to be upset with her, but being extremely angry isn't the way to go. I think you shouldn't be with her if this is how she's going to treat you. She isn't ready to be in a committed relationship with anyone right now. And you shouldn't give her a chance to explain herself there is nothing to explain. I hope you are able to not feel so angry soon, and just know that someone better is out there waiting for you.

    • I didn't have trust issues with her I was trusting of her 100% but than she started doing things that would bring that trust down. Thanks for the kind words

    • As soon as she started doing things to make you lose trust, you should have let it go. And No problem I really do hope you are okay.

  • As a girl,this is my opinion.When she did that obviously she doesn't love and care for you anymore.She loves attention from the guys.Sounds like she is ready to move on.I am not sure what is her reason,you been with her so I think you should not.Still,that doesn't give her the right to cheat on you.Since you are hurt badly,I don't see why should you stay with her,unless you want to give her a second chance.Its all up to you.

  • Told you before, I'll tell you again, leave her. Don't need to ask her why she did it, she did it and it hurts. You've asked her before and you've told her not to do it again and again. You don't need to hang around for closure, you need to see what happened and leave. It hurts to hang around - that's something you definitely do not need.

    • I know you did tell me before and I as a fool believed her lies yet again but this time I'm done with the bullsh*t and putting my foot down. Enough is enough and I'm done being hurt by her

    • This has happened to me before but I didn't do the whole e-mail thing but ya know, I don't really mind that you did look through her e-mails. I think it's quite tough to let go, sometimes you may think okay, I could be friends but really that doesn't work because no one would have changed. In your case, we both know that she's not going to change that part of her anytime soon so being friends wouldn't fix anything etiher. I think it's best to cut all contact, even if she does try to contact you

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  • I don't totally understand all the details of the situation or exactly what she was lying about. But it sounds like you had asked her not to speak to people online that way, which means it was wrong of her to do it without your knowledge/ permission. Since your relationship has been poisoned by trust issues for some time, it only makes sense to break up. But what's stopping you from talking to her in person?

    • I specifically told her not to do that time and time again. What's keeping me from seeing her in person is that she doesn't deserve me to go to her after what she did. If she wants me back she better come to me and make up for it

    • That doesn't make sense to me. What she did was wrong, but YOU deserve the closure of ending the relationship properly. Don't lower yourself to her level. I don't think you should attempt to continue the relationship, even if she wants to make it up to you. The relationship is clearly well beyond the realm of normal, healthy, and respectful. Once you lose respect for someone so completely, you can't expect to feel the way you used to ever again. You'll both be better off ending it.

  • Dude, just dump her. Find a girl you can trust.

    Make it hurt. She got bored of you and honestly I would feel so disrespected I would make her regret it for as long as she could still feel. You're feelings are justified.

    Though I have mixed feelings about the whole snooping around her emails thing. On one hand the truth set you free but a part of me wishes it would never have to come to that.

    • I wish it didn't have to come to that to but her lies started to make less and less sense sink had to find out for sure once and for all

    • Also it would help you to try and forgive her, also distract yourself from thinking about that situation, because if you do I'm pretty sure a lot of hate would build up and the only way to not get hooked into that is to not think about it. You may think she has no right to have done all that to you, and that's true. So I hope you don't hurt yourself by allowing anger to build up, dwelling and living with that is horrible, I've done it, you don't know how carried away you can get.

  • Dude, just break up with her and be done with it. You've seen all that you needed to, now move in from her.

  • welcome to reality

    • Thanks for commenting bud

  • I honestly think that you should give her one more chance. This is only online cheating and maybe you guys aren't bumpin uglies enough. Ask her is she wants to f*** more and maybe she will say that she isn't getting enough. I also would ask her if there is anything else missing in your sex life as in munching the furry carpet. Do you much the furry carpet? Because if you don't maybe she is looking for other sexual releases. I would find out all these things before you get rid of her and buy a samurai sword and do something that all of us are going to regret. Best of luck to you my friend

  • Go you! High five that's all I got to say

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