So basically I was talking to this guy his name was Nick, I think I mentioned him in previous posts we hung out and hooked up and I really liked him and thought it was going somewhere until we just stopped talking. It was so odd how it ended, I mean it never really ended he just stopped texting and I stopped trying to contact him. I had him on FB and I saw his statuses and stuff I knew that he was in the process of getting a job and getting his license (it's kind of embarrassing if you think about it, he is 23 with a 4 year old and he didn't work or have a license due to his probation). Well I see him on his FB talking to some slut and I was like, whatever he is always talking to sluts... go figure. I went on this girls page and looked at her, first of all she is one of the ugliest people I have ever seen, she lives in the slummiest area in our county AND she has a kid! She is like 20 with a 2 year old.. so it obviously means she's a stupid whore who couldn't keep her legs closed or use a condom why would he be attracted to such trash? Let me just say I am 21, graduating college in a year, going to law school, like I have a lot going for me why would he pick trash over class?
I honest to God hope that he gives her an STD, I just got tested (I try to make it a habit to get tested after ending a sexual relationship) and part of me hopes he gave me some simple STD like chlamydia just so I know that he will give it to her and I would never tell him! I also have considered the fact that he is on probation and I know he smokes pot, I know where he keeps it I know people on probation shouldn't smoke pot, and I wonder who I could tell and what would happen to him. There is so much stuff that I want to do, I know where he lives I know his car. he just bought his car and I know that cars with sugar in the tank don't run, and he doesn't have the money to buy a new one.. I hate him I hope that everything bad in life happens to him. I did finally delete him from my phone and FB, and I met a new guy who likes me and I like him so I guess we will see.
First off you need to know that his choice was nothing personal over you. He is young and has no idea what he wants or what is best for him. Most likely he knows how much you have going for yourself and can't see how he would fit in to your world. By going out with a lesser woman he can be more comfortable about himself and not feel like a complete looser. You will run into several of these guys though out your life but you will also find a guy that is on your level and everything will be as it should. Have you ever noticed a successful actress or CEO marry a man of less than equal stature, if you have I bet they got divorced. The reason is that we all need to find our equal, if not things will never work out. Good Luck and don't get so mad about other peoples dumb decisions.
It's not that guys love disgusting whores, you just have particularly poor taste in men. For starters, try looking for a guy who a) has a job, b) has a license, and c) is not on probation for committing a crime.
Ironically, you call her a whore for having a child when she was 18 and basically called him an idiot for being attracted to her, yet your attracted to a man who had a child when he was 19.
And now you want to ruin his life because he didn't want to have a relationship with you.
You may be going to law school, but you're not even close to being a decent girl with a lot going for you. A decent girl wouldn't wish an std on someone, and a decent girl wouldn't try to ruin a man's life because he chose someone else, especially when he has a 4 year old child. Whatever you do to him will affect his child as well.
Pretty much all the guys I know would love to have a classy girlfriend, myself included.
Personally, I cannot stand disgusting wh*res. I like a girl who is loyal, compassionate, intelligent, funny, beautiful, ambitious and ethical. If your the kinda girl who hangs out in leather boots on street corners, tries taking money out of an ATM with a credit card, values sex above all else and/ or donte believe cheating is bad, stay at least 1000 miles away from me. Sex is ala great supplement to a relationship but is not THE relationship. Wish the majority of my generation would realize this.
Wow, you are very judgmental. I don't think her having a child and living in a bad neighborhood makes her a whore. Also, what makes you think some other girl out there isn't thinking the same thing about you for sleeping with this loser?
Lol, you can't come up with a decent argument so you block me and continue arguing anyways, I can already tell you're going to make an awesome lawyer. Are you going to curse out the judge when he overrules you as well?
Once again you have demonstrated your complete inability to form a rational thought. You post on an internet forum, where the whole idea is to get different opinions from both genders, but when someone calls you on your BS, the best discussion you can muster is to curse them out.
And for the record, your credentials aren't that impressive.
Lets see...I didn't read your entire story, just so you know...but holy shnikies, do you sound bitter. Yes, men can be stupid and think with their d***s sometimes. Does this make them bad? No, this makes them guys. Guys are visual. And more often than not, the whores are more visually appealing, while the "better" girls are more modest and closed off. Guys in our age bracket (18-24) are just out of high school, and probably on their own with no parents around to stifle their wants. They want sex, cause, let's face it, they're guys and that's what they want. And those girls who practically have a "FREE SEX" sign pasted to their forehead, are going to attract these guys. It is your job to pick through these guys and find the good ones. Yes, this is the time when the nice guys come out on top!
Also, you're no better than the whores since you hooked up with him. If you want a good man, you be a good woman. This Nick is not mature yet. Go find a good guy. And don't vent. It's not attractive.
Yowza, bitter much? You've got the whole jilted lover thing going on. Listen, I know not only getting rejected hurts, but to get rejected for someone "less" than yourself is like a slap in the face. Been there, experienced that pain. But wishing spiteful things on him doesn't look good on you! STDs, exposing his pot stash, sugar in the car... I think you know better than this.
This guy definitely does NOT sound like a winner (he's on probation for goodness sake), so count your blessings. You're off to much better possibilities out there in law school. So let go of that dead weight around your ankle that's holding you down. Take the high road, hold onto your self-respect and feel good about YOU!
So to actually answer your question... DECENT guys fall for the decent girls. Crap guys fall for crap girls typically. And this guy does sound like a piece of crap.
And in all your rantings and ravings, I don't really see you raining abuses on that scum of a guy. All I see is you ragging on the girl. What makes you think your so much better. #major queen bitch# right here. Get over it already. The guy wasn't worth a cent. Besides why did you give it up knowing he wasn't committed to you #smh#
Because he knows her legs are always open and that she will open her mouth and legs and smoke with him without wanting a relationship. He knows you're the serious type and would probably want a relationship in the future. You're better than him. Keep that in mind.