Why do supreme men go for trashy women?

This long weekend My long time girlfriend invited me to come over to her house. She started calling me @ about 9:00am in the morning non-stop. I finally answered and she INSISTED that I get over there and have a 3-some with her and this fine Spanish guy that was over visiting. She is Cambodian and I am white. Not that it matters, but it seriously would have been hot. At first I was like wtf? Yeah right! Because I do not usually engage in activity like that. But she was calling me off of the hook practically begging me to come over and asked me to buy condoms. So I showered, got ready and made my way down there since she was willing to pay my $50.00 cab. Me and her have sexual history with one another, she is bisexual but would take male private part any day ;p as would I. I hadn't seen her for a while Because we fought for a year. This was our first time chilling in a long time. The minute I seen her I knew she had been up all night doing coke (which is the usual for her). We Went in the house and she introduced me to him. I seen him and I was like Dammme holy sh*t. so fine. He was so Hot. He came out and sat beside me and said to her "your friend is really pretty" she is not like your other friends and blah blah. Without going into to much detail the day went on and we chilled all day and drank. And the more the day went on, the more I could tell that she was just fronting and did not actually want to have a threesome and got us both excited for no reason. All day he kept looking into my eyes and told me how beautiful I was, nice eyes, nice shoes, nice jacket, he likes my height yada ya. I could see the lust in his eyes. We didn't touch each other, he just put his arms around me for a bit. While she was jumping around the cab in her stained mini skirt with ass hanging out and all. Needless to say she started getting really jealous that he was digging me EVEN THOUGH she is the one who initiated the whole thing. Then she started throwing her p**** at him and getting him high off of blow and making sure he wasn't really talking to me. They even went to the room to f*** without me. Talk about a p**** tease...What baffles my mind is l am an attractive girl, have a straight head on my shoulders, intelligent, good job, stable home. And I am a good parent. Spiritual. I am a good catch. But instead a man of his stature goes for complete trash like that. And yes I said she was my friend, but nothing I say of her is false. It is all completely true! She couldn't even go pick up her kid Because she was to high. Her parents wouldn't even let them around they're house or around her kid. Also she doesn't work, her house is a f***ing barn. There is 3 day old chicken and food laying around, and heaps of laundry. Also she has no class and is a little Kim wannabe, drug addict whore (literally) and the minute he left she was calling up other dudes. Do you think he really likes her, he kept telling her to go to bed while we were in his condo. Wonder if he would have made a move?
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He asked me if she has always been like this. Crazy, wild and no care about her kid. I had no choice but to be honest. I am really jealous though because I want him. There is sexual tension now. I know I could easily get his number from his phone and message him on the downlow or FB him. But I am simply not that desperate. I am mad at her for playing games. And I can tell she is deliberately trying to make me jealous by texting me about nothing other than how much he apparently likes her.
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o yeah they have known each other for a week and met in a strip club, did I mention that. LOL and she picked him up. And all the sudden started calling him her BF, and even saying I love you. He even straight up told her he still loves his babys's Mother and missed her so bad. Should I act psycho like this to get fine, rich men? Please tell me...lol
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Most Helpful Girls

  • If that's what he likes then that's what he likes. There's no rule in the book that he's SUPPOSED to be with a "classy" woman. Maybe he's not even concerned about being in a serious relationship? You sound a bit jealous. I'm not trying to insult you though.

    There are plenty of "supreme" men out there that are looking for relationships. Go look for them.

    • true true. NO rules! I am jealous lol.. obviously. I think its bullsh*t tho that she can get a guy that looks that good with the way she carry's herself. But then again, maybe he's super sh*tty inside. Looks only go so far., Meh, what's a girl to do?! :)

    • Well that's the problem. He just looks good. That doesn't mean he's a "supreme" man. He probably has a wild side himself, & they were a great match?

    • BTW, I know you're jealous about it but there's not much you can do, even if you really want him. Being catty about it will only make you as trashy as you say she is.

  • The reverse side of the coin for the guys who wonder why girls go after jerks.

    Men go for trashy women because they're great in bed and easier to manipulate.

    • Hmm very interesting input, thanks. That makes sense now...but theyre really gonna commit or play them do you think? In which way do you see them minipulating?

    • Tough to say

  • i'd seriously consider calling child protection services.

    • apparently she is gonna "clean up" and be normal around her kid and only gets twised when the kid isn't around?! Although I don't see her ever changing.. she has been like this for 8 years and is getting a horrible rep. Question remaining: Does p**** really have that much power? Even if your complete trash, you can whip a guy with your vajayjay?

    • Besides, I really don't think that would be a nice thing to do. She is messed up yeah, but its not my place to report her to the government and get her kid taken away. Only a hatin' ass rat would do that. F***the Government, the child won't be better off with the government. It will only make the situation worse! Atleast her Family takes care of the kid! Hopefully she gets clean.

    • yeah I'm sorry to hear the way you were treated by her too. that's a not a real friend. it sounds like she was using you to get that guy. and I think that is just gross what she did. yuck. all I can say is I wouldn't even be bothered with any man that's just out looking for a piece of a$$. he definitely is not worth it. take care and be proud of yourself that you don't have to reduce yourself like that to get attention/sex from a man.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Here's a crazy idea. Go for a guy with a halfway-decent personality and you won't have to put up with situations like this. Also, I don't understand why you are friends with a girl that treats you like that and you talk sh*t about like this.

    • We probably are not genuine friends I would say...

    • Good. I would avoid her if I were you because she is obviously going nowhere in life and you don't want to get dragged down with her.

  • this sounds so messed up, I don't even know were to begin. I'm just as clueless as you are in that kinda situation. LOL

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  • What a mess

  • I'm still waiting on the description that makes this man supreme... So far he sounds like a bottom feeder to me.

  • No one comes off as supreme in this story. You just found him very attractive.

    I'm going to assume that he was only over there for sex. If he wasn't, he is terribly stupid.

    • lol.. I know. I was re-thinking the title. Guess some people don't see theyre worth and settle for slime scum. Yes attraction only for me as I do not even know him...according to her he is going to bring his kid over and spend the week. I don't get it.

    • He is going to bring his kid to the house of a "drug addict whore"? lol

    • i guess soo... :-/. By surpreme Man I meant very good looking, good money, nice car, dope job. Good philosophical sense. But the more you say , the more I question my own motives. Lol.. I am a drug free person. But I just feel so frustrated that she led me on. And I am more than positive we both want each other now. But now all the sudden he is off limits?!.. if only he knew. God, he must be dumb hey. What kind of guy would wanto get to know a girl like that and subject his kid? For real