How can you tell if a guy has good intentions?

At the beginning stages when you don't really speak a lot yet, but both can tell that the other is interested. If he constantly stares at your body, might he have purely sexual motivations? This Guy stares only at my face (well keeps glancing at it) and not my body, although I do have a nice body. Could that mean he has better intentions than if he was just staring at my ass all day? Or can one not really tell?
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Not necessarily.

    He may want to show you respect by not looking at your body, it also depends on what you are wearing whether your body is very noticeable or not.

    -If he is constantly trying to force himself on you (then he just wants sex).

    -If sex in the main topic of conversation (then he just wants sex).

    -If he doesn't seem to care about getting to know you, or spend time with you (then he just wants sex).

    -If he is constantly trying to make moves on you (then he just wants sex).

    A guy that is interested in you won't put much pressure or emphasis on the topic "se". He will know his boundaries, and respect them.

    • *sex

  • Its too early to tell.

    Try to talk to him and get to know him better. You can't tell if he has good or bad intentions just the way he looks at you.

Most Helpful Guys

  • For him to be staring at you and not just checking out your curves, his intentions are to get your attention, I can't really say what other intentions he has but because he is showing you respect by making an effort to get your attention decently, then you wouldn't be blamed in thinking his intentions are solely for your attention at this point, not what he wants from you, so it could be an oppurtunity to progress and show some interest of your own towards him, because getting to know him a little more is the only way you will find out his true intentions really, but don't forget to make him work for your talents, good luck,x

  • Every guy that is sexually attracted to you wants sex from you. So I do not know what good or bad intentions are. If a guy that you are hanging around a lot is ALWAYS talking about sex then it is most likely that he wants nothing more than just the sex. You are young and are probably looking for a guy your same age. Guys your same age are not always the best at being in a stable long term relationship so if you are looking for that do your research and see how he treats the other females in his life. See if his parents have a good loving and stable relationship. Good luck

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