Women, please read this and tell me how it is that penis size doesn't matter when this is what happend to me

[Anonymous]

Friday and Saturday night. Friday afternoon was spent with my friends and their wives. "Im so glad you're not small." My friends wife said looking at her husband. "I just really wanted someone big and yummy." My other friend paused and looked at her. "Youre just like (beth, referring to his wife) she's the same way." So that night I went out thinking as usual that I just have some unusual friends. (because like you will say not "all" women want a big penis.). So I approached a group of men to start off at the club and then I moved on to a table full of women. They were lauging hysterically. "What are you guys laughing about?" I said, trying to be friendly. One of them stopped laughing, looked at me up and down and said. "The small penis size of most men, Go away! can't you see where trying to have a conversation!?" "thats funny, so am i!" I said tongue in cheek. She looked back at me with one of those sarcastic smiles that women have. You know the ones. "Were trying to have one WITHOUT YOU!" So I walked off. Now I know what you're thinking. You're thinking, oh she was just blowing you off and they weren't really talking about that. Really? you think so? Well so did i. UNTIL So I had a few other approaches that night one time I was just standing there and a woman walked up to me while I was just doing nothing and said "DONT YOU KNOW THAT SHE doesn't LIKE YOU! GO AWAY!" and I'm like WTF? Who is she even talking about? so I left the area. So I walked over to the bar where this drunk woman and I started talking. She pointed out a guy with really bad body language his legs pushed together and she says to me. "Hes got a small d***." So I left that night thinking what the f***. So I decided Saturday was going to be different. I fasioned a VERY realistic looking penis and placed it around my own. Were talking this boy was huge. And I wore really really tight pants so you could see it. I went to that same club (Different people but still) and didn't approach a single person. Instead I had women grabbing my ass, approaching ME. I was even propositioned by a woman to have sex with her. (she was not a whore.) At one point I had groups of 5-6 women gather around me grinding on me trying to dance with me. I had to PUSH THEM AWAY. I had a woman walk up to me and tell me how "handsome" I was. Another told me how I was "the best dressed guy there". (btw I was wearing the same clothes from last night. THE SAME ONES. and I've never been complimented on them EVER by anyone.) The whole night I had no more than 4 to 5 women conveniently in my area standing there just "looking around". I had to assume that they wanted me to talk to them. Cause many times I caught them staring at me and smiling. I went home with 5 numbers that I didn't even ask for. So please tell me how penis size does not matter?

[jlb03]

I can answer this question, because I brought this topic up tons of times with women. Size matters, but not the way most guys think. Girls don't want huge or small. One hurts too bad, and the other you can't feel. The average woman wants above average, which is 7 inches by 5 and half inches thick. This is the ideal penis size for the average woman. It's the most bought dildo size in the united states.

Though, I have learned. The more sex partners a girl has, the more size. Not sure if it's mental or physical, but she may feel a bigger **** is more of a challenge. So if your average size or below, stay away from girls with high numbers. You may both be disappointed at the end of the night.

I fall into the bigger end of above average. Has it helped me? Yes and no. It gives me more confidence going into the bedroom, and girls seems to like the visual of a good sized d***. As for performance? I have gotten a few complaints on my length and my d*** seems to not get as hard as I would like. So overall, I wouldn't want a smaller d***. Though if it was, I still think I could of gave the girls the same amount of pleasure as I do now.

[G_GTom]

It matters. A woman once told me that every woman cares about size. She wants as much as she can take, but no more. How much can each woman take? That depends on the size of her vagina. If she prefers a large penis, she has a larger vagina. Why? Because there are women who can't handle as much as she can; therefore, one woman is larger than the other. It's really that simple.

So, yes, it matters to women. But the size of their vagina matters to me. Just as some women are turned on by large penis, I am completely turned off by a woman with a large vagina.

[justaskin8888]

wrongish. remember a woman can pass an entire human child from her body--and that's a helluva lot bigger. that means even a small chick can appreciate size. once again, you're talking exceptions to the rule.

[G_GTom]

So, women like to feel as though she is giving birth when she has sex? Just because you can do something doesn't mean it's desirable. Vaginas tear during birth. It's so painful, women often get an epidural. I can undergo surgery without any anesthesia. Is that the way my body is supposed to behave under normal circumstances? Can you explain to me why some women get their cervix hit at 6 inches and others don't get it hit even at 12 inches?

