My boyfriend asked if he could finger me. Do guys actually like to finger girls?

I thought it was kind of weird he asked if he could... Like do you enjoy it? Also, did I lose some points by not asking if he wanted a bj? I could ask next time but I just realized he offered to pleasure me, and I didn't return the favor.
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  • Are you serious? lol Yes. Sweet Jesus. Just feeling how wet she is, how warm she is, how she reacts, the sounds she makes, her breathing,(sorry, I'm detail oriented. lol), its enough to drive a guy crazy. lol Only if your comfortable tho.

    And losing points? Don't feel like you owe him because of the fingering. A lot of the time I find it enough of a treat just to be able to experience and give the girl pleasure like that. But hey, if you want, you can always ask or just go at it just to see, I'm sure he won't mind.

    • Then again, this is coming from someone who is more of a giver, lol

    • Hot response

  • Yes to all those questions and here's even a tip for the future, you don't even have to ask. When you're sitting there making out and you're ready just unzip his pants and have at it, trust me he won't mind.

    Also you can jump right into bj's, but there's an art to a woman giving an hj so you need to practice and communicate on those

Most Helpful Girls

  • fingering and you giving him a bj aren't of the same. You don't have to return any favors if your not comfortable with it and he shouldn't mind if you dont. Guys generally like doing it because they like seeing a girl turned on by them, and they are hoping maybe it leads to something a little more,

  • Guys like anything that could result in you ultimately giving them a blowjob

    It's the "payback" they enjoy, not necessarily just pleasing you. They aren't that selfless. Well, the ones on here who can last for hours in bed and have a fetish for oral are lmao

  • Don't ask, just do it!

    Pull him close to you, unzip his pants, pull them down and start sucking it nice and slow..

    DEEPTHROAT!

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  • Oh yes, playing with any private part (or any part for that matter) of a girl's body is fun. It's such a turn-on to stroke a girl, feel her getting wet, and then slide a finger inside that cozy, warm, tight and wet hole.

    It would be hotter for him if you didn't ask, but said something like "I want to suck your d***."

  • Do guys like it - yes.

    Enjoy it - yes.

    Did you lose points - probably not yet.

    Could you ask? if you want to by all means. Blowjobs offers = points.

  • Heh Heh...Do guys actually like...YES!...Sorry...but...from my vantage point...I don't see how you could think anything else...O:O...lose points? No... If you indeed let him he was thrilled as hell..(:(:(:

  • That depends, does it make you feel good? If the answer is yes, then most guys probably enjoy it.

  • Yes. I love feeling a girls p**** and putting my finger insider her to feel her wetness. It also starts intimacy with a girl so I can gradually move toward having sex with her. You don't necessarily need to go down on him the first time he gives you pleasure but might want to do something to him one of the next couple times, whether it's a bj or handjob.

  • Most guys like to escalate sexual activity because they hope it will result in their own orgasm, indirectly. As in, if I finger her, she will be more likely to have sex with me in the future.

    • Its not just that. It excites us when women are turned on or orgasming.

  • It's f***in hot when a chick starts moaning because you're fingering her. If he's good at it you'll probably orgasm or squirt if you're wired for it. I like to turn it into a game and see what noises I can get out of the girl with different strokes.