Girls, would you teach a guy how to have sex?

[Crusader83]

Would you teach a guy how to sexually please a woman? Why or why not? What kind of guy would you teach? What would you expect him to learn? What would you expect him to already know? Would he have to be your boyfriend, or how about just an acquaintance? What would you think of one of your girlfriends if you found out she was doing this? What if she was a relative (sister/mother). What would you think about the man getting the lessons?

[Emilia91]

If a guy was a virgin then no...not unless he was a boyfriend then I would go slowly with him, showing him what I like, however that's with every bf...usually you need to show a guy what gets you going.

However if he was not a virgin and just generally really really bad at sex then yes I would help him out. If it was seriously getting him down then I would teach him a few things.

What would I think about the guy getting the lessons?

I would think well done for admitting your sh*t and then doing something about it. A guy that wants to learn how to please a woman is a turn on. Nothing good about a guy that thinks he's top dollar when he can't even pinpoint where a womans clit is.

Most guys seem to think they are good. However most girls don't orgasm during a sexual encounter because the guy ain't doin it right..

Ex

[snowangle]

I'm a virgin waiting till marriage so I can't answer.

However I will say, my first year of college there was this really creepy guy (who had a girlfriend, by the way) who was EAGER to lose his virginity. When his girlfriend wouldn't do it with him, he started going for girls in the college. He did, in fact, ask a girl I knew if she would "show" (teach?) him sexual favors. So now I kind of see that as a desperate way to get sex.

[cunnplease]

but you can tell by the way he's asking that he actually wants to learn... otherwise he wouldn't have put in the time to ask ALL of those questions :)

[samhradh_leannan]

Well for one thing, every woman is different and likes different things. So there's only so much that one woman can teach.

I would be happy to take the lead with an inexperienced partner (yes, he would have to be my boyfriend). But I wouldn't literally give "lessons" on how to have sex. I wouldn't really feel comfortable with it, and I also don't think it's necessary or even the best way to learn.

[kholland65]

You can't really teach sex. For one, all girls are different and respond or prefer different things. Second, you can read or watch videos about stuff all you want but until you actually roll into bed and try it yourself you'll never really get it. Sex is about experimentation if you ask me. You start with a base knowledge that changes as you try things and as you are with different people. You learn what works what doesn't, you learn your body body to for instance figure out how to last longer, etc. If you really want to learn how to have sex, watch a some p*rn a few times and you'll know all you need to know to get started.

[MsShay247]

Nooooooo!

[Crusader83]

"Nooooooo!" what?

[MsShay247]

"would you teach a guy how to have sex?" Nooooooo! Sexual intimacy isn't a class at school. There's nothing to be taught. It's about chemistry, doing what feels right, knowing your bodies, and expressing love for each other. So thumbs down to teaching anyone anything.

[Amorina]

I don't think sex is something you can really teach. I would, however, be totally open to teaching a guy how to pleasure me. Different people like different things so I couldn't speak (or teach) for all women.

[cunnplease]

message me? lol

[Amorina]

I'm taken, sorry!

[Anonymous]

no, but id experiment with him

[cunnplease]

how so?

[Anonymous]

yes but I'd rather have him teach me if that were an option

[larry69]

good answer