What's the fascination with swallowing?

[Anonymous]

Girls, do you usually swallow? Boys, why do you prefer them to? I don't mind it, I'm just wondering why you boys have such a preference.

[SemenDr]

Some men do not want their wife to swallow their semen, if they had a mistress they want her to. Some cultures do not allow oral sex at all, and call semen dirty.

However way more than MOST men want oral sex that ends with you swallowing their semen (and at least pretending to be OK with it :)

Here's why:

Acceptance.

Men absolutely need this from women, no exceptions. Tell him you hate his mistakes, but you accept him as someone who can make mistakes. Don't reject him. Spitting out his sperm, criticising the taste or smell or calling it gross, IS rejection. You don't have to lie, just tell him even with all that you accept it.

Intimacy.

His semen is the result of his orgasm. He has an orgasm with you because he loves you, is attracted to you, respects you, is turned on by you, or at the very least considered you "doable." If you take his semen into you, he feels he is with you from then on, and that you will be thinking of him as he is thinking of you. If he is not in you vaginally, then he can be in your mouth, throat and belly.

Trust.

He may know consciously how good for your health swallowing his semen is (Semen Therapy) but be sure he knows it subconsciously. He offers it to you at the end of oral sex because he wants you to swallow it. He wouldn't shoot it so intensely into your mouth if it wasn't good for you. Trust him. Even thank him for doing it. Then hug and cuddle with him.

Pleasure.

Simply put girls who swallow are giving better oral sex. They do not need to stop during his orgasm, at the end of his orgasm or even for a while after his orgasm. By swallowing his semen when it comes out of his penis you can keep sucking his penis, at the HEIGHT of his arousal. Girls that have to stop are disappointing him. A man would like to get oral sex until he pulls it out of your mouth (for some men that is after their penis is soft, for young men that maybe after it has been soft and is now hard again).

Commitment.

He respects and cherishes you. He knows you will not swallow semen from a stranger or a casual fling or even if you cheat on him. You are honourable and swallow the semen of your boyfriend/husband. In fact you should not put those other men's penis in your mouth since you kiss him.

[katg4560]

That was really informative. I really appreciate the insight.

[Anonymous]

When a guy cums during sex it feels good and he typically has to stop moving, even though he might want to keep going. The more forceful the expulsion the better the feeling too. With a blow job both of these things are amplified. Because the girl usually the one moving, she can keep pumping until the guy can't take it anymore. An extremely powerful feeling. Then if she's sucking when he goes, she adds extra force and speed to the ejaculation, which makes it that much better.

Then of course there's the mental aspect, that your girl loves you so much that she would allow you or even want you to come in her mouth just to make you feel good. Most guys can't even bear the idea of having come on their hands let alone in their mouth, so having someone want to do that for you is an amazing feeling of love, generosity and caring.

A truly amazing blowjob, done to completion is about as close to heaven on earth as a man can get.

[cun7n1nja]

I won't even go down on a guy I'm not prepared to swallow for. Oral is intimate to me. So when I give my boyfriend a bj, it's partly out of desire for him and making him feel good, partly feeling close to him and expressing that intimacy, and partly because doing it makes ME hot, lol. Assuming the bj isn't just part of foreplay and I'm finishing him that way [by itself or as a finish to intercourse], I always swallow and ensure that most of it ends up in my mouth by not decreasing suction/stroking until he's finished. Unless we WANT it to get messy, obviously, lol. Swallowing at the end is like a little reward for me, a 'job well done', and like me saying 'I want all of you'.

[Anonymous]

i think find something sexy and dominant about knowing a girl will swallow their sperm. that's my best guess.

i swallow sometimes, yes. I have no problem doing it if he asks me too but I also just spit it out and let it drip down my chin sometimes. my boyfriend loves that as well because it looks sloppy and slutty lol

[kholland65]

Personally it doesn't really matter to me. The only real reason I would prefer her to swallow is because its less messy. If she doesn't swallow, then that come has to go somewhere, either all over me, all over here, the bed, or the floor.

[sexyflgirl]

always swallow! my guy is so yummy.

[KimmyB]

Yep, usually :o)

[ava00]

Yup I do it. I think guys like it because they feel like you dont find them gross.

[Blueeyes300]

The feeling of ecstasy when a guy cums heightens significantly as I'm sure you've witnessed. If a girl has my penis in her mouth swallowing my come while I'm in that heightened state it magnifies the effect during orgasm. Also, it notes the level of passion during the BJ is so great that you're completing it by swallowing. It's pretty amazing!

[theMrSchneider]

I think its f***ing gross

[front2back]

Because the lost book of the bible called: "The gospel of Eve" said that god told Eve that swallowing Adams semen is a romantic gesture.

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[xXxAx3LxXx]

Because I don't like seeing my man juice being wasted. Lol

[Ernesto_P]

I've never had a girl not swallow my sperm but I like it because it's such a turn on and it lets me know she likes me enough to swallow, and I would hate it if a girl just turned away as I'm about to come because it would ruin the blow job. after a guy cums the d*** becomes really sensitive and it feels extra amazing if she keeps sucking after they cum.

[Anonymous]

it takes great

[Anonymous]

I've always swallowed.

[Anonymous]

When do you decide to swallow?