Curvy vs slender? Guys? What do you really prefer?

So I'm tired hearing about how men like curvy women over slender or skinny women. I'm in the slender category and I find it very annoying when girls who are curvy are constantly bashing women who are athletic or slender. All I hear is "men don't like bones" and "Ew she's so skinny!" And pictures like these: link

They take a beautiful curvy woman and then compare it to some aneorxic looking boney unhealthy woman! Not fair to us.

So men I want your input.

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I'm not meaning to offend anyone an I know different guys will have different answers. I'm just tired of curvy or voluptuous girls saying girls with my kind of body are gross or boney when we're nowhere near that.

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Hey everyone just ignore this question because the links failed me. Lol and seems ljke most of the guys say curvy. I just don't get that. I go to the gym and make sure my stomach says flat and my legs stay toned without being sticks. And I still have hips and a butt. Anyway, I'm the smallest of all my friends and guys usually say that I'm the "hot one". But anyway kudos to the the heavier curvy girls!
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Most Helpful Girls

  • science has shown that men prefer a high hip to waist ratio which means, the hips can be even exaggerated and the man will still find the woman attractive. there was an experiment conducted in which researchers digitally increased the size of the woman's hips in a photo and asked men to choose and 9/10 they chose the one with the really high hip to waiste ration. the men explained that these characteristics like curves helped them to identify a woman and scientists believe it's sort of a primal way that men learned to identify women from men in primitive times for procreation, etc. So, yeah. I was a late bloomer myself and pty much always althletic. But, I think its more about instinct, like why men like boobs and stuff. Don't take it personal, bcs body isn't everything.

  • A slender woman can have curves. a nice toned body has curves. not being fat doesn't mean you're anorexic. if they think a thin woman feels like a bone I guess they never touched one before. the problem is that when people usually say curvy, what they're really saying is fat.

  • 'Curvy' doesn't mean 'heavy'. And it is true that slender women get compared to curvy women unfairly. I'm curvy and I feel ya. (but keep in mind curvy girls have to deal with people confusing fat and curvy. XD) Win/Win- when people get BOTH descriptions right.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Both can be bad or both can be good. What matters is someones health and how they take care of themselves. Sometimes curvy can look good and sometimes slender can look good, it depends on if the person takes care of their body.

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    But seriously, both slender & curvy women are beautiful. Sorry to hear that you feel unfairly compared, but it's really not that way so just ignore it.

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  • None of your links worked just FYI?

    • Ugh! Now I'm mad. Well thanks for telling me.Thwy work when I use them though

    • You might be logged in to view personalized search results? Why not link to specific images, not a search result? That should work I think.

  • If she has an ass, boobs, and a pretty face. They're all over it.

  • Absolutely the curves.

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  • I've always preferred curvy and voluptuous women as I find them very attractive, feminine and the perfect partner for childbearing due to their wider hips and bigger butt 😊

  • no offense but looks shouldn't really matter if you love the person, you love them for who they are not what they look like or what thier physical properties are, at least to me looks don't matter its all about personality and being able to relate to one another.

  • Sorry, but I do prefer curvy. I like a woman to look like a woman.

    I also prefer (personality wise) someone who isn't calorie counting all the time, or spending every day at the gym. Those women tend to be curvy.

  • Right click the image and click copy image location and paste it (ctrl v).

  • I prefer a slender woman, but a woman that isn't a stick.