nothing wrong with trying to help your friend out in an awkward and overall nasty situation I don't think. you just have to be careful and think about what you're doing though because you never really know who you're about to make contact with and they might be much more of a loose cannon than last time. I would avoid pushing or punching though because that can heat things up really quickly even if you're a woman.
1 0 0 0yeah, that wouldn't have ended well for him. I had a lot of my dudes with me that night. Not just guys, but athletes who know all about being strong and aggressive and having a friend's back
no problem then. :) it's a lot better when you have other people there with you like that too, but still try to steer on the cautious side if it's applicable at the time. I think you did the right thing
You're right. I didn't want a physical confrontation, but sometimes it's like guys at the club get out of hand and think they have some sort of right to be disrespectful, act like a pig, and touch a girl however they want because of what she's wearing. I hate how so many guys are so self absorbed and assume that if a girl has on a form hugging dress or is showing a bit of cleavage that it's all because her goal is to catch his attention and impress him. No. Maybe the dress is for her because...
Have you yourself ever experienced anything like what you described?
What are you feeling when you see it happening to somebody else?
Why exactly does it make you feel so uncomfortable?0 0 0 01. Yes, but lucky for me, I've always had the assertiveness to either walk away or move their hands because I'm uncomfortable with the situation. Also because it says a lot about the guy if he walks away when you move his hands or if he's more respectful or if he tries not to touch you in certain places and that helps me gauge whether I'd want to give him my number. 2. When I see it happen to someone else, my feelings vary because some girls like that. They feed off of the attention and male
approval. It's like the nourishment of water to a flower. Their confidence or lack of is like a humped over, lifeless flower and as soon as it gets that water, it springs to life and I can sense it. I can see it in the way they move and the way they insist on being overly sexual and acting like a stripper and how it's all about being sexy and not just having fun. It's like their goal is to just be sexy and that says something. So sometimes, I just feel like "Wtf girl, you are going to attract
the wrong type of men acting like that. Get it together." and other times it's, "OMG! Don't let him touch you like that. You look uncomfortable as hell!" sometimes I get pissed off because the girl will clearly be uncomfortable. 3. It makes me feel uncomfortable because you never know what kind of guy you're dealing with. Rape is common and I think it's just weird when a guy at the club is so aggressive and bold about being touchy feely with you even after you've moved his hands away.
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I wouldn't touch the guy, but I would grab my friend and pull her away. I've been in this situation many times. My friends are lightweight drinkers so I'm usually the sober one that has to look out for them and defend them from creepy guys. Just grab her by the hand and pull her off into the crowd.
1 0 0 0That's a very smart way of handling that situation!
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