Is it common for girls to perform Analingus? Should I break up with this girl?

[Anonymous]

Is analingus common for girls to do? Analingus is as* licking, playing the "rusty trombone", whatever you want to call it. I had thought it was really rare and weird but my friend told me that it happens a ll the time but people just don't talk about it. I heard that this girl I am hooking up with now, played the rusty trombone with her past boyfriend and ate out his as*hole. Also guys have come on her face. I think this is weird and disgusting that she did it to other guys. Should I stop hanging out with her? Does this reflect poorly on her? We are both 23 It sorta weirds me out to be with a girl who has been really dirty in the past sexually. Am I overreacting?

[kpoppa]

It is not as common for younger women and for younger men to engage in anal stimulation/anal play or anal sex. There is a bit of "perceived homosexuality" as men perform it on each other. A hang up many a young guy needs to get over, myself included.

Over the years, I have found that most women are much more accommodating to the males sexual requests, than the other way around. Personally, I enjoy it and also prostate massage or insertion of vibrators, butt plugs and even being gently the recipient of female domination with her wearing a strap on. I'm a guy prefers everything to be extra clean, down there, while there are some that don't.

I think it started as a young man when an older more experienced woman inserted her finger in my anus just before ejaculating. The way she expertly massaged my prostate (the male "g-spot") was very surprising when it happened unannounced, after I told her I was about to cum, even though I completely I trusted her as the more experienced one, but the orgasm was amazing. She asked me if I would have consented, if she would have asked and I said no. I would have missed out.

So guys and girls, try a but of anal play. It is stimulating and and may make anal sex easier if performed on your partner as part of foreplay leading to. I know many men are interested in having anal sex with their female partners (not on of my favorites, but will accommodate her requests) and many young women do not want to do it, but once they do, and their partner assures them they are fully in control of everything, they can't get enough of the deeper anal stimulation that brings intense orgasms. Just take it slow, maybe a bit of plastic wrap if you're squeamish?

[Jfsbtr]

If she is loyal to and you see a future with her. Then those past experiences should have you well pleased. It depends on if she still out there now.

[Takkunlee]

Everyone wants to hear about a partner's past sexual experience but they don't REALLY want to hear about it. I'd say don't try to think about it so much, or try to think about it as at least she knows what she's doing and at least she's open to trying new things. Also, don't knock it till you try it. A lot of guys enjoy it but it's not talked about because guys have this weird misconception that anything involving his butt accept pooping is considered gay.

[Asker]

So girls do it a lot? like your friends?

[Takkunlee]

I don't know how often they've done it but most of them have tried it.

[audreymarie21]

everyone's different and likes different things, you should be open minded. I'm 22 and I have tried anal a few times with my boyfriend, once just to try it, and then a couple times as an alternative while I had my period. and then I've licked his asshole (in the shower! lol) because we like to try new things, to see what works for us... this doesn't make me a bad person. try not to be so uptight about sex, you'll have more fun.

[Asker]

Do you thing if a guy wants a girl to do it most will agree?

[audreymarie21]

If you're in a relationship and its something you'd really like to try, then I definitely think its worth bringing up, I don't know if she'd say yes or not, but you'll never know if you don't ask

[arieza]

I don't necessarily think it reflects poorly on her, it just something that I think not a lot of girls are willing to do. I personally, would never do it, and I don't really consider myself sexually conservative.

[Asker]

What do you mean sexually conservative?

[Asker]

So you haven't heard of girls who have done it?

[thumbelinasplace01]

How do you know this to be true? Believe half of what you hear and everything you see.

[PAP92994]

thats weird I've never met anyone who has done that