[G_GTom]

If what you said was true, then every woman on the face of the planet would prefer the exact same size penis down to the 1/16th of an inch in both length and girth. There would be absolutely no variation because all vaginas would be the same. This isn't true. We can even see this from the women posting in this thread.

[justaskin8888]

you missed the point. but go ahead. seems your married to the notion and I wouldn't want to shatter that for you. bsides, some guys can't handle the truth about women. that's why women don't tell you. and that's why a lot of women lie. and that's why you've gotten all of this bogus crap about 3 inches being amazing. good luck!

[G_GTom]

Never said what size is amazing or what size is not. What I'm not interested in is women who can accommodate and prefer larger men. It's their right to have such a preference, but that doesn't mean I have to want them. I'll wait for a woman more my size. We can already see the difference in size of the woman posting in this thread. I'll just wait for one of those women :)

[strawfield]

This is actually a great answer. teh fact that it does matter does not mean that we want it as big as possible! Once I had a "bigger" guy and it was painful. I know that the pain would go away later, but I just find it easier to have an "average" guy.

[G_GTom]

Yeah, but some other women in this thread believe that all women are the same size. Perhaps they are just as insecure about their size as I am about mine. If they lump all women into the same category then they have nothing to worry about because all women are the same. Nice try on their part.

[Anonymous]

of course it matters, why would any guy ask? think about anatomy here, why wouldn't she? and I agree w/the guy who says the responses are unrealistic online. but I'm gonna tell you the truth: women irl care. its like asking someone, "do you want a little bit of money or a lot." any normal individual is going to say "a lot." my best advice is that if you understand female anatomy even to a miniscule degree, you shouldn't EVER ask a woman this question because you already know the answer. stop fishing for an exception or an ego stroke. because likely that's just what you'll get--an exception or an ego stroke--or an ego strike (which could be painful). Here's the point: if society would let them, women would act just like men or worst!

[MikeK]

Good answer, but society IS letting them and they ARE acting worse than men

[Opinion Owner]

@mike: not yet, my dear, not yet.

[G_GTom]

Women have always been just as bad as men and, in some ways, worse. It's now that they are getting the independence and opportunity to express themselves.

[Opinion Owner]

@gg. of course. we're all human. women are always called on the carpet but men get away with a lot. so as that line begins to disappear, women will be able to do what men do with impunity as well.

[rotinaj10]

Where did this idea guys can get away with anything come from? just on this site guys are always getting called out for being a**holes. The where, when and who does matter when it comes to being judged but society doesn't hold anybody back from anything.

[Opinion Owner]

@rotinaj online anything is possible. IRL its just as I said it.

[G_GTom]

I don't see the harm is asking. Yes it matters, but women are built differently. You can see it by the responses in this thread. So, why would I want a woman who prefers the size of another man. If that's what she wants, I'm not going to stand in her way. I'll just find someone who wants what I have.

[Opinion Owner]

the question you should be asking is are you happy with me. that's MOST important. the questions about size are just fishing for compliments, cons, or cruelty. its like when your girlfriend asks if she looks fat. your not getting realistic answers frm women on this message board. read the asker's experience again. and then read it again. its like when a hot chic walks by and your girlfriend says, "do you think she's pretty?" Duh! Why would she even ask you such a dumb question?

[rotinaj10]

Got some good points anon... It shouldn't matter what women think... It's what my woman thinks. But there's nothing wrong with someone asking a question to the general population of women.

[G_GTom]

I see what you're saying and she may be happy with me, but doesn't mean she's happy about my size. She may be just dealing with it because other things are good. Fair enough, but I don't want a woman to feel that way about me. I understand not a lot of people will share my opinion on this, but I don't care what other people think when it comes to my happiness. I'm willing to wait for a woman who prefers my size. Other women can pursue the larger man they desire. I'm not interested in them.

[Opinion Owner]

@gg apparently you are more invested in your member than a good working relationship. majoring on the minors, are we? if that makes you happy. good luck with that.

[G_GTom]

Well, if you really wanted to help, you could give me some hints on how to find such a woman. :) I am interested in a relationship, but, perhaps, not your vision of relationship. I want to feel great in a relationship, not crappy. So, I pick out the people I feel comfortable around. Am I insecure about this? Yup. So, why would I choose someone who makes me feel terrible about this? It's just who I am. Over the years, I've realized it's unpopular to go against the crowd mentality.

