It is better if you can find a shower with two shower heads and two controls, that way you will both be warm and comfy.
The most sexy thing you can do is to very slowly take his suit off, then he can take yours off (if you are comfortable with this).
If things get a little hotter than you prefer, remember that all you need to do is get him off with a hand job (which likely will not take much to do!) and he will instantly be much less horny.
Nahh, I'd prefer he kept his suit on
I suggest you both do it naked, you both soap each other up and rinse each other off, and you save soaping up his c0ck and balls for last and then stroke him until he cums. Just aim him wherever you want him to shoot. Then you can towel each other off and take a nap naked.
glad to hear that your taking things slow and that you don't feel pressure to do anything your not ready for, that's refreshing in this day and age. Just go in there and wash each other, don't focus too much on trying to be sexy because that turns it into a task and it takes you out of the experience, just enjoy the moment
Alright, thanks :) Also! Thanks for not thinking that I'm too young or immature to do this... haha
it says your 18-24, if that's accurate your not too young to do that, either way I think your being pretty mature for not rushing into sex
Yall should be naked. It's natural. and if he can't respect you not giving him head then maybe yall aren't ready to take a shower together. Tip... Don't wear any eye make up. That would be a turn off with all your makeup going everywhere. I hope everything turns out to be great.
What are you talking about...he totally understands that I'm not ready. He actually agrees that I'm not ready, and neither is he.
My bad...
GIrl! If you're going to get in the shower with him, DON'T BE A TEASE. If you're not ready to take it all the way then forget about it. Don't put yourself in a situation you're not ready for. Sexy clothes + candles + music = F*CKING LIKE ROCK STARS.
Lol believe me I want to have sex with him and be naked in front of him, but I'm just not ready for that. And neither is he. We've talked about it. The farthest we have gone so far is letting him lick/suck my nipples and boobs, and rubbing my p**** through my panties. He knows he isn't gunna get some :p
Agreed. I don't think showering with bathing suits is a good (or comfortable) plan. All or nothing.
Seems a bit useless to me if your going to wear bathing suits! What's the purpose? Get naked and wash his penis and testicles then let him wash your titties and p*ssy. That is called taking a shower together.
Because neither one of us are ready for that. We are just gunna do what feels comfortable.
I agree, why not just go swimming then? it's pretty much the samething.
Pretty much what I was thinking also. Whole idea of showering together usually is so you can play with his penis and he can do stuff to you, even f*cking in the shower.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Seriously: I wouldn't do it yet. The way you write tells already how unsure you are about this. Don't let him push you to do anything you don't want!
Im sure I want to do it. He isn't pushing me into doing anything, I asked him to do it, and he said if I was comfortable doing it, then so was he.
just wash his **** for him if he has rubed you rub him you don't have to have sex or have him in you ...belive me something about a girls hands on my junk feels great. just wash each other have fun with it. you gotta loosen up or you won't have fun
Wash his d***...through his bathing suit?
you can slide you hand inside if he can slide his unto your underewar
Wash his **** and balls with a washcloth gently and work your way up to washing them with your hands. He'll love it ! Then let him wash your bare boobs and see how far the mood takes you.
LOL. Are you gonna make him wear a rubber under his bathing suit?
Lol no :p
Idk...I don't think you would like my idea of a shower...O.O...well...soaping each other and having your back scrubbed? CAn let us know when your are a little further along and we will give you lots of ideas!...(:(:(:
Just rub up against him and it will get him going ;)
Lol I can picture myself doing that and it isn't sexy at all. I'm pretty tense when I try to be sexy...so that usually screws everything up :p
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