Could My Boyfriend Be A Cannibal?

[Anonymous]

*Chewing on me arouses him. *He is constantly biting me. *He bites me in weird spots, like my thighs or stomach. *If I cry out in pain or tell him to let go, it is difficult for him to let go until a few seconds later. *He worries that one day he won't be able to stop his teeth from sinking in. *When I am away he complains that he craves the feel of my meat between his teeth. *He is always talking about having a chunk of me. *He describes my body as succulent in some spots or juicy. *He is always wanting me chubbier and telling me he wouldn't care if I gained a little more weight. *He tells me how glad he is that I am not as skinny/small as I used to be. *He is constantly trying to weigh me to ensure that I am not losing any weight. *He squeezes my chub obsessively, even when it is embarrassing to me. *He wants me to have stretch marks because it pleases him to see me grow. *He says if I get fat he will have more of me. *He categorizes my meat: (EX: Keister is rump roast, chest is breast fillet. . .) *He says which parts of my body he will make into which recipes. *He compares the textures of my body to different textures of food. Should I be concerned?

[adam__808]

As I write more and more on this website, I realize that my opinions aren't as spot on as I thought they were, and I don't "know" people as well as I thought.

I don't know if you should be concerned, you do babe.

And while bite marks and scratch marks can be cool I guess, anybody who wants to permanently damage your body in that drastic and irreversable of a way, is just sorta' perverse on more than a few levels.

And while some guys like BBWs or perhaps who can be classified as not-skinny, to want someone to be fat to the point of getting stretch marks is just not healthy for YOU.

Please excuse the opinion, but this particular relationship sounds really predatory, like it hurts you. I don't think you should engage in it.

Ironically, I'm involved in a very strange sort of relationship, involving a lot of bittersweet moments between her and I. Some moments truly are bitter and frightening even... but some moments are amazingly sweet. I can't let her get too close to me, sadly, until I feel like I can trust her more. I also need to be romanced in that way -I think every guy does. We just get a bit paranoid sometimes, and it's good to have a partner that loves and cares with some fidelity.

[Asker]

It is hard on me. Because I eat to try and please him. It may sound dumb, but I feel that if I don't he may leave me for another girl who is his idea of beauty. I am constantly asking him, "If I caught your eye at 110 pounds, what changed? Why must I be 140 pounds to please you?"

[ElijahCynicism]

LOOOOOLLLLLLLL.

Yes. I'd be f***ing TERRIFIED. I started of thinking, 'eh, he's just got a fetish', then, 'well, it's a little weird...' and when you got to f***ing... CATEGORISES YOUR MEAT. Yeah, I think he wants to *eat* you. You oughta be careful with this guy, keep people around.

[ElijahCynicism]

By the way, tell him he's being stupid - if he wants to eat you he should be getting you to work out, not, gain fat. The most preferable meats on the human body are in muscle, the same with any man. If you look at fat, it's just like, gunk, liquidey stuff. He'll be eating a kiev, basically, nobody wants that. Tell him his fat/feeding fetish and cannibal tendencies are going to work against each other.

[ElijahCynicism]

*mammal, not man

[Asker]

It is hard on me. Because I eat to try and please him. It may sound dumb, but I feel that if I don't he may leave me for another girl who is his idea of beauty. I am constantly asking him, "If I caught your eye at 110 pounds, what changed? Why must I be 140 pounds to please you?"

[ElijahCynicism]

Aaah. Yeah, that's worrying. I suggest you sit down and talk to him about this - have you yet? Tell him it's upsetting you and making you feel insecure about your weight. I really hope he's not intentionally playing psychological traps to make you fat, it's probably just the by-product of an immense paraphilia, but you definitely need to have a serious talk with him about this.

[Anonymous]

I'm more concerned about why you haven't left him already...he's weird that's a given, what's your excuse? :{

[Asker]

Other than this, I love him so much. He has some very good points about him- not all are bad. Just like all of us.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand I guess. there's just a difference between kink and weird imo. He's not just kinky at this point.

[LoveBambi]

He weighs you? Lol didn't that happen in Hensel and Gretel?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

if this is real he's crazy

[katylaura]

i read the first couple and was ready to write something along the lines of "it's just a biting fetish, nothing too abnormal" and then I got a bit futher down to him categorizing your meat and talking about recipes.. seriously, WTF?! assuming this isn't a troll question, get out of there - this guy is frightning and might well want to actually eat you.

argh, it makes me feel sick just thinking about it. strangest question I've seen to date.

[Electric_Boogaloo]

I'd be yes. That is one of the wierdest things I've seen on this site.

[Asker]

I had to ask! I really am worried. . .

[Electric_Boogaloo]

Confront him about it then. Only he knows what he likes, or maybe he could have a Food fetish.

[ROTFLMFAO]

troll? if not, he is a FEEDER/FFA (female fat admirer). it's a fetish: link

"the topic also incorporates feederism and gaining, where sexual gratification is obtained via the process of gaining body fat. Fat fetishism also incorporates stuffing and padding, whereas the focus of arousal is on the sensations and properties of a real or simulated gain."

[Asker]

Thank you for providing me with this information.

[Asker]

It is hard on me. Because I eat to try and please him. It may sound dumb, but I feel that if I don't he may leave me for another girl who is his idea of beauty. I am constantly asking him, "If I caught your eye at 110 pounds, what changed? Why must I be 140 pounds to please you?"

[ROTFLMFAO]

don't let him control you. it's your life, your health, your decision. who cares if he leaves you for a girl who is fat? it's obvious he doesn't love you the way you are. believe me, it will only get worse. you're better off without him.

[Anonymous]

What can I say? It's his kink. We all have them and this is one of his, apparently a strong one. I like to bite but not with anything like the intensity that you describe. A lot of the women I've been with love it so it's not crazy. If it doesn't do anything for you, maybe you should start shopping for a new boyfriend before something bad happens. It's a form of sadism so you have to decide if you're that kind of masochist.