Is being a virgin attractive to guys?

I'm 21 and still haven't done the deed. So I'm wondering is it attractive to other guys or do they think what the hell is wrong with you. I'm pretty by the way, or at least the guy I'm talking to says so... Please indicate if your a virgin or not and if your anon. how many people you've done it with. Just curious to hear the guys questions.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • ok, first no, I'm not a virgin, but I've only done it with one girl (my ex) ( and it was both our first times) believe it or not, most guys don't really care if you're a virgin or not, it's a retardedly big deal in high-school, but after high-school, no one really cares. I mean the virgin thing can be kind of a turn on.. but it doesn't really make much difference to most guys. the good ones just care about who you are, and if they really like you, then it doesn't really matter at all. and if you're a virgin, then odds are you're a good person with good morals, not a total whore, that's what guys care about, we don't mind if you're not a virgin, but we don't want to do it with a total whore

  • I lost my virginity when I was 19 and I was SO glad to lose it...I do not find virginity to be attractive and have always avoided virgins...that said...if I fell in love with a girl and found out after the fact, I cannot see me leaving her for that...if I knew in advance, however, I would likely not have dated her...(:(:(:

Most Helpful Girls

  • I think some guys think its attractive because they want to be the first to pop your cherry, but there's the other guys would may think its attractive because you care about yourself and your body and that you don't want to just give yourself to any guy that's willing. I lost my virginity to my husband on our wedding night. I think its a special thing that people want to wait. So, yea, its a beautiful yet attractive thing.

  • I'm 22 and still a virgin. Plus I am a pretty girl myself.

    If the guy really cares that much at the fact you are a virgin then he really isn't the one.

  • You don't have to make excuses for calling your self pretty, js. And guys are different, not all of them may feel one way about it.

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  • I am almost 22, and a virgin. I would be happier with a virgin because I would like my first time to be her first time too. I would find that more... romantic, or special.

  • Eh it's not attractive nor is it unattractive.. it just IS haha

  • im 19 and still virgin, and I wanna do it with the right one and only, and I hope she is a virgin because is something special that we both share our first time at that true moment of beauty

    • I agree, you said that beautifully

    • thank you <3

  • i'm 24 and still a virgin, although I've experienced, both received and have given oral sex before, done everything else except for penetration

  • It would not make a difference to me if a girl I was interested in was a virgin.

  • well you won't have a chip on your shoulder like male virgins do

  • yeah I'm 23 and still a virgin

  • I think it is very attractive, because you aren't just giving it out to anyone. For some reason, girls think it's an insecurity thing and we don't want to be compared to the guys before us (which it may be for some guys), but I don't think that is why it's attractive to most guys. It is so much better than most girls out there that are just giving it away a lot for little to no effort. You are in the minority.