I was 18.
Now mind you we been dating for a little bit. No sex or nothing. But I was really trying. She kept saying not now time is not right.
We were doing some heavy petting for days. Then one she came to me with a box all gift wrap. The works you know.
I ask what with the gift box. She goes it time now. I go huh. I was dumb I didn't catch her clues and hints.
She said "open it come on open it" So I opened it. Guess what was inside. It was a bunch of lingerie and panties. I was lost and confused.
I go whats with this stuff. I kid you not this next part is going to be word for word. She said "These are are for you the wear tonight. I want our first time to be super special. So I went Fredricks and with your sizes. Got you some of these things I thought you might like."
Here is what going through my mind. This girl is freaking nuts and at the same time I was getting super turned on. By the idea.
I was like. No fucking way I'm wearing that shit. My mouth was saying and my brain was saying. Shut the fuck up mouth your going to blow your chance of getting laid.
Well needless to say I wore it and had the best sex of my life. She turned me into a lingerie wearing crosadresser.
We were together for 3 years. In those 3 years. I became real comfortable in lingerie. So after 28 years I still wear lingerie. I may not be with her any more. But her affect on me is still active.
Women after her think I'm fucked in the head. Maybe they are right, but at least I'm happy with my brainwashing from 28 years ago.
Would I change this event if I could? I thought about that. And answer is always the same. No way because I would have missed out on some great memories and lifetime of enjoying ladies lingerie.
If the pain isn't too much you can definitely have a good time with it. The pain is really the only thing that'll hold you back, once you're in the moment you relax and let your body go with the flow. Hopefully your guy realizes not to beat it up the first time lol
hahaha beat it up but that's good to hear then
Of course it can. As long as you are in a committed relationship that you are comfortable in, it will be a good time for you (given that it is something you truly want to do). And it won't necessarily be painful, that varies from person to person, just make sure you're plenty wet and you'll be good to go.
As long as the two of you are completely comfortable with each other, you can have a very fun time, and of course it can be passionate. It all depends on the tone of the mood that led you to getting naked.
Being a virgin has nothing to do with whether sex is passionate or not, that only depends on the people who are having sex, not the experience they have. If you are set on making it a light, fun time, don't take things so seriously, and you can have tons of fun.
Don't worry, just make sure it's something you want to do :)
It hurts really bad, I didn't enjoy it at all. Hence why I've never wanted to have sex again.
That's rational./s
ohhh well maybe it was just you. Probably weren't relaxed enough.
well I hate sex
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!For a girl first time sex really is painful (due to hymen and tightness of your passage) but only to the initial few minutes. If you are aroused and letting your body relax - after the initial moments the vagina opens for the reception and you will enjoy the sex.
and for having fun - experience is not needed always. two virgins can have a very pleasant sex too.
I wouldn't know I'm still a virgin (and yes I'm a 22 year old man) but I have a girlfriend though.
There's nothing wrong with that though.
I know my girlfriend said she didn't guys like me still existed
Yes, mine was.
just make sure your stretched out enough ...
Yes! Actually, the first time can be fun even if *both* of you are virgins. You just have to relax and be free to communicate and laugh with your partner.
I would feel kind of awkward laughing since it would be my first time lol
Well during my first time, we laughed because it already WAS awkward and clumsy :P If you have a partner you're truly comfortable with, doing something new is so much easier.
Yeah well in that case it shouldn't be awkward then.
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