How picky are guys, to what extent?

Its no secret that we obsess about many many many things when it comes to our looks , and most of us have heard this ::" guys aren't that picky " , to what extent is that true What are the things you picky about and what are the things you can live with and deal with . I'm sure youve heard numerous things women complain about , I'm just going to give you some exampleas just to refresh your memory , but feel free to type any others : Stretch marks Mild acne Cellulite Split ends hair Short hair , curly hair Broad shoulders ( bigger builds ) Height , too tall too short Private parts ( outies , innies , shaved , trimmed , unshaven ) oh and the MOST COMMON ONE : Boobs : their size , areola size , nipple size , color And stretch marks on them
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  • Stretch marks: don't care, most people have them

    Mild acne: don't care, most people have it

    Cellulite: don't care, most girls have it

    Split ends hair: this wouldn't even register.

    Short hair, curly hair: I prefer longer hair, but short hair wouldn't keep me from liking a cool girl. I'd probably ask her to grow it out though.

    Broad shoulders (bigger builds): unless it was extreme, I wouldn't care. I probably wouldn't date a body-builder, though.

    Height , too tall too short: I love petite girls, but I've dated a girl who was 6' before.

    Private parts ( outies , innies , shaved , trimmed , unshaven): Innies and outies are equally attractive. As for hair, my preference is completely bald, but hair on top is fine too, as long as it's bare below. This is so easily changed that it would be hard for it to be a deal-breaker.

    oh and the MOST COMMON ONE :

    Boobs : their size , areola size , nipple size , color And stretch marks on them

    Breast size, areola size, nipple size, and color don't matter to me - I've had a wide range of all of them and they were all nice. Stretch marks aren't a big deal either. The only thing that's disappointing is if her breasts are very deflated and droopy, which is not the same as having big breasts that sag a bit; that's fine.

    Really, though, none of this stuff is nearly as important as the girl's personality and attitude. Sure, we'd love it if every girl was attractive physically, but there are a ton of girls who ARE physically attractive but they are depressed or self-conscious or have sour, rotton personalities, and even though they might look good, we aren't interested. On the other hand, there are plenty of girls who might not have been as blessed with beauty, but have great personalities and positive attitudes, and we're much more likely to choose that girl over a good-looking, sour girl.

    When a girl has trouble attracting a guy, she always goes immediately to looks being the problem, but the reality is that it's almost always her personality or attitude, and usually being shy or self-conscious. Men are biologically programmed to be attracted to a WIDE variety of looks, and we are.

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  • I am definitely going to have to agree that women are more picky than men. I can tell you some things that some guys might be picky about. Some guys have a problem with a girl being taller than them either because they are insecure about their height themselves or are influenced by society that a women should be shorter than a man because that is the model of physicality for people today. Some men can be picky about hair specifically hair length. Some men like their women to have long flowing hair like Disney Princesses and some men like their women to have short hair because they like women that are rebellious and different. I think some men are picky about women having hair on places where women are expected to be shaven such as the armpits, private parts, legs, arms, and the facial region. Actually in general, women are super conscious about having hair in those places also more than men! The other thing that men can be picky on about women is a woman's build specifically if she looks physically bigger and stronger than a man. Men are naturally stronger than a women, however there are some women that with hard work become stronger than some men. A women being stronger than a man goes against what men believe in also known as "MAN LAW". However, men aren't particularly picky about stretch marks. I have stretch marks and I like them. They're like tattoos for me :)

    Men can be picky about boobs, but that is one genre entirely just like how some men are particularly picky about a woman's ass. However, as long as a man can see the boobs and more important get a chance to play with them, men won't be picky. The same goes for a women's behind. I hope my answer was not too long, remember that every man is different, I hope my answer can help you out in some way or fashion, and best of luck with your endeavors! Enjoy your summer and I'll talk to you soon! :)

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  • 1. Stretch marks - unless really bad and nothing is seen beyond the stretch marks it's a turn on

    2. Mild acne - as long as mild confirms with my idea of mild it's ok

    3. Cellulite - same as in point 1

    4. Split ends hair - unless owing to really bad maintenance and hygiene it's ok

    5. Short hair , curly hair - not too much of a short hair guy (I like long and straight hair) but I'd take it on a case to case situation

    6. Broad shoulders ( bigger builds ) - within reasonable limits a turn on

    7. Height , too tall too short - too short for a kink is OK, too tall is a turn on

    8. Private parts ( outies , innies , shaved , trimmed , unshaven ) - as long as hygiene is maintained everything goes :)

    oh and the MOST COMMON ONE :

    9. Boobs : their size , areola size , nipple size , color And stretch marks on them -

    9.1. Size - prefer smaller and (pardon the expression) handleable

    9.2. Aerola size - everything goes (till date)

    9.3. Nipple size - everything goes (till date)

    9.4. Color - nature's creation, it's the object that turns on not the color (in my case)

    9.5. Stretch marks on boobs - case to case situation here but doesn't always put off :)

    I'm a very picky guy only when it comes to hygiene and presentability, rest of the way only chemistry matters. Yes the answers may show that I'm picky but chemistry precedes all that ;)

    Happy women's day :)

  • the secret lies with us men, and if we were to tell you, then you would rule the world, so as girls do what they do really well, us guys are happy for them to continue, its when you girls stop doing what you do when it really needs to be addressed about what us guys really find picky, so, remain the fruit of our eye and the touch of a god, and we will do what we can to keep you the way you like being, although some men will try and deny that we think highly of our oppursite sex, the truth is, we love them just the way they are,x

  • Stretch marks - don't care.

