How important is the female orgasm in relationship?

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How important is the female orgasm in relationship? It is very important?  important? not so important?

PoeticNinja · Accepted Answer

It's very important. Especially, when the girl is consistently orgasmic during intercourse. (Vaginal intercourse, of course.) - If she can get herself off, you should be able too.

There are girls who have a hard time orgasm.

- Not relaxed enough.

- Not communicating with you about what to do to make her orgasm.

- They're not really into the sex.

- It can stem from body issues.

Either way, an orgasm is very important. As it should be for the guy. Guys tend to feel like a 'lesser' man if he can't get his girl to orgasm.. -.-"

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Think of it this way, because male or female, we're all human. If you got into a relationship, and your partner always got you horny, but never gave you satisfaction, or was simply unable, would that matter to you? We'll take it a step further, and say that now, you being able to achieve satisfaction is not as easy as 'rubbing one out,' because stimulating yourself just doesn't get the job done right.

It's really off-putting.

cazza3 · Accepted Answer

Very important as it shows that the guy is not a selfish prick just worried about his own gratification but that he wants to put in the time and effort required to ensure his girlfriend is sexually satisfied. Plus sex is always much better when each party is focused on the other not just themselves

sovetskii13 · Accepted Answer

I think it's very important because most guys can easily orgasm. Girls require more time to become fully aroused, and more stimulation, and more patience to reach orgasm. If the guy is not willing to do everything he can to please the girl as much as she is pleasing him, then the girl is not gonna be happy with the sexual part of her relationship which can lead to not being happy emotionally. Sex (in this situation) is between a man and a woman. They each have to play a role, and their biggest aim is for both of them to orgasm during their sexual encounter.

native65 · Accepted Answer

Not only is it important to her, but to me as well. I want to make sure my woman is satisfied and not frustrated with our sexual relationship... I actually get turned on more when I feel a women shiver with an orgasm I just gave her...

LoveLust · Answer

It's very important to her and it should be for you too. It's harder for a woman to get an orgasm than it is for a guy. It's way more intense for us though. It should be something you both should enjoy.

missannabee · Answer

How important is the male orgasm in a relationship?

Mtsmith · Answer

Hers gives me as much pleasure, if not more, than mid. I love making her happy and orgasming as often an as many ways as she wants.

acealmighty13 · Answer

Very important to me.  If she isn't enjoying our time together then it isn't as fun for me.  Why bother?  Sex just isn't exciting if only one partner is enjoying it.  I'm not much into cunnilingus but my fingers and hands make up for it.  Plus, when I've done my part and she's happy, she'll take very good care of me. :-)

beerY33 · Answer

Why are you singling out the female orgasm? If anyone thinks male and female orgasms vary in importance, they need to... go away... or something

Blue_eyed_beauty · Answer

Very important. If the guy gets to orgasm every time in sex then so should the girl. Sexual satisfaction is very important to both the male and female. It shouldn't be a one sided thing. The girl should have just as much pleasure as the guy.

psm357 · Answer

it is very important. it is one of the most pleasurable thing a girl can feel

xSweetestSinx · Answer

this is a stupid question. would you ask a guy if its important for him to get off during sex?

justme20 · Answer

VERY important. I wonder how men would feel if they never or rarely got off

TheGodEmperorLeto · Answer

just as important as the male orgasm in a relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

Well unless the guy is a selfish prick and doesn't see each other as equals, it's just as important and the guy orgasiming. Don't ever think a women doesn't deserve one when you do.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly, for me, having an orgasm is not very important in my relationship. Because of one reason or another I've never been able to achive orgasm and it's not my partners fault. I know he tries his best but I just haven't ever been able to. This doesn't make me love him any less. And as for sex, I still enjoy it even if I don't get off. Maybe I'll change my attitude after I've had an orgasm but I just don't think it's that important if you care for someone and they try their best.