My boyfriend just told me that my boobs look saggy then told me he was kidding when I got angry?!

[Anonymous]

What the f*** - I'm 18 so I doubt they're that bad. But I went from an a to a c in 5 months. So naturally they do hang a bit lower. He said he was joking but I'm so hurt that I'm almost crying. What the f*** was he thinking? He just keeps saying "I just thought it would be funny"

[Anonymous]

girls chewing guys out for stuff like this is how men learn to not just say something because it pops into their head that just because he tells his buddy that he's got moobs and they all laugh that women are the same as men...we arent...men don't understand the pressure that women have to be perfect with their bodies but I bet if you make a crack about how he's always broke or can't get a good job he won't find that too funny because that's the pressure that men have to deal with, basically he just made a stupid ass comment that was insensitive not knowing it would hurt your feelings so either you have to let it go as such or you can dwell on it and punish him for it for months or years it's kind of up to you, he can't exactly take it back now.

[donteallen]

can you answer mine too.. its in behaviors thanks..

um he is just immature he would not know what real saggy titties were like if he thought with all his brain.. but listen you are young with no kids? theyre fine.. he is confused.. smack him and tell him ..be a man!

[Aizou]

guys tend to joke around a lot, especialy around there

friends where they are the most comfortable, so if

comfortable to joke around you, that's a good sign, although

he probably forgot that girls take everything serious.. ^-^

[Aizou]

I just realized I made a lot of typos ^-^

[Asker]

Oh well haha.

[Couter]

Stop being a princess. I know your probably used to all of your friends reassuring you and calling you beautiful every time you post a picture on Facebook, but in a real relationship you're supposed to be honest.

I would think differently, but the fact that even you admitted they're hanging a bit lower just says that your pissed off that he doesn't see you as some sort of infallibly beautiful being

If you want a boyfriend who lies to your face then that's your call, but you have no right to cry because you are in a relationship with a guy who feels comfortable enough around you to poke fun at your less-than-perfect aspects.

Real people have flaws, the beauty of being in a relationship is that they don't matter.

[Asker]

Its my biggest insecurity and he knows that though. I hate my breasts now and for him to poke fun is completely rude. And no, I'm not one of those stupid Facebook compliment fisher attention whores I don't even have Facebook.

[Couter]

Then you need to work on your self-confidence. Hating your breasts because they don't look like that girls breasts is ridiculous. Be proud of who you are and what you look like, you can't change it, so you can either go around being completely miserable and crying any time someone draws attention to them, or you can be proud of them, realize that there are plenty of guys out there who think their perfect. The problem is you and your self-image problems, not your boyfriend.

[Asker]

That girls breasts? I just want my old ones before they ballooned into C's. But maybe you're right. Thanks anyways.

[Couter]

"That girl" in this case being a younger you. I'm pretty sure every person alive wishes they could look like themselves 5 years ago. Everyone has something they wish was a little different, I wish my complexion weren't so godawful. I get a ton of blackheads, I've tried damn near everything I've heard of to change it, but that's just the way my body is. I'm not proud of it, but I'm not about to go cry and call people a**holes if they point it out (as many girls have done in the past).

[Asker]

Not even 5? Like a few months ago would be enough. :| but okay.

[Addtdm1025]

So I guess when someone tells you, that you have a tiny dick you're going to be just fine and not act like a little prince then... Right? Highly doubt ;)

[Anonymous]

You should be happy you're packing Cs. That's a great size! Huge turn on!

[Couter]

Thank you for proving my point.

[Asker]

I hate them! Thanks for your opinion though, I'm glad someone likes them.

[Opinion Owner]

Take a pic in a bikini (without your face) and put it up! I bet you'll be pretty pleased with the reaction. Nothing like a nice pair of natural boobs.

[Anonymous]

He shouldn't have to apologize just because you don't have a sense of humor.

[Asker]

That would be like me saying his d*** is small and then laughing.

[Couter]

You should say that... Either he'll learn a lesson about being more sensitive, or you will learn a lesson about positive self-image. Going and crying on an internet forum is something an 8 year old would do, your an adult, learn how to act like one.

[Asker]

*you're. Didn't you go to school? Act like it. Quit criticizing me please. I get your point.

[Anonymous]

guys put their foot in their mouth ALL the time.