Why are young girls so proud of being whores nowadays?

I mean I was just reading over a few questions and these girls are like "yeah I'm 16 I have sex all the time and it's OK because I volunteer etc etc..." lol what? Volunteering makes you qualified to have sex now? I just feel like even though I am not that much older I just couldn't imagine being so.. nonchalant.. Do parents teach their children anything?
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I would also mention that I didn't have sex until I was 21, an adult, who is old enough to make their own decisions as well as handle any potential consequences.
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  • Same here. But, I ALSO admit that I just wasn't ready. Actually, I was afraid to. It took being with the right person at the right time at the right pace (which was MOLASSES slow, LOL)! Like I said, though, everybody IS different and some people can handle it much earlier than others. I don't look at it as a "judgmental" issue but more as a "maturity" issue. While I do believe that the majority of people 16 years old aren't ready for it (and its potential consequences) there certainly ARE people who ARE ready for it and its potential consequences.

    I think the biggest issue is simply where are the parents? And, I know this will upset some people but sometimes the truth is something we don't want to hear or even believe. Just because somebody LIKES sex doesn't mean that they are READY for it. You ask virtually *ANY* teen mother if they were "ready" for it and I can guarantee that 99% will say that while they love their child more than anything on earth, they should've waited or should've used protection, etc. LIKING something doesn't mean it's the right thing to do. While I FULLY agree that there is a significant difference here, the PRINCIPLE is the SAME: Just because people LIKE having sex with a THREE YEAR OLD does it mean that it's RIGHT? HELL NO. OF COURSE many women love sex. OF COURSE women are just a sexual as men. I don't think the issue has ANYTHING to do with male or female. It's the LEVEL OF MATURITY that matters. It just so happens that 16 is a VERY common age to begin having sexual activity and that is a PERSONAL decision. I am not judging ANYBODY. I don't think the asker is, either. I think it's more about why so many people that are so young act like it's no big deal. Like it or not, it *IS* a big deal--A VERY BIG DEAL with VERY BIG CONSEQUENCES. The act of sexual intercourse is NOTHING, obviously. "A monkey can do it". But, a MONKEY can ALSO PROVIDE FOR AN INFANT MONKEY! That's NATURE. We are HUMAN BEINGS and sex is NOT only an "animal act" to us--at least I HOPE it's not in today's world. It is a natural act, yes, but it's also a spiritual act, it's an intimate act, and it's an expression of love, trust, and SHOULD be, anyway, exclusivity. Have we devolved into nothing more than a bunch of cattle in heat? Are humans no different than the dogs that sniff around and hop right in? If we're not, then why is rape illegal? Why is it illegal for adults to have sex with children? We have these laws and standards BECAUSE we are more than mere animals. These laws are on the books BECAUSE sex is such a complex and serious issue.

    I am not here to offend anybody, I promise. I CERTAINLY don't want to JUDGE anybody because I'm no better than anybody else here--*I* have had sex outside of marriage, *I* have had more than one partner, etc. The POINT is that it was NEVER something that *I*, at least, am EVER "nonchalant" about--it's a serious matter to me, and, I believe, the question asker.

    • The parents are not around because so many kids are born to single moms nearly half actually. we have feminism to thank for that one

  • lol I need to meet a girl like u.

    A girl who thinks like you, is a girl who should be wifed up.

    • Well thanks :)

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  • if the 16 year old is responsible enough to deal with the repercussions (though rarely) I don't think you have the place to judge them. sex is not the biggest deal in the world, though it is important, and needs to be dealt carefully, for young women its not the evil impure thing some people have made it out to be. (also just because they are young does not mean they are being nonchalant) if you are ready, emotionally and physically, and responsible, I don't think its such a problem. powerful men, religion, and society has deemed that young girls are whores if they have sex too young, this shame is very oppressive and wrong. boys have sex at the same ages and are not shamed for it. I understand that girls who are pressured, or don't understand about birth control and STDs, should wait, but whores? really? just don't lump them all together, the age does not define the person.

