What age is too old for being a virgin still?

I'm 20 years old and people are constantly questioning why I am still a virgin. Is it a turn off or a bad thing that I am 20 and still haven't lost my v-card yet? I'm not a prude, I just don't wanna have sex with a guy who will just add me to his list of girls he's had fun with. I haven't really met anyone who wants to be in a relationship versus just wanting sex. So is being a virgin at 20 years old pushing it? Or what age is too old for being a virgin?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Those who question your decision? Forget them. Don't listen to them. Twenty years is not too old.

    I'm 21 and still a virgin. It's not due to any lack of opportunities; rather, I feel the same way you do ("I haven't really met anyone who wants to be in a relationship versus just wanting sex").

  • I don't think there is any age limit. I am almost 22, and still a virgin. Probably will be for the rest of life (no, I am not gay). So, don't worry. Only aholes, would ever make fun of you, or think that you are a loser. They are probably virgins themselves. It will happen when the time is right.

    • If you don't mind me asking, why stay that way for the rest of your life? You have like 40+ years ahead of you? (and no I didn't assume you were gay :P)

    • Thank you by the way :)

    • Because I decided to forget about looking for a girl to love. I can manage without a wife. Plus, I am planning on starting a business. So, I probably won't have the time to focus on a relationship, or a marriage.

Most Helpful Girls

  • No age is too old to be a virgin by choice. As for being a virgin due to lack of opportunity, I guess there is a point where remaining a virgin might show some social difficulty or dysfunction. Maybe 30. But it's totally normal to be a virgin at 20, for any number of reasons.

  • there is NO age that is too old. my aunt lost hers at 48 and my mom lost hers at 30. I lost mine at 20. everyone is different. I do believe people under 18 who have sex are too young to be having sex. at least wait until you are out of your teen years

  • Its crazy to think 20 is too old too old to be a virgin. But I guess when girls lose their V at 12-14 years old you start think that way.

    Wait for the right guy.

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  • Any legal age where your virginity is not by choice

  • 40 is a bit old for it. 20 is fine.

  • there is no old age you are ready when you feel like your ready to not be a virgin.

  • Well I was technically a virgin until I was 19..so no..I would think 25 was odd...but not 20...(:(:(:

  • I´d say there isn´t a too old only a too young.

    And you expect totally reasonable things from your first partner so you shouldn´t rush it.

    Do what feels right for only your own reasons - screw the haters ( well not literally).

  • Definitely wait as long as you can, I lost mine at 21 to a guy who just wanted a hook up and it sucked

  • Do you at least masturbate? :o

    • I don't see how that relates to the question. well it does in a round about way I guess but still...

    • Well your a virgin at 20.. just asking? ;) do you or do you not? ;p

  • I'm a guy, 19, virgin. I dno, whatever age you want I guess.

  • I'm 22 and a virgin with no prospects. It's not too bad.

  • Please your only 20 and female, try being a 26 year old male then, you can complain.

    • Buby boyyyy.

    • WTH does that mean?

    • Thanks but I don't think that's bad though.

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