Girls have you ever not been able to tell if a guy came inside you or not?

[Anonymous]

I'm trying to figure out what happened here and what I should do. I met this girl at one of my friend's birthday parties. We had a lot in common and got flirty right away. She was pretty drunk to be honest (makes me look bad) and all over me. We were in swimsuits because my buddy had a pool so it didn't take long for grind dancing to turn into intercourse. She was grinding on me for awhile and then grabbed me and put it in. We only had sex for about a minute before she stopped it but I came inside her. I thought (hoped) she was on the pill if she was doing this. Later when we were alone we had sex again and this time she made me wear a condom. Is it possible she did not know I already came in her once? Could she have been drunk and not remember or not felt anything when it happened?

[Anonymous]

Alcohol might affect the pill :( It wouldn't have been reliable anyway. And judging by her wanting to have you put on a condom, I'd say she wasn't on the pill. She might have been using the condom to protect from STIs of course.

To be honest? Whenever my boyfriend came in me, I couldn't feel it. I never can. I have to ask whether or not it happened. Usually, by the way he collapses, I can tell. You guys probably weren't in the position for collapsing, were you? :P

She probably has no idea. It might be a good idea to tell her that it happened. Girls can only really get pregnant for about a week in each month.

Tell her to take a morning after. It forces a period to come on. That way, both of you will be safe. It doesn't have to be the morning right after it happened, right? It can be during that week or a couple days after even (If my science is correct). Don't leave it too long, kay?

Best of luck ^_^

[Asker]

Ok thank you

[timetowaste]

Er. I can always tell.. if not when it happens, then after he pulls out. If she was drunk she might not have known though..

[katiesmuff]

Being drunk she may not have realized you did, I know a few times I've been drunk and didn't realize it!

[Anonymous]

She was drunk. That should answer a great deal alone.

Few, if any smart choices were ever made in such a condition. She might have even noticed at the time but she didn't think much of it and then completely forgotten it by the next day. It's a toss up. She could be on the pill and just made you wear protection just to make sure or she could be completely un-aware especially if you were in a pool.

[Betwyn]

I can usually feel the warmth of it.. the way his d*** moves when it happens..

And when he pulls out.. you know when its dribbling, sliding back out..

but when I'm drunk... I often don't know...

[MissConfused93]

Text her right now! you need to find out. Maybe she didn't know and you've now got a baby on the way.

[CindiluvsFriends]

Well since she was drunk I doubt she knew.

I can tell ONLY by the noises he makes. Lol

[Anonymous]

ur main concern is to call her right away...she might be pregnant

[Anonymous]

I've only had sex a condom and felt when he finished even though he was wearing one. I felt the warmth of it. You need to tell her what happened ASAP.