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Ladies, would you be mad if you caught you man masturbating?

Here's the deal. Last night, I was feeling VERY horny, so tried to get some from my girlfriend, but, she was too tired. So I got out of bed and went to the living room. I pulled up some p*rn and started Handling things myself. I was about done when my girlfriend walks in and gets all pissy about me jacking off. I said, "What do you want me to do?" Then, she said she was mad cause I was looking at girl with big boobs (my girlfriend doesn't have big boobs) and thinks that's what I want now. I really could care less about the size of her boobs, but that's not what she thinks now. So here's my question to the ladies. Would you get mad at your boy friend if you caught him wanking to some p*rn after he tried to get some from u? If so, WHY?
Yes, I would be mad.
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I wouldn't like it, but I wouldn't say anything, since I turned him down.
Vote B
I wouldn't care at all because I do the same thing :)
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Most Helpful Girls

  • I wouldn't be mad at him for masturbating. I wouldn't have sex with him- what do I expect him to do? I masturbate too, and I believe that it's healthy to keep masturbating even when you're in a sexual relationship. I would have no problem with that at all (although I do think it should be done privately).

    However, I have to admit that walking in on my boyfriend masturbating and walking in on my boyfriend masturbating to p*rn would inspire wildly different reactions in me. I understand that most guys watch p*rn at least once in a while, and theoretically, I'm okay with that. I'm not going to try to forbid my boyfriend from watching p*rn or anything like that. However, it's really not something I want to think about or witness. Catching my boyfriend masturbating to p*rn featuring women who have a trait I lack would definitely strike a nerve. Even if I didn't act mad, I would feel very hurt and insecure.

    I'm not saying it would be necessary or right for me to feel that way- I'm just saying I WOULD feel that way. I would rather be confident and accepting enough to not be bothered by such a thing. But that just isn't possible for everyone.

  • No. I don't care if he watches p*rn on his own time, and sometimes we watch together before or during play. I rarely turn him down, he actually turns me down more often than the other way around. But if I did, I wouldn't care if he used some visual aid to get himself off. I'd just prefer he do it somewhere other than right next to me in bed if I'm sleeping, though if I'm awake I plan on watching him jack off. Which sometimes ends up making me want to have sex after all, lol. So you were respectful there, I'd appreciate that. I don't care if he masturbates. I've gone to the bedroom to take care of things myself once or twice when my guy didn't feel like having sex when I did too. I didn't put on any p*rn, but I used a vibrator. Similar idea, I don't mind.

  • lol no. I know how she feels - my boyfriend likes big butts and I have no butt lol - but I'm not upset with him. just insecure. I just usually make sure he catches me staring at pictures of hot men who look nothing like him, going on about how "theyre so sexy" I don't think he cares too much but it does bother him a little.

    its not a big deal, but you can't stop yourself from feeling insecure and that's what this is really about. unless she has moral issues with p*rn? I can't imagine too many people being upset over the masturbation itself. I masturbate too and he can't stop me! :D

Most Helpful Guys

  • Most women just don't understand p*rn, they assume that because you're looking at another naked women, you must want to have sex with her.

    They don't get that the woman in the video is little more than a collection of parts, a visual aid used to help us get off, and they don't get that literally almost ~any~ woman of reasonable proportion is acceptable for this purpose. No, they feel they're in competition with that woman, that they're being compared to that woman, and that you must consider that woman your physical ideal, simply because you're watching her.

    I don't know what you can do to get her to realize this. Some girls, like my girlfriend (thank god) understand this on their own, but the ones that don't are probably dealing with broad insecurity issues, and of course, the words of the man in their life carry little to no value to them in that regard.

  • Seems unreasonable for her to expect you to all of a sudden control your sex drive like that, as well as be that worried over p*rn. You went to her to show you wanted some, she turned you down, so you relieved yourself. I don't see the problem here.

    Seems like your girlfriend has some of those common insecurities that instead of dealing with, just takes them out on you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Masturbation is normal, even if you're in a relationship. P*rn doesn't bother me, I enjoy it too.

    If I said no to sex, I would expect that my partner would masturbate. After all, it's the most effective way to satisfy your urge if you don't have someone to do it with you.

  • I wouldn't mind at all, especially because I masturbate myself. Some girls are so stupid and insecure

  • I would get mad but not because he was watching it, If I turned him down then sure OK gota doo what you gota do to take care of it( I'm usually the one in that seat) Its just as women we compare ourselves so seeing what you where using turns into oh you like that then why be with me. I know its really stupid and as a fellow p*rn viewer I know I can care less about those things like boobs or even penis size I just like the action going on. So ya I would be mad but it wouldn't last I would turn it into a joke... but that's me

  • To another girl yeah sure I wouldn't be to happy about it but I wouldn't get "mad" I mean if I didn't want to & then he did that, it'd be kind of upsetting but nothing to get mad about. I think that when she found you doing that, she just got a little insecure since those girls breasts were larger than hers so she probably acted that way out of jealousy. Sure it seems as if it doesn't make sense, but it happens.

  • I'd prefer him to be jacking off to me, not p*rn. But, I don't think it would be a huge deal.

  • Nah I wouldn't be mad. Sometimes you gotta take care of yourself, you know? Maybe I'd eve join him :)

  • Yes and no, Yes-because of the p*rn. (I hate it. It turns me off).No, because you couldn't get it from her.

  • No I wouldn't care

  • I wouldn't care because I do the same thing and I love to watch him masturbate. But anyway, I'm not one to turn my man down if he asks for sex.

  • That wouldn't bother me at all.

  • the way I would see it , me personally would rather you sit and watchin it on TV or watever rather then go out and do other women x

    • More women should realize this. If we're gonna scratch the itch, we as mine as well do it in a healthy way.

  • I think what women don't understand is if you're THAT horny why do you need to go look at other women to get off unless you want to fantasize about being with them instead of us? Clearly she just doesn't like p*rn and doesn't understand why you need it to take care of business.

  • I understand why she's mad. I think I would be also be mad. Girls are sensitive to those things so when a guy is looking at another woman sexually it makes us mad. Yes I know she turned you down but the thought of your eyes being on another woman is kind of insulting. Yes I know how you feel is probably do the same thing. The difference is I don't need p*rn, and I hardly ever do it!

    • It sounds like a possessive point of view

    • But its kind of like cheating for some women. Would she be OK with you getting a strip tease from someone you don't know? Would she be OK with you masturbating to that woman?...when you think about it like that it changes how you look at it.

  • i wouldn't mind him masturbating NOT AT ALL , eveytime my guy does it I either watch or end up sucking him but I would mind the p*rn . So either use your imagination or take my clothes off and fap all you want ;D

  • If anything I think your girlfriend is just insecure and seeing you watching that and masturbating may have made her even more insecure and lowered her self esteem. I think if I found a boyfriend jacking off to stuff like that I'd find it a turn on. I mean, if he has to watch stuff like that to get off by himself then in order for him to get off while with me then he must think it hot. I know its different when you're with someone you love but still. Yeah, I wouldn't be pissy, the women in p*rn are plastic and not real.

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