"When my husband was alive we got in the habit of lying sort of on our sides while having intercourse. After a while the missionary position became painful because I couldn't spread my legs open wide enough. I could be on top with a little discomfort but my husband was very thin. Now I have a boy friend who is a big guy and I just can't open my legs wide enough to straddle him. Does anyone know of some exercises I could do to stretch my inner thigh muscles so I can open my legs wider?"
This is a response off of WebMD. It mentions that he's too big for her to open her legs wide enough, causing her pain. So she asks if there are certain exercises that will help strengthen her thighs so that she can open them wider. Keep in mind though that if she strengthens her thighs, they'll become bigger. If you don't like big thighs on women, you'll just have to make her feel more comfortable so that she's not in pain.
She's saying he's too big. I don't know if she's referring to his "size" or just his size in general. To me, it sounds like his size in general.
Yes, there are exercises that you can do. I'd suggest doing each stretch in order, holding the position until you feel a burning sensation in the stretched area and then easing off. Repeat each stretch 3-5 times consecutively once a day. You may observe reasonable results after 6 months and significant results in 2-3 years (e. g. able to comfortably do the splits). You might find the order helpful: 1. Calf Stretch: Wall Calf Stretch 2. Hamstring Stretch: Reclined Single-Leg Stretch 3. Hamstring Stretch: Hurdler 4. Inner-Thigh Stretch: Straddle NOTE: the trick here is to push the legs outwards to increase the stretch (it will feel tight and uncomfortable but it is absolutely necessary to improve flexibility) 5. Hamstring Stretch: Seated Forward Bend Now, different people/sites might call these exercises by different names so I got the names for these off of a website called popsugar. These are the only exercises I did once a twice a week for 3 years, which allowed me to be able to do the splits whether sitting or standing. You will feel discomfort and aching while doing a stretch if you're doing it properly; however, you should avoid stretching to the point where you feel a sharp pain. Listen to your body. It is a fine line between getting the necessary ache during each individual stretch and that sharp pain. Don't force yourself. Slow and steady wins the race.
Don't have this issue.
She doesn't actually need to spread _wide_ she can simply pull knees towards chest/shoulders with legs bent. Get great depth that way. Sometimes too great ...
There's only so much a girl can do in the missionary position? What do you expect her to do?!
You can go in deeper by putting her legs on your shoulders and curving to the shape of her legs so you can penetrate deeper or turn her on her side so her legs are bent together and facing one way and you enter from the side, use your imagination and take control but in the end a girl can only stretch as much as possible!
Ok. Well what I'm talking about is a simple straightening of the leg from the knee. Just straighten your legs from the knee for starters. Lighten the load up on our arms why don't ya? THEN there IS the flexibility at the hip. Maybe a little more than shoulder width...and most don't say most can. They can't. The way they react you think you were trying to open a can of tuna (no pun intended) without the key. Jeez.. That's what I'm talking about. That's what I want.
why does it bother you that much? I'm just curious. I'm not a major sexual person so I don't really have any idea what your talking about but if you like the girl enough to even be having sex with her why does she has to be flexible? except her for who she is.. damn
This ain't about "accepting her." This about women's awareness of what men would appreciate in bed. And we would like the illusion of being with a woman that is as sexy in bed as she was at the bar or in the club or when the two of you spoke at the library. How about you straightening your leg at the knee for starters. Do that and then we can plan for the ears behind the head thing.
i'm no gymnast but I'm pretty flexable... you must be having sex with someone who doesn't participate... I always do? I tend to do more work than the guy
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Uhh, I don't know what girls you're f.ucking, lol, but I've never had that issue.
What are you talking about?
I am very flexible in the missionary.
What do you mean? She cannot wrap her legs around you?
What do you want.. her feet to be over her head? lol You must watch way too much p*rn, the average woman is not a gymnast. Its like saying to a guy why didn't you do some Kegel's you know this time was gonna come.
No I don't want her feet behind her ears. I would settle for if she could just straighten her legs from the knee. Then we could work from there. Has nothing to do with p*rn and everything to do with women's awareness. It's not bad enough WE as men have all the pressure on us to make you climax, now we got to deal with the fact that you are auditioning to be the next DuWalt visegrip or jaws-of-life. Now, tell me. Where am I being unreasonable?
This post makes no sense, and I've never even been with a girl.
Ok. Then reality is sound.
Im very flexible;) but what do you mean in the missionery, like her legs up/around you?:/
do explain... hermit crab?
cause I'm pretty sure no one understands your question.
Encyclopedia dot com will help you open the door. Then you can sit with the grown-ups and converse. Look for "hermit crab." Can't go wrong from there. - cheers -
LOL
I can only speak for myself, I'm flexible in the missionary position.
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