I like doing it and I'm told I'm really good. I suck hard up and down his shaft and take him down pretty deep. I also always suck hard when he's cumming because that drives him wild, and I always swallow his come right down. Some times he has so much and it's so thick and he just keeps spasming and squirting. I usually put my hands on his hips those times to hold him steady so that he won't overly gag me even though he does sometimes when he cums so much and it's so thick or he thrusts too deep, but I'm used to it. I know he can't control his actions when it's that intense. Other times it's not as much and it's more watery and it takes him longer to blow. But I want him to finish in 15 minutes or less and he knows that so he doesn't try to hold it. I'm not into blowing him all day. Often I'll suck him of off in 5 minutes, especially when it's been a few days and I'm in the mood to see how good I am and how much he'll cum. lol. I really enjoy it.
Was it really necessary for the paragraph long graphic description of your bj technique? I mean really, I'm sure you caught the attention of some of the guys including the one who asked the question...but you could've answered that question and spared us your mini-erotica story.
Sorry! I wasn't even thinking that. I guess I just wanted him to know how much I enjoy it and yet want him to sorta hurry. Like my favorite is between 5 - 10 minutes but no longer than 15 minutes because that's enough time to get a good one.
Haha it's funny you say this because my guy has told me that he has purposely held back from cumming because he didn't want me to stop...he's lasted up to 40 mins and although it gets a little tiring, I love doing it. I mean, I obviously care a whole lot about this dude so I don't mind spending some extra time down there because it thrills me to be in control and please him that way...buuuuut my best chick friend was telling me about how a few of the guys she's been with have lasted an hour and up and she couldn't stand it because her jaw would get too sore. Really, it depends on the girl, if she enjoys giving head she won't mind you taking your time, she'll actually take it as a compliment I think. If she dreads it however, she'll want you to be done ASAP haha.
This is the best answer by far. Both partners should be more concerned with the others satisfaction when it comes to this topic period. Putting a time limit on it makes it sound like you only care a little.
Everyone is different. So the answer would depend on your definition. For my husband and I, it's not just a matter of seeing how quick he can get off. It's a matter of using my mouth, lips, tongue, to please him (and me!). It's more like making love to his co ck and balls. It's something I truly enjoy doing. It's fun to let his erection ebb and flow without stopping completely. This will sometime go on for hours. If however you're talking about a woman using her mouth continuously, without stopping or teasing.. just doing it for the orgasm, I would think 5-10 mins would be more than enough if he's ready and she's good. Personally, I just can't imagine wanting it over that quickly!
20-40 min?! If they last too long I start to wonder what I'm doing wrong... If I'm giving you a blow job (and not as a precursor for sex) then yes, the point is usually to get you off quick and easy. I used to do this for my ex on his lunch breaks because it was fast. But if I couldn't get into the game (time of the month or whatever) then I might try to slow it down but there's more involved than just a BJ. That's just how it ends...
So in the reverse situation, when a guy is going down on a gal, how long do you like it to last?
Yeah, good question
My wife tells me I can stay there all night if I want. She loves it !
Any round of oral lasting 10 minutes or more is too much. its much different going down on a guy then it is a girl.
Why not mix it up and not go start to finish all in one round?
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!10 minutes max. I don't know what kind of training these marathon BJ givers are doing but...No way.
LOL - marathon BJ givers - f***ing hilarious!
True. penis doesn't taste that good!
Preferably under 10 minutes. If it's that time of the month and that is all I can do for him then I want him to get more pleasure so I would be ok with 20 but any more then that starts to get frustrating. My jaw and neck start to get tired and I feel like I am not doing as good of a job for him as I can, so I would prefer him to come while I am still giving him my best.
What exactly has that time of the month got to do with it? Are you saying you don't have sex at that time. I've been told on many occasions that they were hornier then. It isn't a fetish or something I get off on, but I do EVERYTHING at that time that I do the other 25 days of the month.
Me too, I'm not gonna let blood keeping me away from having sex with my girlfriend. If it were really rare I'd understand but it's every month, girls are used to it and so are guys. It's like refusing to have sex on week-ends.
We have sex during that time of the month on my light days. I usually have one heavy day each time and I just want to be left alone down there on that day.
I have gone anywhere from 2 minutes to 3 hours. It all depends on if the purpose is foreplay, getting the guy off or just playing around for as long as you both want. If the purpose is getting him off, I will generally stop after about 45 min. I know I am not bad at giving head, so I figure that is a fair amount of time to give him and it is his issue if he can't get off.
after awhile it can get annoying, but I don't mind giving them. if they last 2 seconds I guess that's fine. if they last and hour, that's pushing it. I'd more than likely stop way before then.
i just like to know that my man is getting pleasure out of it.
Guys ability to 'cum' takes different amounts of times on different days because of how sensitive their 'penis' is on that day.. Sometimes it may feel really good to them and they should 'cum' fast but can't, and it isn't their fault no matter how badly they wanna or how good it feels.
my ideal bj is 10-20 min . Less is fine. Anything more then 20 min its to long. It becomes a bj marathon=[.
ahhah LOL 20 min you're a tough girl xD
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