[Opinion Owner]

ok I'll share a secret: most men (regardless of size) do not ask women how to please them. they don't experiment WITH said woman to make the experience great. instead they watch p*rn or get tips from other MEN. if she's happy w/you then she will be happy with what you've got. no matter what her "preference" was. if my hubby likes DD and I'm a C; I'm not going to jump off a bridge or dump him 4 that. I'm going 2 make our time 2gether amazing..and buy a pushup bra!

[G_GTom]

Well, thanks for the advice. I must admit, I've gotten similar advice before, but I still can't generate the interest in those women. It's not all bad. With the extra time I have outside of a relationship, I've become very wealthy. Although, money is great, it can't buy you happiness. Well, off to a party. Thanks again.

[Asker]

Heres a question for you then. If women actually prefer bigger penis's then why do so many women online say otherwise? Especially anonymously? Are women so ingrained to lying that they can't even tell the truth anonymously? So they have to lie to make men "feel better" about themselves? Most women I see online say it doesn't matter. So what you're saying is that they are are so ingrained to being liars that they can't help themsevles?

[Opinion Owner]

no. that is not what I am saying. I think you should read GGTom's posts. his responses sum up exactly why a woman might lie in this regard. Some men are just insecure on this point, like a woman and boobs. 2nd, this is a classic "stupid" question men ask, like the classic stupid "do you think she's pretty" and "do I look fat?" again, this isn't rocket science, a cursory understanding of anatomy explains everything. & of course there are exceptions.

[Asker]

As such, I believe all this "smoke blowing" is rooted in nothing other than sheer cowardice. People just don't have the guts to tell other people the truth. Either that, or we don't have the guts to HEAR the truth. So they lie. My stand on the matter is that we're all adults around here and tactful positioning of the TRUTH is always more productive for everyone involved in the dating world than laying false hope on someone.

[Asker]

Never mind that whoever is subject to such mental gymnastics would have to be na?ve and/or flat-out obsessed to believe any of it. That's beside the point. Yet, many of us are serving up more "whoppers" than Burger King when it comes to dealing with people who are interested in us. Stop that. Be honest with people.

[Opinion Owner]

no, all this "smoke blowing" is rooted in pride and asking a stupid question for which you already know the answer. you ask because either insecure, fishing 4 compliments (ego) or your a virgin 12 y/o boy w/no clue about a woman's anatomy. "Do you think she's pretty." is another one. people ask because they want to compare. You lost me on the comment about the "Whoppers" and mental gymnastics--not really sure where that is going... good luck!

[Asker]

Pride doesn't cause people to lie. Fear does. Fear that others won't accept them if they tell the truth, or what they really think. Like I said its cowardice. People should be honest. Unless you think when a guy asks for your number an never calls you is acceptable. Its never OK to mislead people even if you're only doing it to spare feelings. Women giving numbers to guys and then saying "oh gee I hope he never calls me." Is another terrible example Stop it.

[Opinion Owner]

perhaps pride doesn't cause people to lie. But it does cause people to fish for compliments and ask that stupid question. good luck with that!

[Asker]

Calling someone out that they are lying to you is not a result of pride. Its anger. Anger is not pride and does not also cause people to fish for compliments.

[Opinion Owner]

whatevers, dude. maybe you are angry, I don't kno. women are gonna keep asking "do you think she's pretty? do I look fat, and all that bs" and men will keep asking about size and all of that. you conducted your little experiement. you kno the truth now. ~A buon intenditor poche parole~

[Asker]

Maybe if men and women were more honest wed stop asking bullsh*t questions. The reason why men keep asking about penis size is because so many women lie about it.

[Opinion Owner]

no. men ask because they are insecure like the women who ask their bf/hubby "do you think she's pretty and do you think I'm fat?" these are affirmation-seeking questions based on a person's insecurities. if more people were comfortable in their own skin, they wouldn't even ask. men were comparing wieners at 7-8 long b4 they knew women liked those things. no use blaming anyone else for your own insecurity. own it, get over it, and move on.

