Is it wrong that you want to get eaten out by a girl but not eat her out?

[Anonymous]

I've always fantasized about getting eaten out by a girl. Although I'm not attracted to girls, I'm straight as all I date is men. However, I'm sick of men and I'm taking a mancation but I'm still attracted to men. But I recently welcomed my friend back into my life. She's a best friend but we had a falling out and we had to take a break. She calls me her wife and stuff. But now she wants me to spend the night with her one night and says she's going to be alone. I mention this because before, she's mentioned experimenting with girls. She just wants a kiss from me to see what it's like to kiss a girl. I don't find her attractive, however, I wouldn't mind if she ate me out, fingered me, or we had sex with a dildo. That probably makes me bi-curious as I've never had sex with a girl before, but I don't want to eat her out or kiss her. I just want to have sex with a girl or maybe use a dildo on her. Is that bad?

[Anonymous]

you don't need to have sex to be straight, gay, or bisexual. attraction is what makes you any one of those things. lots of inexperienced people have sexualities of all kinds.

anyway, I mean its selfish but there are pillow princesses, there are some more masculine butch women who don't even like being eaten out or f***ed with a dildo, they want to dominate and do the f***ing, etc. you could probably find someone if not your friend. but make it clear what you want.

although I don't believe you're not attracted to girls. I'm bi, but there are lots of people I'm not attracted to at all and I don't have a desire to sleep with them or be physically intimate with them at all.

[Asker]

I mean, yeah, there are some hot girls out there but I just couldn't be the type to give head to a girl. I'd feel weird. It took me a while to get used to giving head to a guy so I don't know lol. If I could find a masculine girl, I'd let her do me lol.

[Opinion Owner]

no yeah, some people are just weird about oral sex. one of my friends will let a girl go down on her but won't let a guy. people are just crazy, that's my conclusion. I love oral sex, and I love going down on girls. its seriously one of the sexiest things ever. I love penis too though. yay genitalia :D you probably could. go find one. get some gay friends to hook you up. one of my lesbo friends uses okcupid. go to a lesbian bar or club. you'll find someone. lol

[Asker]

Lol! I don't know maybe if I find someone and they pop my bi cherry, I might go down on them one day. But now, it's weird lol. I have like some lesbian friends but they'd probably out me if I asked them. I'll check out the clubs though lol. Thanks!

[Opinion Owner]

no prob. have fun and meet new people. no pressure to be out. thanks for BA ^__^

[michelle3685]

Sweetie, I'm bi, and have been since I was 14.Don't worry about, and just do only what your comfortable with.Things will proceed at their own pace, as you get comfortable with each other, and the things that you want to explore.

[Anonymous]

I'm the other way around! The though of anyone going down on me makes me want to be sick. But I find it so sexy and hot just thinking about it!

[yuoty]

Nothing wrong. Just avoid people who demand that. There will surely be some girl who likes eating you and not expecting the same from you if you are uncomfortable with that.

[Andyp123]

It's perfectly normal to want that because girls are more gental and understand each others bodies better than men, that's why you want to experiment with them.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

These women are generally called pillow princess I believe?

[Asker]

That's an interesting term lol. I guess I am one. I can give to guys, just not girls.

[mitch232]

that is not bad at all if you don't want to you don't have to. your friend will proberly like eating you out. so I say go for it and tell us how it goes