Guys, do you feel threatened by dildo and vibrators?

My girlfriend likes to involve a vibrator on her clit whenever we have sex which does my head in because it makes me feel like I'm not doing a good job. Have you ever felt that way?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yea I do sometimes. But you have to look at it from the point that she enjoys what she enjoys, so would you rather her get off and have a great time or her wishing she had more? Dildos and vibrators are great. I have used one with a gal before and they seem to enjoy sex the most. And then I was with a girl who wouldn't even touch a vibe. It just depends on the girl NOT on the guy. Don't take it personally.

  • Possibly. It depends. If she prefers the toy over me, that would make me feel very bad. If she is just using it to add extra stimulation while we are having sex to help her orgasm, I am fine with that.

Most Helpful Girl

  • I think its funny how guys are when it was a man that invented them

    • did you know the very first vibrator was steam powered? lol

    • Wow I heard it was first used for medical purpose

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  • Until someone invents a vibrator with fingers, lips, and a tongue -- no. I do not feel threatened! :D

  • Psh. It's each persons responsibility to get their own O. If your lady feels more pleasure with a vibrator, good on her. I guarantee she's not thinking in her head "I wish his penis was the vibrator". All she's thinking about is "Oh my f***ing god, this feels so f***ing good. I'm going to orgasm any second with this man"

  • That depends. If the dildo is fairly large and she can use it all, then that means she's fairly large down there and that's, likely, her preference. Why would I want to be with a women like that? There are plenty of other fish in the sea.

  • Wow I don't think guys should feel that way..guys can touch you all over at the same time and he can stop or go faster/slower plus you can cuddle after

  • I don't think guys should guys don't require batteries and can touch you at the same time why doing it

  • Nah, I say good for her.

    A lot of girls can't orgasm from penetration alone regardless of how good it is, so she probably needs the clit stimulation. You can do it for her, you know.