Why did he cry after oral sex?

I know all men don't cry after sex, But after being intimate oral sex with my friend that I really liked at the time. Right after this happen he had his head down, at this time we were sitting apart from each other, I seen him get teared eyed, he was not in any pain.He would always tell me we would have to slow down before he get addicted to this. I know that he really liked me in the past before we got together, and then finally we hooked up and we were taking it slow he begin to tell me he wanted sex and for about 2 years no sex til no, really I don't consider oral sex real sex. He told me that it is something in the both of us that draws us close together. At the time I believed him. Looking at know all it was lust being comfortable with each other. At times I could not tell if he really liked me in love with me or just wanted sex. Our little oral experiment only lasted a month we never had any real sex.
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  • Sometimes, when a person (male or female) has an intense orgasm, the muscles are so tensed up that a laughing (or sometimes crying) reflex kicks in to relax the muscles, after the orgasm is done.

    Laughing is MUCH more common. But crying is not uncommon reaction either.

    Basically, you DEEPLY satisfied him, that's what it means.

    About whether he really loved you or not, that I can't really know. I never met or observed either of you.

    However, you did for 2 years. So it is safe to say that whatever you observed throughout those years up to this day, is what the truth is.

  • Maybe he accidentally got some load in his eye...

    Or maybe he did care about you and in some weird way sex ruined those feeling for him and he realized he just lost a friend for lust...

    Or maybe he had some sort of urinary track infection or something and it caused him pain to ejaculate...

    Or maybe you used too much teeth.

    Truth be told I don't know I wasn't there and don't know either of you.

    • Great answer.

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  • Hmmm... was it giving or receiving? Not that I know how it would make a difference... maybe you were that good? ;)