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Girls with high sex drives - What's your take?

I have never had sex, but I have frequent urges throughout the week to masturbate. I look very shy, nerdy, and conservative, but I really think I have a high sex drive (which I'm sort of ashamed of because I am Asian and high sex drive in women is frowned upon in our culture). I can look at p*rn and masturbate for up to 2 hours (if I have nothing to do) and I am very sensitive to sexual nuances and innuendos even if I'm talking to a guy online- I get wet easily. is this normal for virgins? are virgins more easily aroused than non-virgins? also, are guys turned off by girls that have high sex drives instinctively? (in my experiences and through the media, girls with high sex drives tend to be the more physically unappealing or "wallflower" type girls who really don't have a lot of opportunities to release their sexual energy...)
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  • If you were not so much younger than I, we would be married and having tons of lovemaking real quick, real fast. Shall we get married now or go through the troublesome dating first?

    All jokes aside, I would do some seriously unspeakable deeds to marry an Asian hottie with high sex-drive. Divorce is not an option. Her specific ethnicity is not a concern to me either: I'll take Japanese, Chinese, Thai...you name it.

    Funny how you mention that women with high sex drives in the Orient is untidy in a region where p*rn and prostitution is in abundance. American men place high value on sexy Asian girls and not always just for sex...though, sex is a major draw when it comes to Asians.

    A high sex drive is acceptable, be it for virgins or otherwise. If not me, SOMEBODY will love you very much ;)

  • It sounds good to me unless you sleep around with a bunch of guys to quell your sexual desires. That's what I might worry about if I was the guy in your life.

    • there is that old double standard again... a guy can go out and conquer many women. but a woman has to sit at home and wait for Mr. Wonderful to knock on her door? I say women... you do as you feel comfortable doing... and if you do run into a narrow minded Mr. Wonderful... have a long engagement.

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think I'm the horniest girl ever. I'm not a virgin, I have a boyfriend, but I masturbate so much. Like twice a day at least. Idunno about the whole physically unappealing thing. I consider myself appealing haha. And I know plenty of horny girls who are hot. I don't think it has anything to do with looks.

  • Hmm don't think its something abnormal
    Because it isnt.. I'm here with you sister.. (Asian) but I dont masturbate.. Hmm strong will power, I can control urges i guess.. But don't think less of yourself because you do such things

  • i have a high sex drive. I'm a virgin though and that needs to change, especially since I'm not conservative at all. I don't mind it, I just wish I did something about it so I wouldn't be so frustrated.

  • I think you are quite normal and most of what you are saying about yourself is quite common

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  • Having a high sex drive is normal, and can be very enjoyable.

    Being a virgin or not has little to do with sex drive.

    Having high sex drive has nothing to do with how physically appealing you my see yourself.

    Also smart guys know that beauty is not related to sex drive, sexual skill, or social skills. Some plain looking girls are excellent in every other way. Some beautiful girls are not much fun.

    Enjoy life. Masturbation is healthy, enjoy it. One day you will start to have sex, first study safety, and then enjoy. With your high sex drive you will have much pleasure for yourself, and bring much pleasure to your lover.

  • Throughout the week?

    The average guy your age masturbates daily.

    You'll be fine.

  • I am the same way :/

  • don't worry, I'm super horny too; I masturbate multiple times throughout the DAY haha

  • Wow! You have a lot of wrong precieved notions. Just relax and enjoy life! Your more normal than you thank. There are a lot of women and men with very high sex drives, but until recent years it was frowned on if a woman had a high sex drive. When you get married your husband will likely enjoy the fact that you have a high sex drive.

  • Being with a girl with a high sex drive is definitely preferable.

  • No guys aren't turned off by girls with high sex drives. And as for girls with high sex drives being unappealing, not true. It doesn't matter what you look like. Some of us are more prone to wanting/having sex than others. There is nothing worng with that at all. It might be frowned upon in your culture, but cultures change with time. So don't think that you'll never get someone because of that too.

  • pretty awesome if she ends up being my girlfriend. couldn't care less if she's nothing to me :p

  • im the same

  • It's absolutely fine and normal. There's is nothing wrong in a girl having high sexual drive and no it's not a turn off at least for me. Being an Asian I can understand the cultural aspect. But girls are as human as men. So having high sexual drive is absolutely normal. Since I am from a similar cultural background I personally like shy, nerdy and conservative girl. But who says a conservative girl should not have sound and passionate sexual desire? I can't tell whether virgin girl are more sexually driven than the non virgin ones or not but one thing I can tell you surely (no matter what your experience was or what the media says). A man who doesn't find a girl like you attractive is unlucky. Probably having a similar cultural background makes me feel you and understand you better. Can we talk through private messages on this site. It would be my pleasure if you could leave a message for me in my inbox.

  • My Soul Mate is Asian, had a very high sex drive - the only girl who has ever matched my own. It is something to be proud of and enjoy without worry! She got a genetic disorder and left us and I am still looking for someone who is exactly as you've described yourself.

  • First I think it is fantastic you tell of your desires, even if it is behind a computer.
    I think since you are feeling all these sexual feelings and wondering about before and after being a virgin, there is done other more qualified than yourself to answer that question. I wish I were your neighbor.. hahaha

  • Honestly, your sex drive sounds like my wife’s. She was the shy and nerdy type. When we got together, she would masturbate 2-3 times a day and would get wet really easily. Since you are a virgin, though, you probably have to masturbate a lot more than you would when you start having sex. I can masturbate 3 times for every time I have sex. It just is more satisfying than masturbation. Even now, after we’ve been married for years, my wife will go through phases where she’ll just want sex all the time even when I’m not in the mood. But it’s fun for me because I like satisfying her even when I don’t get to finish. It is cute when she has such a high sex drive because it’s like she’s expecting me to tell her she’s a freak but I do find it very hot.

  • IM THE SAME WAY! And it sucks because I don't want to lose my virginity too young (im a freshman) but whenever my boyfriend and I are making out or anything I just get so wet and excited. Ugh! I may want it more than he does lol

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