Are there any guys who dislike fingering girls?

Aside from homosexual guys who obviously would not enjoy it to begin with(someones bound to mention it), have you ever met or slept with a guy who doesn't enjoy fingering? I mean, there are guys who enjoy giving oral sex and guys who don't, so I just ask out of curiosity. I couldn't be with a guy who doesn't want to finger because it's really enjoyable for me and I wouldn't ask for much in bed to begin with. Although from my understanding on this site asking for pleasure in bed is already asking for too much Sooooo, anyone?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I actually have a friend who doesn't like fingering girls or going down on them. His philosophy is that the vagina is there for one reason and that's for a penis to go in it and nothing else. Let me tell you that he has had a good amount of short term relationships, haha. However, he has been with this latest girl for almost a year. So that must mean either his intercourse game is amazing, she masturbates a lot or she's getting the fingering and going down on her from someone else.

    I personally love to do whatever I can to a vagina just as long as it doesn't hurt the woman. The vagina is like my playground, lol. I like to finger and go down at the same time because I can make a girl squirt that way.

    • Alot of women learn to accept it when a guy doesn't enjoy giving oral sex(cause most guys aren't too keen about it to begin with) and I guess the same for fingering. In a lot of peoples minds, sex is more of a male thing. But I think that mentality is prominent among girls who've never had good sex

    • That is very true and sad at the same time. I mean there's so many guys out there who will say "hey give me a blow job baby" but they won't return the favor. Yes, most guys aren't too keen on where to begin when it comes to a vagina let alone going down on a girl or fingering her. That's when the book "She Comes First" will be handy for them. I read that book a long time ago to get a better understand to see if I was doing things right and I was. I got a lot of good advice out of there also

  • I've never known of a guy that didn't like to do it, myself included. Unlike oral, you don't have to deal with sometimes unpleasant odors or tastes. Not to mention, if a guy really knows what he is doing with his fingers, he can give his girl quite the O.

    My record once was to go on for three hours straight (hand cramps like a son of a gun!) until I finally gave my girl her first squirting orgasm. Talk about intense! Finally, she said, you're such a #$&)*($&# FD*&)$&*# ) tease, just *)$#&)*(#&$)(*#$ me already. That was the short version. Needless to say, it was a wonderful night. Fingering, when a guy knows how to do it, can be a LOT of fun. :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I haven't met anyone who disliked fingering any girl. They might not get as turned on or pleasured compared to the girl at the moment that they may not prefer to do that, but not hate. I only know a reason why is that kind of guy is more selfish or lazy and need to be the one "fingered" or rubbed instead. Not that I mean it in a bad way but it's what they know and can handle better is their own body.

    My fiance doesn't mind since he and I can only really enjoy intimacy if we know the other person is being pleasured.

  • This may not be much help seeing as I have only been fingered by one guy and that is my boyfriend. But I have asked him how that is pleasurable for him and he tells me when he fingers me or goes down there orally, it puts him into even more of a mood and gets him sexually excited. So I would imagine a lot of guys would feel like that also.

    • yep! I mean, I love giving blowjobs and it gets me even more in the mood ya know. I'd imagine the same for guys

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  • haha, I like fingering girls. I like doing other stuff more, but I would never deprive a girl of something like that.

  • I have never heard of a guy who wouldn't do it, or girls I know complain their guy wasn't into it. Always easier to get her going that way because you can apply more pressure both externally and internally. Only a really selfish guy wouldn't be into that

  • I have. One across two guys who don't like fingering girls. It's a deal breaker for me. As I come mainly orally and by fingers.