Girls, how many sexual partners do you expect a guy to have in his life by the time he turns 25?

Well, this is a question to all you girls. How many girls should a guy have sex with by the time he turns 25 if he has never been in a long-term relationship? Because I'm almost 25 and still a virgin. I haven't even kissed a girl yet and my sexual prime years of 17-21 are now past me. I know how much each girl values sexual experience in guys, even virgin girls since they want their 1st time to be with someone who knows what he's doing. So yeah, how many times or girls should a guy have had sex with by the age of 25?
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  • I wouldn't say that virgin girls want experienced guys, I'd imagine a fair few would want the shared experience of losing it to one another but that's just my opinion. There's no amount of how many you SHOULD have had, it's not necessary to sleep with loads of girls and it wouldn't get you any points bragging about how many girls you'd got in to bed, I'd say, for me that would be a big turn off.

    It's sad that you think the amount of girls you 'should have had' is so important. Quite a degrading thought for me as a girl.

    It depends on the guy as a person, a shy quiet type I'd imagine about 2 or 3 but for a more outgoing guy it would be impossible to call.

    • Well I find it quite degrading that most girls find virgin guys to be losers and being a virgin is something to be laughed at after a certain age.

    • That's not most girls that's just a few girls or maybe you're just talking to the wrong girls.

  • It doesn't matter! And some girls really don't mind if your a virgin at that age. I would much rather a guy who has had few partners to many! Don't worry what number women feel is right, worry about what you feel is right. Sex is not hard and honestly two virgins would learn tofether what they both like. Practice makes perfect, sex with two people who aren't virgins can go wrong the first time for them too, if someone cares about you for you then they will not mind your a virgin and let you take your time and figure out what you like together!

  • If he's never been in a long term, I guess anywhere from 5 to like 12 would be normal and wouldn't raise flags. But I do agree with the rest of the girls answers, that there's nothing wrong with a guy being a virgin at 25. At 21, I understand there are a lot of different reasons and histories and it just kind of factors into who the guy is. Yes, it's nice when a guy knows what he's doing in bed but it can also be a nice first experience and it means something if a guy is willing to lose it to me after waiting that long.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I have never understood that. It's not like sex is that difficult to figure out. The first couple of times might be a little quick, but you could try to solve that beforehand anyway.

    If girls are telling the truth about everyone being different, then I would imagine that even the guys that bed many women will be good to some of them and bad to others. I would think a girl in her 20s that is a virgin or has only had a few partners would be okay with it, because they are probably more conservative when it comes to sexual mates. Keep your head up.

    That being said, I'm guessing they would expect probably around a dozen.

    • I agree with everything you said until you guessed the number of female partners women would expect. Personally, and no offense to anyone but if you have sex with any amount around twelve around the age of 25, you're a ho. Girls would be seen as "sluts" or "easy" if they've had that many sexual partners and in my eyes the same goes for men

    • Really? Girls are up to that by the time they are a junior in college. Interesting

  • Dude, you DO realize there's no law requiring you to declare your v-card, right? And rather than sit at home on the computer jacking it while your best sex years pass you by, letting your balls go to waste on some images on a screen, why not go out there and get a real girl to suck and f@#* you instead? I assure you it's much, MUCH better.

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  • I think its kinda sweet. And it depends on the guy. But I think 5 or over is was to much for me.. Plus I'm a Virgin.. But hey I'm 17! hahah

  • Ok so some girls like the v card being held but personally he needs to know what to do. But I am older so I want to have someone take control and do it with out me giving instruction.

  • Im a virgin and id love losing it to a virgin .