Do guys care about saggy bums? cellulite? stretch marks? big labia?... ect

I am self conscious of how I look with no clothes on... I am petite (I'm 5'3 and 48 kilos) but my bum saggs, I have stretch marks on my bum and thighs and boobs (even though they are only B cups), I also have some cellulite on my thighs and bum, and my body doesn't seem very "toned"... I also don't like the way my vagina looks, the inner bits hang out a lot! so I am really scared to take my clothes off (mostly pants) in front of a guy... or anyone for that matter ha ha I was even embarrassed when I had a doctors appt.
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  • your description sounds like me, b cups stretch marks on them and my legs, some cellulite, I don't feel I'm toned, labia stick out, all of it. ha ha your not alone! I have tried working out allot to get rid of my bit of cellulite, but it won't go away, and I spent all of my teenage years crying over my stretch marks, (I have more than average girl, but I'm used to it now), at 32 B I can only wish they were bigger(surgery scares me) and I hate my bits. I feel way better with clothes on, I have a pretty face and nice hair, I'm not fat. That gets me through life.

  • Saggy bum? well my boyfriend doesn't like and and I don't think its attractive either. Try squats, lunges, cardio, stair master (amazing!) and hip abductions. <--- lots of it and stay consistent.

    stretch marks from what I hear isn't a big issue, I have some on my bum as well. and I hear big labia isn't a problem either.

    work out your glutes!

  • The guy wants to get his penis between those bits you speak of and will not care about any normal stretch marks (that we all have somewhere), or any other part.

    • nicely put katie!

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  • To be perfectly honest, most of the stuff you listed would be a bit of a turn off for me, but it would depend on the severity. The one thing I don't care about at all is how your vagina looks. Unless its really really weird looking, I wouldn't have a problem. Having your inner labia hang out is normal and all girls have this to varying degrees. I def like a toned body and butt though, and excessive stretch marks/ cellulite isn't exactly hot.

    • They aren't excessive but I do have them. Mostly on my thighs underneath my bum there are faded stretch marks but it makes it look wrinkled or something and when I pull the skin tight I can see light purple lines so I know they are stretch marks :( the cellulite is only on my bum, if I squeeze it together you can see it & it's mostley my bottom that isn't toned it's really hard to get it firm :(

    • Well it sounds to me like you really have less of an issue than you think. Obviously there might be some room for improvement, but it doesn't sound like a huge deal.

  • Your complaints are so trivial I would never give them a second thought and as far as your inner bits hanging out I for one love that. Getting them between my lips and sucking on them is fun.

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  • Stfu you're only 48 kilos! D: you cannot be that bad I am an inch shorter and about 10 kilos heavier. Imma sucker punch you for saying you have stretch marks you probably don't at all.

    • I do have them! Mostly on my thighs... They have faded but you can see little lines in my skin and makes it look like it has wrinkles or something.

    • Oh hush!

  • There is no final answer on this but I think a general rule is: things you can't change about yourself because you are born that way won't bother people nearly as much as things you can change (e.g. Weight or hygiene).

  • Time to hit the Gym don't you think? Lol

  • don't be too picky on yourself. Don't worry about having large labia lips, I think these kind of lips look beautiful on a girl. When I settle down with a girl I am hoping she has a really big set of protruding lips.

  • You sound beautiful, and those things aren't turn offs. In most they will be turn on's

  • lol the title made me laugh sorry LOL "saggy bums"