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Guys if a girl gives you a blow job after a week, would you consider dating her?

i kinda liked this guy and then about a week ago he kissed me. we made out again a few days later then the next time (a day or 2 later) I ended up giving him a blow job. I felt a little pressured into it, but I had fun so whatever... anyway based on that do you think he would actually be interested in dating me? would you respect a girl who blew you that soon? a few hours after the blow job he texted me and asked if I wanted to go on a date sometime, but it might have been just him being nice...or a way to ensure I'd blow him again
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  • Ya, totally. Just because a girl gets sexual with you doesn't blow her chances of hooking up with you. In fact to the guy it's probably a plus. He's probably like :) yay, and all happy and looking forward to seeing you again. So no. Heck me and my ex wife had sex on the first date. I didn't think it was a great move. Although she basically jumped me. So I wasn't about to say no. Although, it never made me think anything less of her because of it. It made me feel better actually that she was "that interested" in me :) and that we where equally interested in each other :) cause honestly it had crossed my mind once or twice too but I decided to be good and wait until she jumped me then I was like ahh the heck with it. LOL..

    Good luck :)

  • I'm pretty sure I just told you my answer. Again, not saying that guys do not date girls that comes off easy, but it does not happen often. once they see your easy that's it. that's all they know about you and they just want you for the sex. Lesson learned, no guy is going to take you seriously if you do not respect yourself. Cut this guy off and tell yourself your better than that and next time you meet a guy, get to know him and do not do anything sexual with him. If the guy in persuading you to do something for or to him. Run away quickly.

    You have to have morals about yourself!

  • In my opinion that is a little too soon and a lot of guys will probably agree that if you give it up too soon, then there's not much to "work" for anymore. However, the fact that he asked you out again is good. He could be looking for another BJ but if you want to keep him interested, try to keep you date in a public setting so that you don't feel pressured at all again. It happens. If he asks you out again after this then he's interested in more then just the physical stuff.

  • Please please anyone reading do not give a guy a blow job so he will go out with you..

    • That's definitely not what I was doing. I kinda had to go and he had a boner...i did it because I felt bad...which is not like me. I feel like an idiot. honestly...

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  • Well boo, it's all about how secure you are about yourself. If you're not a hoe & you KNOW you're not a hoe, then you can do whatever you wanna do with someone you like, but I will say honestly I think you did give in a little early. Now you just have to play your hand smart with him if you have any intention of flipping the script & regaining the upper hand.

    But to straight out answer your question, I'd probably be pretty apprehensive about starting a relationship with you, but I'd definitely consider dating you cause it seems you like to have fun, then just see what you reveal from that point on.

    • How do you think I should play the upper hand? im honestly so bummed out right now that I did that... he didn't talk to me at all yesterday and that can't be good. if you liked someone would you go a day without talking to them??

    • If I ate you out after knowing you for just a week what category would you put me in? Answer that for me seriously

    • To play the upper hand I think you should do what this chick that I had sex with after a week is doing to me right now (because I know she thinks she gave it up too quick) and cut him off from sexual activity, go about your normal business, and keep him in the "getting to know you" phase. Judge his actions from there, & If he wants to be with you, he'll respect want you're doing to him and why you're doing it, and if he doesn't you'll hear from him less & less.

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  • Date a girl who gave me a bj after a week? Hell, yeah! Means she's friendly.

    Is he being nice in asking for a date? Sure. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you. Does he want another BJ? Absolutely. Doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

    • But if he liked me wouldn't he want to hang out all of the time...or at least text more often

    • Not if he has a life, no. Maybe it's me, but guys who obsess over chicks have too much time on their hands.

  • I personally would be far more likely to date a woman who blew me over one who was "waiting".

  • a week? I would date a woman after she sucked me after the first date, if everything else went well. Why not? It happened once and we would have started going out but she was going to move away about a week after it happened

  • Maybe. It would depend on a lot of other things.

    You've fallen into the trap your mama should have warned you about...give it away too soon, and you don't know if he likes you, or just the sex.

  • Why would you do this? I do not understand why girls feel compelled to do this for guys they like. In his mind he will forever say, 'she did me once, she'll do me again...'

    This text messaging age is nonsense. My kind is so non-personal. Class act right there.

    I mean to be blunt so this sticks with you. But, as always, you the girl are going to do what you want and going to keep going until you get the answer you want.

    • No, I'm not. I really like this guy and it seemed like things were going well. I really don't know why I did that. maybe it doesn't matter. what should I say to him now...i mean I want to let him know that I'm not down to be his f*** buddy, but how do I open those lines of communication

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