Lone wolf kind of guy - attractive or no?

[Anonymous]

Would you say a lone wolf kind of a guy can be attractive or no? For instance, I'm pretty confident, have a good paying job, save money to buy a house, responsible. I also go out, have fun, travel the world, get drinks and all that (point is not boring). However, I have only a few real close friends and they don't live near me. I don't really have an immediate friends where I live, just co-workers. So when I go out, I either go out by myself and meet folks or with co-workers. So, I don't really have a 'group'. But I do have fun, I think. Lately I work a lot so that's no fun... Anyways, lone wolf kind of a guy attractive or is the social butterfly with all the connections ideal?

[oOsweet~o~nessOo]

Sounds good to me. I'm very iffy with who I call my friends, I only have like 3 people I really care to label as that. Everyone else I meet are just associates or whatever.

I respect people better who actually aren't calling everyone they meet a friend, and getting constantly pulled every which way by hordes of people who want to hang out with them 24 - 7.

You don't sound really " lone wolfish" to me, you just sound more internalized then externalized. As in, you don't need a bunch of people to be around you to feel confident and have a good time.

That's very attractive - more of a " I do my own thing because I'm my own man," type of mentality. Plus your pretty outgoing and open to adventure.

Sexy.

It would take the pressure off of me as his partner to feel like I have to " keep up," with his super crazy super fast social life as well, and way less drama with him and the countless retards he deals with on a daily basis.

[dominiquois]

Both are attractive. The lone wolf is sexy as he is mysterious. You just want to get him to come to you but you know there's no guarantee he will stay and become your dog.

A social butterfly is hot. He has his way with words and is fun and knows how to be around people you know you'll never miss out on anything worth going to.

The lone wolf should still be able to socialize and have some friends he can't be a total recluse that's creepy.

The social butterfly shouldn't be consumed with friends at all times as if he's a slave of the social circle. That's super unattractive. It shows he is weak in integrity.

[eva86]

Well if you are trying to impress the girl you like, you can just be confident and try to be friends with her. Social butterfly can be a good friend and attractive to some girls, but it might also bring the wrong idea to some insecure girls. So it depends on what type of girl you like and what she is looking for. Meanwhile, just be yourself, have fun and enjoy life^^

[yesthisisme]

I think this situation is more common than most of us are aware... At least in our age group.

I think there are pro's and con's to both types and its not to say that one wouldn't go from being a lone wolf to a social butterfly and vice versa. I know both and don't really consider it, its more important if the social butterfly or the lone wolf can find private time for a potential interest.

[katiesmuff]

That is a very attractive type of person. Much easier to get a hook up with a guy who is alone rather than out partying with a group of friends.

[slipslender]

doesn't matter

[coralcay]

Sure, sometimes they can be very appealing. But some (shy) women find them a little bit intimidating or unapproachable. If you want to do the whole lone wolf thing, do it, but don't forget to smile and be a little bit friendly. Chances are it'll open you and a woman to a good friend/relationship.

[Anonymous]

Yeah, that's how I am, so I'm more compatible with loners. I don't find a social life to be that important, if I have one or two close friends, that's enough.