    Mild acne - not a big deal

    cellulite - don't care

    split ends hair - don't notice

    short hair - chin length is fine, shorter starts having a significant impact on me

    curly hair - I tend to prefer straight, but some curly looks good. for the record mine is curly. I tend to more often like african curly hair then caucasian curly hair.

    broad shoulders - its not sexy, but not a huge deal

    height - short is slightly sexier, but tall tend to have better legs.

    private parts: happy with any of the above. Might have slightly preference for outties with some hair.

    boobs - I prefer smaller. Nipple size I don't really care, though I've had good experience with bigger.

    You didn't ask about fat. That matters. A lot. Not 5-10 lbs extra, but 20 lbs+

    • so you put a line at 20 pounds ? , I didn't ask about it because its changeable and its for health mainly , but the others you can have and be perfectly healthy :)

    • I don't really know what the line is tbh. But there's a point where it matters a LOT.

  • In a perfect world I am very picky. I know it sounds bad but if I sleep with you it doesn't mean I will respect you in the morning =( I just am not sure yet ...

    The truth is if I let my misgivings decide who I could be with I'd probably never get anything at all. The pickiness I am talking about is mostly to do with your attitude.

  • Well stretch marks are something that happen. Guys and girls can bet them.

    Pimples happen too. More during the teen years that later on.

    Cellulite I kinda don't like it, but I know some guys like girls with thigh thighs.

    Split ends in hair? I don't notice that.

    I like longer hair than shorter, but it also depends on the girl.

    Shoulders need to fit the frame.

    Height is whatever. Short, tall, it's all good.

    Pubic hairs, Shaved off. Maybe a landing strip is cool, but trimmed or shaved off.

    Breasts: Smaller ones are so much hotter. I love smaller ones, Areola size is no biggy, same with nipple size. They are all cool.

  • Mild acne--np

    Cellulite -np

    Split ends hair-np

    Short hair , curly hair-np

    Broad shoulders ( bigger builds )--ys this one is an issue with me

    Height , too tall too short-np

    Private parts ( outies , innies , shaved , trimmed , unshaven )-usually pretty accepting of whatever my partner/mate has...but the people on this site have put my back up about pubic hair and I would seriously not date a female who had lasered..I WANT HAIR!

    oh and the MOST COMMON ONE :

    Boobs : their size , areola size , nipple size , color And stretch marks on them..-np

    LOL! Guess I am pretty easy?





  • Stretch marks - Don't care

    Mild acne - Don't care

    Cellulite - Within reason, don't care

    Split ends hair - Don't care

    Short hair , curly hair - I like longer hair. Curly is fine as long as it natural.

    Broad shoulders ( bigger builds ) - Prefer the thicker women

    Height , too tall too short - Don't care

    Private parts ( outies , innies , shaved , trimmed , unshaven ) - You didn't list the size of the vagina. I care about that one. She needs to be average sized.

    oh and the MOST COMMON ONE : -

    Boobs : their size , areola size , nipple size , color And stretch marks on them - Don't care

  • I'm not picky, I don't care about those things, and I personally think cellulite is sexy. Short hair and curly hair can look amazing on a woman. Boobs, height, etc don't matter one iota to me. I don't care if she has AA or G cup breasts. I don't care about hair color, skin color, anything like that. Here are the things I actually care about.

    Personality

    Values

    Interests

    Goals

    Chemistry

    For example, I couldn't date a judgmental girl, I couldn't date one whose values are opposite mine, I couldn't date a girl whose interests bored me and vice versa, I couldn't date a girl whose goals are incompatible with mine, and we need a spark of chemistry. If a girl is smiling and flirting with me, she earned herself some big points with me, even if she's not the most attractive girl on paper, her interest in me makes her beautiful to me.

    We don't have to match up 100%, just at least 50% in each category and at least 80% with the most important things I'm passionate about.

  • I don't care about any of these things... but what I do care about is:

    * The girl should be kind, preferably smart, genuine, non-selfish and into me.

    * If she's a generous giver, so much the better. (I'm like that too, and can be seriously taken for a ride by selfish types).

    * It's nice if she's not a slutty type. At least she shouldn't have a sex drive too far higher than mine. Otherwise, I could anticipate problems in time.

    * We should share perspectives on kids, money, and the future of the relationship.

    I think a woman's mind and heart turns me on much more than her body. In fact, I could make do with just about any nice woman... as long as she's moderately attractive. (Actually, I do get turned on by elder women too...)

  • So, there it goes!

    Warning: it's an honest answer.

    Stretch marks - don't really bother me

    Mild acne - not attractive but you can conceal it

    Cellulite - don't like it at all

    Split ends hair - don't notice if they're not too messy

    Short hair - deal breaker. Yes, I said that.

    Curly hair - a little curly are alright, too curly are not attractive at all

    Broad shoulders ( bigger builds ) - a big turn-off

    Height , too tall too short - don't care, as long as she's shorter than 6 feet

    Private parts - prefer innies and shaved

    Boobs - C-cup or larger, perky - not saggy, small areolas and nipples, bright-colored, prefer no stretch marks on them