Should I wear a chastity belt?

So my girlfriend says that she thinks I have done it behind her back (which I haven't). So she wants me to get a chastity belt and wear it and let her hold the keys. Should I agree to this? Would it make me less of a man if I do? And if yes where should I get one from?
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  • You should tell her no. Coming from a girl's point of view I think she has trust issues, is controlling, and by wearing that it's definitely taking away from your masculinity... A LOT. Trust is part of the foundation of a good relationship, and if she's lacking trust how do you expect to have a good relationship if she's always questioning her faithfulness.

    For the sake of your masculinity & pride I wouldn't do it. Plus I think chastity belts were a thing for women around the 15th century, so ur girlfriend is a bit behind the times. I don't think there's any way to show her that ur not cheating (even though in reality ur not) its just something that she has to decide on her own.

  • if this is a serious question, I think she sounds a bit controlling. or should I say extremely controlling. don't do it if you don't want to, there are other ways to prove that you are faithful to her. have you given her reason to doubt you? even if you have, a chastity belt seems a little extreme. I know that I would never get one for a guy, no matter how much I loved him. if my word meant absolutely nothing to him and he wanted me to wear a chastity belt to prove myself to him, I would tell him to go screw.

  • When I think of chastity belt, I think of the Love Guru. That's pretty ridiculous. Maybe a ring?

    I don't think you should get one either. And do you really want to be with someone who doesn't trust you? Have you even given her a reason not to?

    If you go through with this, I only see her becoming more and more controlling. Your decision if you really like her and want to risk that..

  • woah... talk about controlling. Would it make you less of a man? - um, well if you're considering it, you can't be much of a man to start off with. If she can't trust you that's her problem... if you feel the need to go this far maybe you should rethink the relationship.

Most Helpful Guys

  • No, don't wear one! Yes, dump her and get a new girlfriend when you're ready. You should ask her where she picked that idea up from. At your age you don't need some girl controlling you like this. Besides this being completely out of line, it could cause you some emotional and mental changing damage to be allowing yourself to be under the control of a young girl that has no clue what she's doing. Yes, it would make you less of a man if you do. It could change your sexual attitude for years if not life starting something like this so young. She has some serious problems with trust issues. I think you need to stand your ground and stay the man you now are.

  • 1. HELL NO don't agree.

    2. Yes in agreeing to it you would be symbolically giving your blue balls to her on a platter made form the remains of your dignity.

    3. "time travel" -aj

    If she's accusing you of cheating on her why are you two still together? It seems like she wants to control every aspect of your life. What if you end up getting the belt and you two break up? BAM you're stuck with that monstrosity on you and need to cut the thing off (which probably will be a hard thing to do). I agree with what everybody on here has said so far.

    DON'T DO IT!

    and if you do, your choice.

    • @ your update good job!

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  • is this even real? that is crazy.. I would say NO.she needs to trus you... its a number thing in any relationship..she got issues

  • even if I had the slightest doubt in my boyfriend, I would never demand a chastity belt. that's way out of line.

  • This is a joke, right?

  • best question ever.

    • But not serious :D

  • If you're even considering this, then you should at least ask for equal treatment and have her wear one as well.

    You could probably get one at some sex shop. Barring that, perhaps some time travel back to the dark ages would be in order.

  • oh wow

    your girlfriend has issues

  • On the one hand she sounds completely psychotic and very domineering. But on the other hand if you're even considering going along with it then that means you are a naturally submissive person who wants to be controlled and thus are a good match for her. Regardless of what you do, though, don't expect for the relationship to last.

  • Smart man. Go find someone better.

  • The request is completely unreasonable because the request itself states that she doesn't trust you.

    Dump her ass on the spot and block her calls.

  • Oh. My. Gawd.

    Talk about possessive... dump her, if this is serious.

  • She has trust issues, if you say you haven't then she should believe you. Don't wear the belt, if she doesn't believe you then that's her problem not yours.

  • ummm...it sounds like more of a trust issue than anything else.

    i vote no on the chastity belt.

  • That kind of play is only for consensual parties. Since it doesn't sound like you both are in a consensual relationship I'd say don't do it (this coming from a person who LOVES that kind of play). On top of that it would take a long time to find a comfortable and secure device, many involving a ton of money and/or PA piercings.

  • Wear it. They can be quite erotic to play with, and it will make you so hot with need for her. Less of a man? No. Not unless keeping your woman happy and being confident enough in yourself to put her wishes first makes me less of a man. Besides, real men save it all for their women and don't masturbate anyway...

  • I would have worn one gladly, provided I got to keep the keys to the one she was wearing

  • Let her lock you right now. You're the lucky one who found a woman like that.

  • I second what weaponzero said. It sounds like the two of you are a good match