Do older guys like to "teach" younger girls, in bed?

well, the guy I'm dating is in his 30s, he's way more experienced than I am. He was teasing me that he's going to "teach me". We haven't slept together yet but I'm a little insecure that since he's so much more experienced I won't be "good" He has slept with his share and he knows how to please a woman. Should I not worry about how much more experienced he is and assume that in a position like this he likes that he knows more and doesn't mind that he's more experienced? Besides, he sure appreciates the perks of being seen with a younger woman. I can tell, even though he won't admit it outright.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • older men know what does and doesn't turn them on ... he may show you what works for him and teach you to do it. They may think they know what will work for you too; but everyone is different ... so don't be afraid to try new things he might show you; but don't be afraid to say you don't like them, or to tell him if he doesn't think of something you do like. You can teach an old dog a few things too. besides, most older guys thing a younger girl who speaks up in bed is sexy.

  • Just relax let him take the lead and enjoy the f*cking he will give you over and over again. He should be able to so you things you never knew your p*ssy could do! Have fun and enjoy it!

  • just because a guy is older and "experienced" doesn't mean he can please YOU!

Most Helpful Guys

  • You don't need to worry. The two main things you need to be in order to be "good in bed" are enthusiastic and honest (no faking). Everything else will come naturally with experience, but the nature of sex (women receive) means that you don't have to have a lot of skill or experience to deliver a great experience for him. Plus, he'll enjoy the process as you learn more skill too.

    Remember: enthusiasm and honesty. He'll do the rest, happily.

  • Don't worry about it at all! Just relax and enjoy yourself. As long as you enjoy yourself and you're game for trying things to get him excited and make his pleasure a focus it doesn't matter where you start out--you'll end up with one VERY satisfied guy.

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  • You have nothing to worry about, he won't show you anything you don't know apart from the fact that he should by now know how to treat a woman right, where younger men often fail, and yes, I would bet on the fact that he is very proud of you,x

  • if he is a good teacher, he will teach you well and good. Why care. he is experienced so let him make you more experienced.

    Believe me its good to have less experienced girls in bed, if she is willing to be taught how to take it better.

  • Its hot, as long as she's an eager student.

  • There is nothing to worry about...yes it is fun to teach...as long as the "student" is willing to learn...(:(:(:

  • Yes we love to teach.

  • I'm sure older guys like to be in bed with younger women, teaching or not.

  • Dont worry about it and relax..he will blow your mind and the orgasms will be amazing!

  • It depends on the girl, I think. If the girl is keen to learn, and the guy is patient, they can have a great time.

    If the girl is still insecure as hell like a lot of young girls, then it's going to be a pain his ass.