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Is it ok to go for anal sex on a one night stand?

I usually feel like it's going a bit over the top to get tooo freaky with a girl that I meet at a bar/club, but is trying anal in a one night stand... Show More

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  • Like everyone else said, you just have to throw the question/topic out there and see if she is game for it. It really depends on the girl and her views about anal. It wouldn't freak me out because I enjoy it, especially if it's what he wants and turns him on. But then again, I am a very sexually ambitious and confident woman and everyone is different. I actually did have anal on what I thought was going to be a one night stand (turned into a LDR), but it was great and it definitely turned me on.

    • So women who wouldn't have anal sex during a one-night stand are automatically not "sexually ambitious" or "confident"? That is a pretty arrogant assumption to make. Get real, you don't know everything about everyone, and whether you would or wouldn't doesn't instantly make you better or worse than someone else. Grow up.

What Girls Said 4

  • Ask! If she seems like the type to go for it, then why not? However, don't just go for it without permission; that's a quick way to end a hook up without getting off.

    • I should have been more clear - I would definitely ask.... but even asking can be a big turn off (or turn on). Would you definitely advise on posing the question?

  • Just shove it in there! What's the worst that could happen?

    • She could say - "get out of my apartment you freak"

  • the one one night stand that I had I did anal and pretty much everything else you can do, I think it just depends on the girl and what they're up for. I wouldn't have a one night stand again but at the time I was feeling freaky and didn't really care. just ask her, if it's a one night stand you're probably never going to see her again so what do you have to lose?

    • I should have been more clear - I would definitely ask.... but even asking can be a big turn off (or turn on). Would you definitely advise on posing the question?

    • Yes if you want anal I would definitely ask, it would probably be best to make sure that she's already had an orgasm just so everyone leaves happy, but it's your one night stand why not ask for what you want, again you probably won't see her again so no harm done. true she might get pissed and tell you to leave but that's the risk you take.

    • Good call - I think I'm going to ask a different version of the same question momentarily. This really intrigues me. Thanks!

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