"The fap theory" - if you love her you can't j*ck off to her?

I just read this somewhere: "try to masturbate thinking of her, if you can't come you are in love, but if you come a lot you are just horny." what? can a guy please explain this to me? why would you not be able to masturbate to the thought of a girl you're in love with?
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  • Idk if that is true my boyfriend since I was 12 and he was 13 has been fapping to me lol he tells me when he thinks of me he comes more than when watching p*rn... and I know he loves me... also we have phone sex when we can't be together and he let's me hear him fap because it turns me on lol

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  • hmmmm interesting.

    I think it's quite possible to masturbate to the thought of someone you love. but the feelings behind it would probably be different. the whole act of masturbation would be emotionally

    different from fapping to, lets say, p*rn. I hope I make sense in some way.

  • That's dumb. Probably true for guys who feel like their girlfriend is some pure little angel whose sanctity must be protected, so they feel guilty for fapping to her or something.

    • Ben, you're my new favorite for sure :)

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  • One word - Stupid theory.

  • Sure is nothing I have ever read, or heard of!

  • I can say that one girl who I've been interested in since grade nine, well I barely ever think of her in an explicit sexual way.

  • Any guy who thinks that way thinks that good girls don't like sex.

    I would strongly suggest not dating a guy with those unhealthy views.

  • That's a stupid theory.

    Sorry, but it just is. I can't imagine what sort of deranged mind would ever have come up with it.

    • haha OK good to hear. I thought it was BS but there were all these guys commenting on how true it is, kind of blew my mind.

    • No way. If that were true, then all of Scotland would be in love with Susan Boyle.

  • Stick ymNo, it's more like if I can fap while thinking about her, finish, and still have more feelings to the point I want to continue talking to her then it means I have more feelings than just wanting to stick my d*** in them... which is rare for me...

  • That is sure news to me!

  • No doubt a woman came up with that ridiculous theory.

  • beyond stupid, get new smarter friends, I've fapped to all kinds of girls and what you're saying makes no sense

    think about how many husbands and wives can fap to each other over the phone or on cam? duhhh

  • yes your correct it works I and many of my frnds has discussed and approved this too ...love is spiritual and emotional bond and hence your feelings is not the same but it reaches a whole another level surpassing all those physical barrers its a soul-soul contact and hence you dnt fap thinking about her...while there are som e girls you dnt love but they look nic and hence the fap

    • so there IS one guy who agrees. strange. shouldn't you be turned on by your gf?