[Asker]

"men were comparing wieners at 7-8 long b4 they knew women liked those things" False. Men this dates back to evolution. Its seen even in sculptures depicting fertility. Granted, sometimes from men its due to insecurity, and from the woman's perspective those questions are based on insecurity. But this time from me its based on wanting to know the truth. You have to admit that if someone is always getting conflicting stories about something you're going to want to find out the truth.

[Anonymous]

that's pretty bad the way these women were talking about a man's penis. that's just rude and tacky. I'd personally be rather embarassed to have that topic brought up in front of men. it's like men talking openly about a woman's a$$ and t*ts or even worse the size of her you-know-what (ie. she's too loose) not to mention the behavior in the bar. I wouldn't take anything too seriously in those establishments. every one has their own preference in what they like. and that includes both men and women.

[Katie1964]

I prefer an average size penis. In my estimation, 98% are completely acceptable if the guy himself qualifies as a nice genuine guy. Maybe 1% could be to small (never actually encountered this in real life) and 1% to large (I have encountered this with one boyfriend, he so large that we couldn't have sex, his "big" penis was totally worthless and very frustrating).

[Sdavid]

What is the 1% in size for you?

[SteelyMcBeam]

1 Um, you went to the club?

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1 Pretty much most of the women there are out for one-night stands.

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2 Of course they are going to be looking for someone with a large d***. They are promiscuous.

Yeah, it sucks. Women have unrealistic standards like (surprise) men do. That's how life is.

If you want a woman who isn't going to be looking for the biggest penis in the room, do NOT go to the club.

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1 But yeah, I like to dance at the club, too. If you are into the one-night thing, maybe just take some boner pills, strap it down, and then advertise what you have to work with.

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1 Hmmm...so is that why grinding is so popular? I wonder.

[tiny81]

Lol mens standards after a night of drinking is pretty low

[MsShay247]

That's like asking men to say that breast or butt size doesn't matter. Some men are butt men and breast size does not matter and vice versa. Same with penis size. If I were at that club, I would have thought you were disgusting for having your privates showing through your clothes like that. So as you see, every person is different. Size does matter to different women.

[techkitty]

It matters, any worman who tells you it doesn't really likes you ;-)

[Sdavid]

So what is Minimum and Maximum for you?

[JHAYES317]

@techkitty or they just don’t need penetration to orgasm?

[WoIIie]

Girls ONLY think about how much they love big penis and hate average to small ones.

[justme20]

i prefer above average in size. it hits deeper spots and feels a lot better. depends on the woman. penis size is about preference too

[Sdavid]

Do you have tried smaller one?

[rotinaj10]

The majority of women can't get off on penetration alone so what difference does it make? There are other things you can do to make up for having a less than monster cock. Besides its not like guys can do anything about it so why worry about it?

[curiousdude87]

hell yes, best answer right here

[G_GTom]

I'm not going to make up for how I was born. That's like telling a woman, you're fat, but you can make up for by doing my laundry. You are right in that I can't change my size, but I can change the woman.

[RUSHFAN]

If you keep giving a woman orgasms, she is not gonna care about size, one way or another.

[Anonymous]

This is GAG and, as much as they might not wanna admit it, the girls are just as unrepresentative of girls in real life as the guys are. That includes their opinions on whether penis size matters.

[Anonymous]

Women are just as shallow, if not more, as they claim guys are.

"I was even propositioned by a woman to have sex with her. (she was not a whore.)" And are sure about that? Maybe not the ones that take money, but...

[Asker]

100% positive.

[Anonymous]

Honestly I think it depends on the woman? If you went to a different club the reaction might be WAY different.

But personally I prefer guys that are more on the average size? I don't know about anyone else but I don't want a guy who is hung like a horse ahaha

[whattothink]

I agree I dated a guy with a large one and HATED it. As in I had to be completely blasted to get with him. For me I prefer 5-6 with 7 being the max I will let near me.

[Asker]

7 inches isn't all that big. what did you "hate" about it?

[Opinion Owner]

I just don't prefer it because honestly when it's bigger sometimes it hurts? If it's too big I just find it uncomfortable and if I'm not going to enjoy it why bother?

[strawfield]

I agree with you, but it defintiely depends. So, "bigger" guys, you definitely have no reason to be upset. There are many women who like above average size

[Anonymous]

it does matter

[Anonymous]

Lol! It matters..