Girls: Would you ever have a FFM threesome with your S.O., with these ground-rules? (see details)

[Anonymous]

OK girls. Would you ever have a FFM threesome (two girls, one guy) with your S.O., with the following ground-rules: - you and your S.O. can do whatever you want with each other, as long as you both enjoy it (kissing, oral, penetration, etc) - you and the other girl can do whatever you want with each other, as long as everyone is comfortable with it - the other girl can give your S.O. oral sex, but that's it (no kissing, penetration, or anything else between them) Would you ever do this, under those restrictions? Obviously it'd be something like a birthday treat for him, and not an everyday occurrence. I ask because, I don't know about other guys, but one of my ultimate fantasies is getting a double BJ (two girls sucking me simultaneously). Also, if any of you have actually DONE this, please share how it went! Thanks! :-)

[Jsvrgn]

I love the idea of a ffm 3some and totally want to do it one day. I am just not sure I could do it with someone I love. Don't think I would take the chance. As for the rules, I figure if it ever happened, it would be a random/spontaneous thing and so not sure I would be into the whole rules thing. Its all just a big fantasy for me, not so sure I would ever really do it though!

[jennathegreat]

ok call one of your friends :)

[Kevin137]

I did it with friends several times, never someone I was serious with, get's too difficult

[cun7n1nja]

No. In theory it might seem like fun, but in practice I couldn't and wouldn't do it. I don't share when I'm in a relationship. If all parties were purely casual and I were unattached, maybe, but otherwise no. I don't want to share my partner and I'm uncomfortable with the idea of them being willing to share me.

[Asker]

Fair enough. If I were your boyfriend, I'd be fine with your stance on this because, based on other anwers I've seen from you, I'd still be VERY sexually satisfied! :-)

[Asker]

*answers

[cun7n1nja]

Lol, thanks. =] Aside from possibly involving other people, I do and enjoy EVERYTHING my boyfriend has expressed interest in and likes, so I don't see it being too much of a problem in our relationship.

[toulouse]

no, id do a mmf, but not an fm. simply because I'm not into females. & same rules except, I wouldn't have sex, do oral , or kiss, the guy, I'm not with.

[ketfoen]

wait a minute, you wanna have a mmf but your not gonna kiss, do oral or have sex, so what else is left, holding hands? lol

[toulouse]

whats left is they can both play with me, do oral on each other & me & my boyfriend, can f***. there's at least 3 ways to come each time, with any one of those scenarios. not very much like holding hands.

[Asker]

Would you be OK with the scenario you just described, except the guys don't do anything to each other (i.e. all-hetero action)? If so, I think I'd be willing to do that! :-) Also, does "play with me" extend to eating out? Would you let the second guy eat you out?

[toulouse]

hmm I gues, th id rather they mess around, so I don't feel like I'm getting all the fun. ummm. eating out.not sure, id have to discuss it with my boyfriend. he's the only one ws ever touched my vag, so yeah, idk. ;)

[Asker]

I would* love to give my girl pleasure more than anything else -- and I get the feeling that having two guys eating you out simultaneously would feel AMAZING! :-) * I say "would" because I'm a virgin

[toulouse]

lol ;-)

[kheserthorpe]

You'd need very narrow heads.

[toulouse]

lol.

[Asker]

Yea, the angling on it might be a bit difficult, lol. Maybe you could have one guy focus just on your clit, and the other guy take care of your other "hotspots." How does that sound, toulouse? ;-)

[toulouse]

Yeah sounds just fine ;)

[Asker]

Hell yea! Then what're we waiting for? hahaha

[toulouse]

I think I initially said I 'might' . so this is all _if_ I did. I don't know if I would, tho. Sorry ;)

[Asker]

But don't you think it would feel amazing?

[toulouse]

of course. that's why I 'might' do it. the reasons I might not, have nothing to do with it not feeling amazing physically. it has to do with what I think of it ethically,ok or not OK, or whether I decide ethics even plays a role etc, as to whether I do it or not, and of course, discussing it with my boyfriend. but yeah, I'm sure it'd feel amazing. generally, I think we humans need more hands, to realize a truly amazing potential sexually, for one on one sex, imo.

[anupamagrawal]

I am not a girl, so the question is not for me. But I was wondering - do you really think anyone will remember these rules when they will get turn on. For me sex has one rule - no rule.

[toulouse]

minimally, there's the no means no, rule. which can /does/ happen AFTER getting urned on.

[Asker]

I would, because I'd just remind myself that if I break these rules, bye-bye relationship!

[samhradh_leannan]

I wouldn't. My boyfriend is one thing I just will not share. It might be a fun fantasy, but the reality is always a lot more complicated. Some people can handle it, but I know I couldn't.

[DebiPie]

No. Any man who would share his woman has no respect for her. She is not someone he plans on spending his life with. We all know this. We all know this.

But maybe a woman who doesn't want to be with you for long would do it.

[BrutalBritt22]

BA(:

[DebiPie]

Thanks.

[katiesmuff]

Not fond of rules when it comes to things like this. If we are going to have a FFM I would encourage him to get inside her as well as me. No restrictions.

[ketfoen]

2 thumbs up, to bad I can only give you one :)

[kheserthorpe]

Admit it, it was three thumbs up.

[clmgen]

definitely..

[MikaPatt]

No I would never have a ffm threesome, but one day I do want to have a mmf threesome. I'm not attracted to other females, I don't want to kiss another girl or do anything with her. Plus I wouldn't share my man with another female.

[BravoHawk]

Would you actually do a fmm... I think you would chicken out.

[jenndrop24]

NO, these things never work out in the long run.

[icarainbow3]

No, I'd rather just be with one person.

[JennieF]

That sounds like a good set of rules.

[Anonymous]

Hell no.(:

I have to much self respect.

[Anonymous]

I have had one of these, and it was fun, but we were all just friends. I'm engaged now and I would NEVER share my man, nor does he want to share me. If I saw some girl touching him it'd drive me crazy and I'd probably hurt her.

[DebiPie]

Uh huh.

[Opinion Owner]

DebiPie, can I help you?