Bra and panties pics?

[Anonymous]

i took a couple pics of me in my bra and panties for this guy I was casually dating (we didn't establish what we were so I assume) but he's on vacation for two months so I wanted to surprise him.. I'm 21 By the way. I do trust him...but I'm a little worried now what may happen with the pic or if he will show his friends. I usually do not send these types of pics to guys that ask for them because they are jerks and he did not ask me to send naughty pics although he sent a shower pic of himself (but it was a head shot). I don't want to come off as a slut, but he has seen that much skin on me before and I have told him I don't want to have sex with him yet. if this was a bad move should I message him saying something? when he comes back I do plan to talk about how I feel with him and establish a relationship if he wants that because I love being with him and we have great chemistry (hes 25)

[Couter]

Most guy's don't want their friends fantasizing about their girlfriend. If the pictures are overtly sexual, I doubt he will show anyone. If it's more like a well-taken modelling picture, then it might be a possibility. I was dating a girl who did modelling and I would show her pictures to some of my friends (although they were mostly girls). She had them posted on Facebook so I figured it was a safe bet lol.

It might be worth it to send a quick message along the lines of "by the way, those pictures are for your eyes only."

I don't think it's a bad move, but Orion makes a pretty good point, if you want to take a naughty picture for whatever reason, either take it as a classy model shot, or keep your face out of it if you want to get dirty.

[Asker]

its not really "dirty" I'm smiling in the picture its just that I happen to have only a bra and panties on (boyshorts) never sent it to a guy before so I just wanted to know what to expect, or if its a turn off/slutty. yeah if she had it up on Facebook I'd say its fine to show off her pics. lol

[ObscuredBeyond]

If you're that sure that you'll regret it later, I'd say don't send any more pictures. Let happen what will with the ones you did send. Consider it a lesson learned. By bringing it up here, a portion of the web already knows you've done it, even if we don't know your name.

Simply don't produce any additional pictures, and yours will disappear down the funnel of a billion dirty pictures other. And if anyone does find it, most likely it'll be found by someone who doesn't know you from Eve. If you're worried about stalkers...it's not outside the realm of possibility. But I don't see it in your future.

[Orion]

Never take a picture of yourself that includes your entire face if you going to take pics like that and don't know what will happen to them. crop them so they cut part of your face and just send him pics of you clothed if you want him to see your face. this way you don't end up on some random p*rn site in 5 years if things go south.

[baliguy11]

I do not recommend any one send a pic they might regret later. and really think about it. I never would, even if she begged me. down the road, that info is out there. and you cannot control what happens with it.

[victor729]

Communication is the key to a strong relationship. Talk to him about it. There needs to be a comfort zone for both you and your partner.

[Lockdown]

It really depends. I have pictures and videos of women I've dated and ex-gfs, but I would never blast them out on the internet or show any of my friends.

Strictly for my eyes only. But that's me.

I say it really depends on the guy. Good luck.

[Anonymous]

He probably won't show them while you are together, but if you break up. He might. So it depends on how you feel about that.

[Anonymous]

The worst that will probably happen is he could show his buddies to make them a little bit jealous and brag about how sexy you are. He will probably keep them to himself though.