    • Like I said... They are whores.

    • : / a whore is a prostitute, they are not whores.

    • Ok then sluts.

  • Probably because of peer pressure, you know "trying to fit in" that used to be the "thing" back then. If a girl had sex with a guy she was considered popular. But I know most parents do teach their children on what's right and what's wrong, but kids don't seem to realize that their decisions don't matter until theyve grown. Teenagers think they have the life right now and their boyfriends love them so its oky to have sex but when they realize that their boyfriends used them, that's when they know that they werent supposed to have sex.

    • Should that matter I still hold it against them

  • I wonder that as well, maybe its just teenage rebellion or self esteem issues among other things. I watch teen mom and 16 & pregnant, I do worry about how much more oversexed our society will be by the time I have kids.

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  • O-M-G, MisBHaved1! WELL SAID and KUDOS TO YOU! Amen to that! I have been asking myself the SAME QUESTION for YEARS now! WTF are parents teaching their kids these days?! WTF is happening to this country?!

    I agree SO MUCH with what you said here. I would like to add, though, that each person is an individual. Every person is different. Some are mature enough to handle it at 16 (and no, I did not have MY first time until I was 21, and now that I am way older, I do *NOT* have my eyes on "little girls"--just to be clear) and others are not mature enough to handle it at 31. But I believe so firmly that people are starting WAY too young these days.

    Now, I know that WWWAAYYY back in the OOOOLLLLDDDD days (as in the 1500s, etc) people were MARRIED at 13, 14, and so on. They were having CHILDREN then. But, their life-spans were also much shorter. You were considered ANCIENT if you lived to 40. People STILL married, VERY OFTEN, at 15 and 16 even into the early 1900s! But, I feel that NOWADAYS that's just too young. The world has changed so dramatically and is so complex that teens need more time to mature--not because they're stupid or anything, but because the world has become so damned complex and tough. I really do feel sorry for everybody "growing up" in "this world" because you ALL have it VERY HARD. I think I "grew up" at the perfect time. Things were fairly "modern" but still pretty "simple". Jeez I would hate to go through my teens NOW. You all have it INCREDIBLY hard.

    But, it's nice--VERY NICE--to see that so many of you DO care and DO THINK! Good job and good luck to you.

    • Thanks, and exactly people always use the excuse that "oh it happened back in ____ times" but the life expectancy was like 40.. no one mentions that part.

    • Not to mention they ususlly married their first partner there is a heavy correlation with the sexual revolution and the increase of divorce and single motherhood

    • I agree 100% "dudeman". Absolutely. Believe it or not, I also believe MTV has a HUGE amount of responsibility for this (and yes, I was a DEVOUT MTV watcher for a long time, LOL). Look, I am NOT a "Bible thumper". I am just seeing things as they are, and MTV has INCREDIBLE influence on younger people. What is more than 90% of MTV about? SEX. That's just ONE example. Sex is *EVERYWHERE* and there is no escaping it. People are desensitized to it WAY earlier than they should be.

  • Search CNN.com and Google Images for Lindsay Lohan, Paris Hilton and Miley Cirus.

  • I think some girls have a misguided idea that it it something they can do and get attention but requires no real work. not like studying, working, learning a special skill. there is also the validation thing.

  • because girls can get what's easy for them

    but other than my opinion you tell me ... your a girl lol

  • women are JUST as sexual as men. stop being so judegmental against other women and leave them alone. you banged a guy unprotected on the 2nd date. what makes you qualifed enough to call someone a whore?

    • "judgemental"

    • Women aren't just as sexual and that's just basic biochemistry

  • some women like sex, what's the problem?

    in a good amount of states allow women to get married as young as 15.

    sure sex with the gym class at 16 isn't your thing, but that's not your problem now, is it?

    • Spoken from someone who obviously fits into the category of young girls I am describing. Actually in the US there is no state that you can get married at 15 without a parents consent.

    • My parents taught me how to spell "smart", they have already done better than yours.

    • Sex with the gym class WAT

  • I have never heard a girl say that